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30-35,
*ubyr13
writes: ive finally talked to my online boyf he was in hospital after gettin really hyper wen he found that we got contact again and fell down the stairs we talked and he sounded ok but wen i said i wanna b there for u he asked me why? i told him because i love him and asked if he forgot that already? then he said no he felt like something was wrong and told me to tell him if somethin was troubling me. i said i wont say till he gets better then he said he was deseprate to hear my voice but i couldnt bcause my mike wasnt working at the time. he kinda got upset but I said ill let him hear my voice soon he was like yay cnt wait luv ya xoxo then he left to go to bed. So overall he sounded fine but I didn’t felt like something wasn’t right. After that a girl online that I didn’t know said that she was his online girlfriend too until her account got closed she told me things about like isn’t he the guy whos in a band and his dad died. So that means she obviously knows him. But then she said that she was obviously not the only girl that was in his life. The question is should I ask him about this stuff or should I just leave it? At least for a while. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, xXxLisaxXx +, writes (24 January 2009):
Ok to me an online boyfriend is where people can idealise themselves to be something they are not. Thay can say alsorts of this to make you believe they are the most perfect person in the world. It is very likely he has many online girlfriends and if that girl knew insights to his background then that should be enough proof for you. If I was you, I would try and forget about this. I know online relationships can work but rarely they do, I think if u pursue this then you are going to end up getting hurt. Get out into the real world and find the man of your dreams, you will gain so much more fulfilment if you do this. Allow a man to treat you the way you deserve.Good Luck xxxx
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reader, rubyr13 +, writes (24 January 2009):
rubyr13 is verified as being by the original poster of the question hes my online boyfriend it says so on the question and we had lost contact cause his computer broke down but then someone told me he got a new one and i found out his email and found contact to him basically
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): ok is he ur REAL bf or online bf, cause that makes a difference in what i was going to say
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