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writes:hi im a 14 year old boy right now me and this girl like each other but i live in new york and she lives in maine, we only knew each other online and i met her 2 weeks ago. she just broke up with her boyfriend and i really want her to be my girlfriend. so do long distance relationships work?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): Hmm well I am definitly going through that right now too. I dont want people to tell me that it probobly wont work cuz we are very close to eachother. Since you guys live closer than him and i do, i think it will work! You must talk to her often, remind her of everything and it will continue :]. In my situation (im 15), he lives in cali and i live in michigan. He is a very sensitive person and not one to just tell girls this kind of stuff. We met about a month ago, and we are planning to hang out (publicly) over summer for awhile. So it will work! believe!
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reader, roadman  +, writes (8 January 2009):
 Well not at your age..bit hard to keep up the travel,but you can always remain in touch and when you grow a bt older hook up..
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reader, MichaelS2 +, writes (8 January 2009):
 It depends how long of a relationship you are looking for!
If you have known the girl for awhile previously,like she moved away or something than I'd say you have a better shot a having a successful relationship.
However in your case I would say it probably wouldn't work unless you were able to see each other often such as like a weekend or something. But honestly If you think you could fall in love with her,and if she loves you back than you must try because you will probably regret it if you don't!
It takes special people to make a long distance relationship work!But you may regret if you don't give it a shot!
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reader, pomgirl10 +, writes (8 January 2009):
 yes they do but you need to make sure you really do like her. im not going to lie they are hard but if you truelly love the person and your met to be it will be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): Awww I'm afraid that at your age It probably wouldnt be a good idea,you are so young. And in general they don't really end up lasting that long especially if it originated online.
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reader, loveuxoxo +, writes (8 January 2009):
 i know how you feel sweetie. me and this guy went out and i was 14 too and we tried long distance and it doesnt work. im sorry. i wish it did. but relationships even as adults are so hard to work long distance wise. and im sure shes a great girl and you are a great guy. but from what i have seen and exprienced they dont work. but if you want to try it then go for it! but just be careful if you do. hope this helps. goodluck !
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