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writes:A while back, I got chatting to a girl in a chatroom called Stacey. When she used to ring me, the number was always listed as private. A couple of months ago, she gave me her number, and we text a lot. Through her texts, and the comments left on her Facebook profile, our phone conversations we used to have, and MSN, her personality has really shone through.However, I haven't yet met her.Because it's not face to face, how do I go about this? Do I arrange to meet a couple of friends for a drink and invite her along? She ends all her texts to me with a kiss, sometimes in small, sometimes in a capital x! Advice anyone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIn an effort to find her address, I asked some her friends on Facebook, and even though I said 'please dont tell her' they did, and she texted me saying, and I quote "Are you some kind of pathetic person wanting my address? I never want to talk to you again" Then I said "I wanted to send you flowers for Valentine's Day. I didn't want to stalk you; that's just wrong". That's how we ended it
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShall I give her this:
My days are filled with yearning;
My nights are full of dreams.
I’m always thinking of you;
I’m in a trance, it seems.
You’re all I ever wanted;
I wish you could be mine;
And so I have to ask you:
Will you be my Valentine?
If yyes, I was thinking initially of emailing or texting it, but now I think I want to give it to her face-to-face
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWould it be a bit obvious if I asked to meet her a week on Saturday? (14 Feb!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe emailed me this morning, saying she's been very busy with work, she also said "Not sure; I go with the flow" to my question of wanting to meet up for a coffee. I said I'd text her nearer the time
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo email over the weekend, do u think it will be okay if I phone or text her tonight? Do you think that she might be waiting for me to ask her out (even for a coffee)?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have got no email from her yet - should I wait or text her with the question?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI did a very stupid thing on Tuesday afternoon - I told a male friend on Facebook that I wanted to meet her and potentially date her, but my mate told me that men know how to keep secrets like that!
I wrote her an email this morning, asking if she wanted to meet for a coffee and a chat when I go shopping in Bromley next week.
I chatted to her on Facebook this afternoon, she hasn't read the email yet, and she acted as if she didn't know about me wanting to go out with her
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOr, as she lives in Bromley, and there's a shopping centre there, shall I say I'm going shopping and meet her there?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIf I can't get a couple of friends together, shall I just say 'Fancy coming for a drink. You can bring a friend if you want'?
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