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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

A guy proposed to me online, then he saw a photo of me and changed his mind. Now he just wants friendship. Please help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - so here is my problem....There is a boy whom i love madly. v met on facebook n then after some days of chatting, he proposed me. i told him to think again n see my photo 1st of all bt he said that he love me for what i am and will never leave me ...

I am afraid to tell him I want to spend as much time with him as possible incase I scare him away

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - So I had been talking to this guy through email over a period of three months, he would tell me about his journeys overseas and about himself and vice versa and we really connected and we even spoke on msn on christmas day. Each day I would wake up ...

My online guy already has a girlfriend, what should I do before we get any closer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Dear All, I am getting divorced from my husband (our marriage was dead for a long time, this is only making it formal) and broke up with my boy friend of 3 years . I have been single for close to a year. Now there is this guy whom I met on facebo...

I met a guy online, we met up, we stayed in touch, now he is too busy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I met a guy online. We talked back and forth for about a month through emails, texts, and on the phone before we met in person. The first date was awesome. We both felt that instant connection with each other. We then had a second date and it ...

Is this cheating or not? What should I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Hi cupid, this sound like a cheating but i want to ask this. any answer is acceptable. i met this girl last year 2009 on the internet and we are planning to see each other. she's 23 and am 22. i asked her whether she had a boy friend and she said ...

Why not me? Whats wrong with me? Am I really that unattractive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Its either my face, my weight, or my color... I am 23 and I turn 24 this year and I have never had a boyfriend. I tried to join dating sites and I get rejected by every guy that I try to contact. They dont even try to tell me that they arent ...

I love him but does he love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I'm in love with a guy I've known for 3-4 years online, we get on so well but we live in 2 different countries, he is in the US Army and is being deployed to afganistan soon, I'm very worried! What I want to know is should I tell him my feelings? ...

I want to meet my online boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i love each other so much, but the only problem is that we haven't met. we've been dating online and we've exchanged cell numbers...and he wants to met on my b'day but i do ont wanna met there, it's too far but i'll pull some ...

Has anyone committed Facebook suicide?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - So this might sound a bit stupid to some people but does anyone have any experience of committing facebook suicide? Facebook has ruled my life for the past 4 years and it has broken 2 relationships, or at least it was a contributer. it ...

Is the guy I met online blowing me off?

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24 January 2010 (F) - A guy from online and i were texting alot for over a week..pretty much all throughout the day, at night..we had one convo and we eventually met. I was nervous about meeting him..i don't think i acted bad on the date but we were drinking rum and...

I met an old beau online, we wined and dined and then his wife phoned me ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - I was on an online dating site. I decided to delete my account because I wasn't happy with th contacts I was getting. Anyway, I had one wink and when I decided to respond, it was from a guy who I had been in love with when I was 18. He came to see ...

He usually initiates contact, should I email him?

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23 January 2010 (F) - A relative gave my email address to this guy (lives in the US) sometime in July and since then we have been exchanging emails occasionally. Last December, I went to the US for a holiday and we agreed to meet up. We went to see a movie and had ...

We met online, but he hasn't asked to meet in person. What's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - I received an email from a very polite and good looking man from an online dating site. He said he was looking to expand his circle of friends to do more things...and emailed me to say hello. He also described himself as very laid back, and a bit of...

I am about to meet my online b/f and worries I might not be slim enough for him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - would like some answers from male readers. i have been txting a man now for the last 5 mths. we get on great and he is a great person. he lives few hours away and we are meant to be meeting next week. he has seen pics of me but had to take them ...

Do I "hang on" or "move on"?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - I met an awesome guy online last September and thought we were going to be freinds, but he had other ideas, as he wanted to meet and I was over the moon. However, the day before we were supposed to meet, I guess I got a weird vibe, as he still ...

I am in a LDR and pregnant and jealous of my b/f's female friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm 37 years old, I've been married once before for almost 10 years but am now divorced. In June of last year, I met someone on-line who lives in the States (I live in Canada) and we've been dating ever since. In July, I got preg...

Caught my bf masturbating while chatting to another woman, online!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years, we met when i was 14 and he was 18, i was dating his friend (nothing serious) and eventually he and i hooked up. We had a great relationship in the begining (as most are), then i caught him jacking off while ...

H's bashing me to other people, on this dating site! What is his problem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (?) - I dated someone who is now on match.com and is bashing me to the women he is now communicating with. A friend on match.com found this out through her community of members and told me. I texted him and let him know i knew, which of course he denied. ...

Am I in the wrong for getting upset over my girlfriend chatting to men late into the night?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, I could REALLY use your independent opinions on a big issue I'm having with my GF! Help! Now, either I am nuts and the problem's all mine, or she's not treating me right! Please help me figure this out! We've been going out for...

What shall I do when she has asked me to give her time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - I know this girl bout 3years from friendster and we started till then but that time we less msg but juz a friend.. started 2009 we really started to msg to each other everyday although we haven meet yet and really get to understand her bout 1 years ...

Their extra contact makes me uncomfortable... am I being unreasonable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I will ask in advance that you please don't judge my relationship because of it's settings, it is a real relationship. I met him online! We have been in an exclusive relationship now for a year and we have visited each other 3 times during this ...

We have a good connection, so why hasn't he asked me out yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I have been chatting to a guy online, text, phone and went out last Sat. We got on really well and he text me afterwards to say he had a great time. He then rang me two nights later and we chatted for about an hour. But he hasn't yet suggested going ...

What does this guy really want from me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - ok so i met this guy on plenty of fish..we've been chatting on there for a month now... and went on a date on sunday.. he was really nice.. and thought i was soo beautiful.. after the date..he told me..he wants a serious relationship an...

Why did I cheat on him when I am the one accusing him of cheating?

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19 January 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, I was in a very long relationship (two years) and i honestly thought that he was the one for me. After a while, i realized that i was chatting on the internet to men i didn't even find attractive. My relationship at the time was very ...

Blocked him on FB and now he won't talk to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - ok guys a silly one....a few weeks ago i accidentally blocked the guy i like on facebook i felt i was always on there seeing what he was up to,which was nothing i might add..anyway i unblocked him and he wasn't my friend anymore!now he's not talking ...

I don't know how to tell him the pic on myspace is a fake

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - My friend and I had a challenge. At first I wasn't going to do it but agreed that we wldnt do it for long. The challenge was to get a fake pic and post it on myspace and see if u could act fake. I hated doing it and secretly didn't add any friends ...

When should I mention to her that I want us to be exclusive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - i met a girl online, and we talked for about a week or so and everything was going good! it was easy to talk to her, she was funny, and we had a good time, we then decided to plan on a first date, which she came down for the night, we had alot of ...

His behaviour seems to be opposite to what he is saying

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Oki, here's the problem, iv been with my bf or about 7 months and I love him so much but there's a major problem which is bothering me . I was left really hearbroken by my ex doing some online cheating stuff, and one day this came around into the ...

We met online by accident, and now we are talking of meeting up some place

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hello, So this is a first for me. I started talking this guy online some, basically by accident, and we have talked more and more, spending hours on the phone, texting, and web cam. Hours and hours on web cam. It's unusual that I would get involv...

Four months on I am still letting what he does affect me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Hi, I posted a question on here a few months ago about an internet 'relationship' with a big age gap which lasted for 8 years... to save repeating what I asked here is the link: http://www.dearcupid.org...

Where can I find older men not interested in a sex based relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - Any suggestions?? I am an 18 year old female, but am mostly attracted to men at least around twice my age. This is not a sexual desire for "more experienced" men, in fact sex doesn't really interest me. What I like is the maturity and life experien...

My LDR isn't meeting my needs so I've started talking to another guy I met online in another state?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - I am 27 yrs old. I have been in a long distance relationship for a little over a year. I have known my boyfriend (he is younger than me) for several years (as friends) before moving and of course our relationship blossomed once we were 1000 miles ...

My boyfriend no longer loves me. Is it over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of six months told me yesterday that he thought we were going to to fast. In myself I knew we were, I mean he asked me to marry him a day into our relationship and we were having phone sex before we knew each others name (we met ...

Do you still think it's safe for me to meet him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - PLease help me figure if this is safe??? I met a man online and we have been communicating for two weeks. We are bothi n our mid forties. There is total chemistry between us. We are meeting in a week or so. He emailed me last night that he had a ...

After talking online 3 months we met, but I think he was disappointed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - Hi..i am hoping for some advice..am hoping for a male point of view...here goes. I met a guy online..a dating site..we chatted every night for 3 months on msn..he phoned me and text. He had seen photographs of me (I am 47...he is 39..I am uk..he i...

He's so in love with me he can't be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - I'm almost twenty years old, I've never had a real relationship. The only guy that has shown interest in me my whole life has the unfortunate honor of having a nickname with "Icky" in it. I'm not attracted to him, I'm not sure if he knows it, but I ...

Brothers or Lovers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - A few months ago I met a friend on the internet who introduced me to a friend of his. We started off as cyber brothers, and I won't bore you with the details but we're now very much in love and have even said that when he's 18 he wants to move over ...

He's on his way, should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - Okay so I just joined up wondering if I could get some advice. Me and a guy I've been talking to for about 6-7 years on the internet have recently become more... involved I guess you'd say. We've never done anything like cyber or all that jazz but ...

Signs of a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I need advice!! I have pushed myself to get back into the dating world. I went online and never thought I would meet someone I would fall for and BAM! Two weeks ago I met a man and we have been emailing 24/7. We have clicked. We have exchanged ...

My husband was looking for love online. Is that cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I recently caught my husband of 21 years, posting profiles on dating sites. He stated that he received no love or attention from me and was looking for someone in our area for "discreet sex". I confronted him with the copies that I had printed of ...

Why do men lie on social networks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

10 January 2010 (?) - Why do guys lie on "social network" sites? He lies about how much money he makes,how successful his little business is, his personality, his past, you name it. He has also asked women from other countries to come here (USA) after exchanging just a ...

How do I stop this guy from texting me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - So I just found out that this guy I've been talking to apparently has 4 other girls he texts just like me. I hate players and can't stand being just one of those chicks a guy can go back to. The problem is he won't stop texting me. And the texts are ...

How can I tell if he's into me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - I can't tell if this guy I've started talking to is actually into me or not. Initially our friendship started when he IMed me online with a "hey". The whole time we have been talking he has given me compliments like, "you have a cute voice" or when ...

Has it slipped his mind that I hate noisy bars and clubs? Why is he asking me to go there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - I recently started dating someone who seems really nice and compatible, and things have gone really well between us so far. We've both admitted that we're starting to establish a real emotional connection, plus genuinely good chemistry, etc. ...

Do you think my jealousy is going to drive him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - Hello DearCupid, I met this guy on online and after 3 weeks later we started to date and now we became a couple. We are having relationship for four months. I also met whole his parents and he everytime told me that he loved me so much. My...

First time jitters...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I've been speaking to a guy from my hometown over msn for a few months. We are arranging to meet up for the first time soon. We are both virgins and feel ready now to lose my virginity. Although I'll point out that it wont be the first time we meet ...

Should I still play hard to get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Hi I would like to have answers from guys! We saw each other 3 times as we are both very busy but also because I went for Xmas break for 2 weeks. He seems to be a nice guy and interested. he texts me every other day. We met on online dating. T...

I asked him where I stand with him but I still have no idea what he means!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Hi. Thanks before hand for any answers. I've posted before about the situation i am in. But things have changed. So chatting to some guy for about 2 months, known him for like 3 years, we have like a online realtionship, you know the one, staying...

Should I stick with my long distance relationship or choose the other guy who lives in the same city as me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I have this problem I'm eighteen years old and I am already making mistakes when it comes to my relationship stats. I am a girl who has internet relationships and keeps them. My recent boyfriend Ryan who I have been talking and having a connection ...

Why is my husband using adult dating sites?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Hi every one. My husband and I have been together for 8 yrs. I'm 32 he is 27. We have a health sex life, we argue just like normally married people. So my question it why is he looking up adult dating sites. He was 19 when we got together and had ...