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writes:Hi cupid, this sound like a cheating but i want to ask this. any answer is acceptable. i met this girl last year 2009 on the internet and we are planning to see each other. she's 23 and am 22. i asked her whether she had a boy friend and she said yes, but she have a little misunderstanding with him since they had sex.the way the guy behaving shows he's no longer interested in her again after they had sex and i told her the disadvantage of having sex and she told me that she wouldn't do it again. During xmas, we agree to see each other. My sister told me to travel with her during the xmas. that's why i couldn't make it to this girl as we agreed. I spent xmas in my state and travel back to the state i lived with my uncle. the time she called me, i told her that i have travel back to start my work. she get serious annoyed because of that. i convinced her and told her my delay of not coming to see her. Actually, she told me that she's coming to the state i lived to start work also. we agreed on that whenever she come to the state, we see each other. As we are discussing, she told me she's not well and she's not feeling fine. i said sorry to her. finally, she said i should forgive her what she did during xmas. the guy she had sex with last time. the guy came to her during the xmas and apologize and she forgive the guy. finally they end up having sex.when i heard that, i kept calm on phone and finally disconnect the call that time. since then, she haven't call me or even text me again up till now. and she coming to the state i lived on 28th of january 2010 as she told me last time. pls what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): In your post, you dont say that you are together or a couple, so i assume your not.
Since thats the case then she cant cheat on you, she was single when she was with him, saly she seems to have given him a second chance and shes been taken advantage of again.
When she does move to your state to work, that when your relationship starts, get to know her and see if theirs chemestry there. If there is great, if not no big loss.
By telling you what happened, she is trying to be honest with you, thats a good thing and a sign that shes going to be a great girlfriend. She has now made an effort to be with you, you need to do the same.
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