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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This guy and I met online through a mutual friend. He gave me his number first and I gave him mine and for the past month we text and talk on the phone non stop. We have so much in common and I get the feeling he likes talking to me but whenever I bring up "hanging out in person", he seems to ignore it, make a joke, or come up with some excuse. He asked me a while ago what would we do when we get together and I gave him suggestions and he sarcastically said, "oh you're ready for me." He said he wants to be closer friends and wants me to tell him all my extremely personal business, etc. but he can't even meet me somewhere. Just the other day I asked him what will he do this last week before school starts back and he says, "probably hang out with some friends." I told him, what about us hanging out and he said I was desperate and a crybaby. Is he just being nice to me and not interested or am I thinking too much into this?How can we talk almost everyday but he doesn't even want to see me, he'll compliment me then insult me three times over. I have no idea whats wrong with him and if I say why is he being mean or rude he makes a joke. I'm so confused! I need advice, please.
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (13 August 2011):
 He sounds annoying to me. I wouldn't bother with him. Don't reply to his text any more, and see if you get a reaction. You don't really know him, he's making you feel uncomfortable, so why continue any form of contact with him. If he wanted to be your friend, you would have met by now.
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