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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi hope someone can give me some advice please. Just over a year ago i met a guy online and we'd been texting, chatting etc since then. Soon after we first started chatting, we met up in person twice and things went well. Since then it had been difficult to meet as we both work shifts and live a good 2 and half hour drive away. Anyway all the time we have been in contact, he kept saying he wanted to make love to me and wanted me as his girlfriend. I resisted this as i have been hurt badly in the past (he knows about this) and i felt he just wanted one thing. just before christmas we met up and ended up having sex, he knew i was nervous and said for me to just relax. during this experience i did say i wasn't sure what i was doing and that i didn't want to let him down to which he replied you are not letting me down. Before he left, he asked me to text him later, but due to circumstances (i was at work and busy) i couldn't, also i wanted him to make the move. He did text me, exchanged a few messages and have done since then with the last one being sent by me on new years day. Since our last meeting things seemed to have cooled and nothing has been said by him or myself about our experience. Please can anyone shed any light on what i should do or what he may be thinking.
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reader, advicegalx +, writes (4 January 2009):
Heyy I see where you are coming from i met a guy online too (not with him now tho ) to be honest i dont really now what you should do but i got a pritty good idea whats on his mind i think it is sex he if he knew you was nervouse he would have waited a bit longer && you will have trouble in futre because you 2 a far away (no affence) and instead of txt try phonin him because i find txtin can be easier then phonin so test him ask him if you let him down and everything and tell him that you cant always talk to him because of work !!
Hope i helped
I didnt mean anythin in a nasty way !!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (4 January 2009):
 He might feel that he somehow disappointed you and therefor will not bring it up. Honestly you two need to talk. Not guess or assume what the other one is feeling or thinking. That only leads down a sucky road.
Talk to him, what have you got to loose?
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