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writes:Here it is. I met a girl on the internet last summer(bet you've never heard that one before), and almost instantly we clicked. After a little while we exchanged mobile numbers, and got texting and talking to each other. I tell her that I love her all the time, and I truly do, even though we've never actually met in person. She feels exactly the same, and we intended to meet up sometime in the near future.I'm an RAF recruit, and recently found out that I will begin five and a half months of training very soon, perhaps even before the end of January. So the meet-up has been put on hold for now.We were both disappointed, but also decided that it had worked out better, because there's a lot more time for us to get to know each other this way.Now a couple of weeks back we were texting each other, a few days after I'd told her the sort-of-bad news, and all of a sudden she started talking dirty. I just rolled with it like any hormonal bloke would, and it turned into text-sex, which is what it sounds like - just like phone-sex except you describe what you'd do to each other through texting.Now she's talking dirty to me almost every day. Don't get me wrong, I love it and always play along. I'm quite sure she gets a kick from it as well, but I can't help feeling that she's only doing it because she thinks I'll get bored of waiting for her, so she's trying to liven things up to keep me interested.Please don't get the wrong impression, I'm not trying to be big-headed, as though I think she needs to do this because I'm so great. That couldn't be farther from the truth. I just hate thinking that she's under pressure because of me.I'm not really sure what to say to her, if anything. I don't want the naughty stuff to stop because I enjoy it very much, and I'm fairly sure she does too.Sorry for the novel - if anyone's still awake after reading this, please help.Thank you :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): I just want to say as your gonna get the lectures- its not fair to say love can't happen online. YES it can be dangerous but as long as your sensible you can be safe. I fell completely in love online, yeah it didn't work out and even if we'd met theres no guarantee we'd have got along the same way.To your problem: have a talk about it and get both of your feelings laid out, you could be worrying about nothing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI understand where your coming from, but its hard for me to explain. Theres just this connection between us, and its something ive never experienced before. Theres no rule book for love, so why cant two people who've never met face to face love each other?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (8 January 2009):
 Please tell me why you would ever tell a girl whom you have never met that you "love" her. Love must mean a whole lot more in Texas (my locale) than in England.
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reader, KickRox +, writes (8 January 2009):
 I know how she feels..by you responding and letting her know that you like it. That relaxes her a bit so you won't think of looking anywhere else, and have something to look forward to when you come back home.
Good luck!
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