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writes:Hi every one. My husband and I have been together for 8 yrs. I'm 32 he is 27. We have a health sex life, we argue just like normally married people. So my question it why is he looking up adult dating sites. He was 19 when we got together and had already had his share of sex partner so I no it isn't cause he didn't get to play the field. So why is he doing this now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010): He was very young when you met and hes still young. Im not using that as an excuse, rather wondering if he settled down too early and now hes getting `itchy` feet. He may be curious to see whats out there, bored with the relationship ect. It happens. Having all the trappings in the world isnt always enough. Look at Tiger Woods. You need to find out what hes thinking and what is going on with your relationship. Tell him you were checking his phone for the net and came across the dating sites. I dont think you should worry too much about using the phone. I for one, think borrowing a partners phone isnt quite as bad as a partner cruising dating sites! Was he just looking at the women or has he joined sites? One way to find out if he has joined them is to put his email address into the sites if you remember them. Then click on forgotten password. If his email address is with them it will say an email has been sent to his account. If hes not registered with them, it will say so. A wee trick i learned and found my partner on 5 dating sites! He couldnt remember joining any of them though, so that was ok lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to every one who answered my question. I'm going to figure out some way to bring it up. It is driving me crazy. We took a shower together earlyer and he didn't even try any thing I did but nothing so some thing is up. Cause any other time he would have been all over me. But this time nothing. Wtf.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 January 2010):
Just say exactly that. You needed to use the internet on his phone, and you found a dating site.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really don't no how to bring it up. See the first time I found it was by mistake I was having probs with my internet on my phone so I got his phone to see if his was doing the same thing and I just ran acrossed the first web site. I then started questioning him so I looked again yesterday and found another. I have never had a reason to not trust him before now. So I don't want him to think I'm just looking around on his phone. I have never been that kind of person. So I don't no how to bring it up.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 January 2010):
Who knows. But he's looking at dating sites, so he's looking for something. You really need to talk to him about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhy would he be unsettled. We have a great life. 2 great little girls. He owns his own biz. We have great sex like 3 times a week some times more. He has every thing most men his age would love to have.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 January 2010):
Yes, that's a good question, and one that she should be answering. If he's looking at dating sites, then maybe he's unsettled. Talk to him.
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