I love him but does he love me?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm in love with a guy I've known for 3-4 years online, we get on so well but we live in 2 different countries, he is in the US Army and is being deployed to afganistan soon, I'm very worried! What I want to know is should I tell him my feelings? There's a high chance we can meet up in the future(matter of a year or two) i don't know if he feels anything for me, I'm trying to get hints but he is so hard to read, so...he always puts a kiss after a message, he sent me a card and presents for my birthday not too long ago and everytime he is online he leaves me a message asking how I am and telling me what he has been doing, he even called me once just to chat from half way across the world. I'm a girl and obv these things r gonna stand out to me but from a guys point of view...what do u think? I don't wanna loose our friendship but he means alot to me. So...should I tell him? And do u think they r factors showing he may like me?

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