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writes: A guy from online and i were texting alot for over a week..pretty much all throughout the day, at night..we had one convo and we eventually met.I was nervous about meeting him..i don't think i acted bad on the date but we were drinking rum and coke and i think i opened up more than i would have normally, was a little more touchy feely..we got there at 9:30 and didn't leave til almost 2am..i did ask during the date if he was attracted to me, i said i want to see you soon and he said saturday..we did kiss at the bar and i went in for another one..and he walked me home holding my hand and we kissed goodnight again, i went in for another kiss..he said something about saturday again. Just later on i wish i wouldnt have asked certain things or went in for as many kisses.i texted him a smile face when i got in and he did the same, he asked me something but i had fallen asleep..in the morning i texted him sorry, fell asleep..mentioned i had a nice time and thanks for the drinks and he said he did too and i am welcome. I did text him later on saying i think no more rum for me and he said why not and i said i think i was a little tipsy from it. I just sort of felt bad and hoped i didn't ruin anything b/c i had some drinks in me even though i didn't do anything that wrong.I did ask him what he wants to do saturday and he said we will play it by ear b/c he has work (he only gets called when they need him so its not a set schedule and when he does he gets up very early). Today came and at 5:30pm i text him asking are we still on for later? and no response. At that point i felt like maybe he was blowing me off so i just decided to text him saying i hope i didn't give you the wrong impression or something, enjoy ur night.He texted me back soon after saying he is sorry and that it was a long day and he took a nap when he got home and wishes he could hang out but he found out he has work tomorrow too. And i mentioned ok i thought i had given you a bad impression and he asked why? and i said maybe i was too forward or something and he said no its cool, forward is good. So i said ok, want to do something another night? and he said of course. Does it sound like he is being honest? i figured if he really didn't want to go out again, he would just ignore me completely?
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