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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, My ex bf is really worrying me, we split 5 months ago, and had been sleeping together since, we split. He met this girl over a dating website, she lives in Ireland and are in a relationship but he's going around sleeping with loads of girls like he has 6 girls on the go, it's driving me mad that he's doing this as part of me does want him back, the other is worried about him and him catching something, but he says you need to live dangerously.I'm also thinking I should tell this Irish lass as I have her number, but don't want to hurt him?please any advice he needs to stop this or do you think he's making all this up to make me jealous as he tells me everything.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (20 January 2009):
 1. Stop sleeping with him.
2. cut all communication with him.
3. Don't worry about the Irish girl, she will figure it out. (who knows who if she is seeing someone in Ireland too...)
4. Move on with your own life, he isn't worth a pot to piss in as far as boyfriend material.
5. Go get tested for STD's if you are concerned
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): I don't think it's possible to have a relationship with someone across the world, or long distance, if you have never met them in person. Meeting someone online and starting a relationship with someone online is not safe. And, it is really creepy. Unless both parties can be verified by someone you know personally for it is unlikely that they will ever meet in person.
But, this isn't even what the main question was about. lol
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reader, nicole656 +, writes (20 January 2009):
hey babes ?
im from ireland myself and was goin wit a lad from england
and he was deffinatly a player tried to make every1 jealous and thing was he wasnt even that nice lookin!
how are they even having a proper realationship anyway if she lives here in ireland n he lives over there in england..
jus wonderin babe were abouts in england does he live,, ???
xo.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (20 January 2009):
 It sounds like he wants to prove something........to himself or to others.......that he has moved on.....that he is a cool guy...who knows. It might be just a faze, he will get bored eventually of all the girls. The Irish girl might also not mean anything too much too him, shes there, hes here, its exciting to have a long distance with someone far away, its a relationship where you have a woman yet you are free. I dont think he is specifically doing it to make YOU jelouse, guys arent usually like that, WE (girls)are like that,lol. Act like you dont care and i sugest you stop sleeping with him. Guys want what they cant have, why would he want to be with you when he can get the goods for free and is free to have fun out there. Ignore him but not in a rude way. be friendly and polite when you talk to him and act like his actions dont bother you......show him you have moved on as well(not in a slutty way though)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): If you don't like him anymore then you need to tell him straight forward and be blunt that you no longer like him, and that his actions to make you jealous or to get back at you are not working.
State that you are telling him this because you still care and you're worried about his health and safety.
But, make it clear you are over him, and not affected by his stupid retarded attempts to make you jealous or to get back at you.
You need to knock some sense into this guy. He is being an idiot and endangering himself, and the people he sleeps with.
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