A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I met this really great guy online. We started out emailing each other for a month and since then we have hung out twice. Each time, he had his closest friends over. They really like me and told him this. We talk for hours on the phone each time. We have so much in common, not only common interests but common life goals. He even has a pet name for me.The problem is that we have only hugged. I haven't tried for anything else since I am kind of shy and I like to wait for the guy to make the first move. He sent me an email this week telling me that he really likes me and has fun with me but doesn't see anything more than a friendship. He says he doesn't feel a "spark" with me. He thinks it could be that he has now figured out he is not over his ex who he proposed to 4 months ago (they went out for a year and half). (She cheated on him and broke his heart.) He says he dreams of her and loses sleep over her.He says he sees us as becoming at least really good friends. Is it possible he can't feel a "spark" for me since he hasn't gotten over her? Is it possible he could develop a spark for me once he gets over her? I plan to be his friend, to be the best female friend he has ever had to show him how amazing I am and how amazing I would be to be with.Any thoughts?
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