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Archived questions from: January, 2009 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

When should I tell him about my past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I'd like your advice and i'd be grateful if any male could also give me advice and women :). i'm curently chattin with a guy hes 24 i'm 18. its been nearly a month and we have had lots of arguments mostly my fault and we always make up....but its ...

Submissive and wants my permission to masturbate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I met this guy online, cute, successful, seemed absolutely normal. We have seen each other twice each time for 24 hours straight and have talked on the phone for probably the past month. Extremely physically attracted to each other as well. Have ...

Should I trust that my online BF really loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - :) i wants too know one thing that i always think about this is for guys! Im a 13 year old girl and ive fallen in love with a boy over the internet we've been together for 2 months and i think hes the 1! BUT! HE KEEPS SAYING HE LOVES ME BUT LIV...

Should I take the risk and meet him for drinks at his house?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Hi there! So, since I've been doing not so well with men in person, I decided to join a free dating site. Right away, a guy messaged me and we seem to have quite a bit in common. The problem is, he wants to meet, and although I do want to ...

Is cyber sex just as bad as physical cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Hi, i have a problem i am in a happy relationship i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he works away in the week i only see him at weekends. I have been chatting to this guy online but i also now him, everytime we talk after a while it ...

I want to be happy and outgoing, independent and confident but I'm not. My heart is breaking and I just don't know what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my other half for 5 years and he is the love of my life, but we are having a really rough time. Like any couple we have had our ups and downs, we met over the internet and when we met I was always honest with him telling him that I ...

How can he change so quickly???? I KNOW he's hurting here too...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I am a 30 year single mum of 4, over 3 years ago I split with a violent ex. I met a fantastic man last year, he was a few years younger and didn't have children of his own. We met online and we chatted for 8 weeks, sometimes we were up all night. He ...

Tips on dirty sex games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I will be going to be meeting my online girlfriend, that i have been talking to online and on the phone, for the first this summer. We were going to camp in a cave by a creek of mine.She says that we will have lez sex for the whole week we will be ...

Is it possible he can't feel a "spark" for me since he hasn't gotten over her?

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29 January 2009 (F) - I met this really great guy online. We started out emailing each other for a month and since then we have hung out twice. Each time, he had his closest friends over. They really like me and told him this. We talk for hours on the phone each time. We ...

I feel so violated and stupid now that I was nearly scammed by my "boyfriend". How do I get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - The guy and I were friends for a month before he asked me for a relationship. I met him on a penpal site, and we just talked about our family lives and I helped him find scholarships and stuff (he was from Africa). When he asked me for a relatio...

What is he thinking? I can't tell

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I posted this question yesterday and still have no answers. Could you please re-post and perhaps tag it as something else and not 'friends.' Many thanks! I met this guy through work a long time ago. Recently I saw him while out and couldn’t sto...

Why is he still messing about online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I met my boyfriend on an online dating site two months ago. Things have been going really well and until now I had absolutely no doubts about our relationship. However last week through sheer curiosuty I discovered he is still using his online ...

It's really over and now it's hurting so much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up. I'm so hurt. I really fell in love with him. I know I'm young and I never thought I could fall in love this young and share my feelings so strongly with another person but this boy was amazing. We were so close and ...

Why do I get a bad feeling about this guy? What are the signs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I need some advice, Big Time! I just got into a relationship a few days ago. I met this guy thru an online dating site. He told me time and time again, I forget sometimes that I have that profile until I get mail from them. I thought 'Yeah ri...

Was he just drunk? rude? After one thing?

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27 January 2009 (F) - I got chatting to a guy who i am seeing at a school reunion on a social chat network. We got on quite well, just friendly and then started texting, some of it flirty, some of it not. On Friday night on my way home from an evening out he rang me ...

We are all human right, so there isn't a distance to love, love has no bounds, right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I need some help. Okay so I have been talking to this brilliant guy he is everything I am looking for in a man. This is all online on a forum not this forum this is the only place I can ask for advice without coming across a weirdo. I have s...

A question for the guys about long distance hookups.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Here's a question for the guys please... If you had a one night stand with a girl that lived over 200 miles away, what would be your motivation for staying in contact with her through online chats?...

Have I ruined the best thing that I've ever had in my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I don't really understand this situation. I started talking to this guy online. We use to talk 3 years ago but stopped when he went into the army. We started talking again after New year i;m 18 he's 24 and he was really into me, gave me his numb...

Should I meet up with this other man even although I know I shouldn't???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I've read a lot of questions here and other sites about being married, and getting obsessed with another man.... I'm in the same boat.... married 16 years.... Current financial and job related stresses for my DH. I've traveled the world with him ...

Experienced people wanted to give tips on dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - hi everyone,before i ask my question note that this question can only be answered by those in long term relationships,those engaged and those married.i need good tips.i recently met this guy on facebook,who turned out to be a friend of a very old ex ...

We'll probably never meet so what does he want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - i've been talking to this guy i met on the internet for about two months now. he is really lovely, we seem to be very similat and have the same ambitions. he makes me feel so special calling me beautiful and darling. this sounds awful but what does ...

Met him on the plane, we had one date, now he is ignoring me, why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - A few months ago I met a guy on the plane. We hit it off right away. He was sweet and kind and a great conversationalist. I had a crush on him and I was (literally) on cloud nine when he said I was pretty. It turned out that his final destination ...

I guess I'm not the only girl in his life..what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - ive finally talked to my online boyf he was in hospital after gettin really hyper wen he found that we got contact again and fell down the stairs we talked and he sounded ok but wen i said i wanna b there for u he asked me why? i told him because ...

Why won't he talk to me online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - why isnt my boyfriend talkin to me yes i know hes just someone online but i really love him . the past 3 days he hasnt been talkin to me b4 dat his comp wasnt workin for about a month or somethin wen i contacted him again he was fine but then i sent ...

What does "wearing your heart on your sleeve" mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Hey there Am justing getting to know a guy off the internet and he seems really lovely and funny. We were talking about relationships etc and he says he seems to get trampled on cos he wears his heart on his sleeve... what does that exactly mea...

Should I send him a message apologising for my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5782 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I was upset with my online man cause he wasn't acting the same then my best friend got really upset and sent him a message saying I was crying for him and that if he cared about me he should talk to me. I told her not to send any messages to him and ...

My online hotty is turning cold...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy that I met online about 3 months ago. We have been out 2 times so far and he wants to meet up again this weekend..where he wants me to go over to his place for dinner. He never rings me though.. I'm always the one doing ...

I don't want to mess everything up like I did last time.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I need as much advice as I can get please! Basically, ages ago I wrote about a stupid thing I did (met a boy on the internet, fell in love but I was using pics of some random gorgeous girl instead of myself) I deceived him and went to ...

So confused about this relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I recently joined a dating site and got talking to a local guy we exchanged mobile numbers and he invited me through to his for a meal. All went well we text a bit and we were due to meet again but something come up, the texts stopped. I sent him ...

Do you think he'll want me tosleep over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy i met online, We have been talking online and on the phone for 3 months now. The last 3 weekends we have seen each other and gone out...after the first date i still had the impression that he was still keen as he would ...

What is he talking about? What does it all mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I met this guy online, we talked everyday on there and then on the phone. After several weeks we met and it was good. We talked here and there, He told me he likes my bubbly personality, i am very attractive and he would like to date me. Well he ...

Do you think he's making all this up to make me jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, My ex bf is really worrying me, we split 5 months ago, and had been sleeping together since, we split. He met this girl over a dating website, she lives in Ireland and are in a relationship but he's going around sleeping with loads of...

How do I get the oourage to actually speak to him and not just text him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5783 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - dear cupid hi last week i wrote with a problem i have had a crush on a boy for about a year.i got his number off his mate and and i have been textinghim for about A MONTH he wants to talk to me but i find it hard to pluck up the courage. i saw y...

How do I go about meeting my online love interest?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - A while back, I got chatting to a girl in a chatroom called Stacey. When she used to ring me, the number was always listed as private. A couple of months ago, she gave me her number, and we text a lot. Through her texts, and the comments lef...

I love all your advice, but I cant get myself to take it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5783 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - regarding my last question starting "Hey. I'm a common 18 year old girl that has been plunged into the depths of lovesickness! I'm in desperate need of love advice - so please help me if you can!" - you guys gave me excllent advice. And i can sit ...

Why did he change

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - i have an online boyfriend we became realy close and shared everything with eachother we were deeply in love but then about a month or so ago his computer broke down. i lost my paitence and sent a mesg accusing him of not loving me but i said ill ...

He cheated - should I divorce him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - Hello, would be great if you could share your thoughts and possibly give some advice. I'm 36 years old, married my husband 39 for 3 years and half. we've known for 6 years and have a wonderful daughter who is 19month. I thought l had a great h...

I have no plans but do I lie and say I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Hello Cupiters! I am going out on a first date with this guy I met online about a month ago. Now we're just talking texting.. Anyways, we already have plans for Saturday (dinner, miniature golf). We were having a good conversation this morning ...

I am scared to give him my virginity, I would if I knew for sure that he would marry me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Ok, this is my dilemma. I am 17 years and my boyfriend is 18. We became friends online and then moved our friendship off-line and met in person. We became close friends instantly. As our friendship blossomed even more he would hint to me stuff about ...

Guys opinions in particular would be appreciated here!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5792 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts. I recently have met a guy online. We went out for dinner last weekend and it was great! During Christmas break he was off work for a couple weeks and we talked every day, sometimes hours on the phone. He's back to work now so it ...

Online situation has become confusing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - Ive been talking to this guy online and on the phone for about 2 months now. We get along really well and have done from the start. From all our previous conversations i took it he wanted something serious as he has spoken about kids and asked if i ...

Am I overreacting to my wife chatting up other men online?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 10 years of which we have been married for 5. We were each others first and have never been with anyone else. I just recently found out that my wife has been chatting online with other men, then she took it one ...

Nervous about first quasi-blind date!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - So I began talking to this girl online about 2 weeks ago. We were both on free social networking site geared towards dating. She messaged me and we spent about 4-5 hours messaging back and forth the first night. Same thing the second night before ...

Should I go out with my online long distance girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - im 14 and i met a girl on msn and iv been talking to her 4 a few months and we are sort of going out on line like but she lives in London and i live in Bilston and she said she wants to meet me but i dont think i should and if i do i think i should...

Do long distance relationships work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - hi im a 14 year old boy right now me and this girl like each other but i live in new york and she lives in maine, we only knew each other online and i met her 2 weeks ago. she just broke up with her boyfriend and i really want her to be my ...

I think she feels that she's under pressure to keep me interested...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

7 January 2009 (M) - Here it is. I met a girl on the internet last summer(bet you've never heard that one before), and almost instantly we clicked. After a little while we exchanged mobile numbers, and got texting and talking to each other. I tell her that I love ...

How can I tell him I'm not interested without being rude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Firstly i am 29 yrs old.I have been talking to a guy online who is widowed and has a younge child, we have been chatting for about 2 weeks now. He wants to meet up and keeps telling me how much he thinks of me and im just not interested. How do i ...

We're dating but he's still contacting other girls from the dating site!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I met my boyfriend 2 years ago on an internet dating site. Just before xmas I went to log into my emails and found he hadn't logged out of a messenger service. I had a look and it was all girls names, and when I went into the emails I saw that he ...

Why does he mention about his exes? Could I just be his rebound girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - So, I met this guy online and we live in different states, we've been talking on the phone for about 6 months and he says he really likes me, and I really like him too, sometimes we get into arguments about little stuff, then usually i would just ...

Since we had sex it seems he has cooled toward me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - hi hope someone can give me some advice please. Just over a year ago i met a guy online and we'd been texting, chatting etc since then. Soon after we first started chatting, we met up in person twice and things went well. Since then it had been ...