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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i've been talking to this guy i met on the internet for about two months now. he is really lovely, we seem to be very similat and have the same ambitions. he makes me feel so special calling me beautiful and darling. this sounds awful but what does he want? we will probably never meet properly whats in it for him?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (25 January 2009):
He's just enjoying what you have.
These things don't have to have a label or a long term plan. You like talking to him, he likes talking to you, it's a bit of an ego boost for both of you to have a flirt with each other.
So enjoy it! If you don't plan on meeting him then make that clear and don't get too attached to him emotionally but have a friend and have a chat.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, didda123 +, writes (25 January 2009):
 It is a bit of a fantasy land the internet you never really know who you are talking to so you should always be cautious!He could be a competely different character from the person he is portraying to you so never arrange to meet up with him and definately not on your own! I know you say you will probably never meet properly but who knows. You never said how old this guy is but from what you have said I would say he is an older person just by the terms of endearment he is using and you must be very careful as he is beginning to make you feel very special and before long you may be drawn to him.You should never give him any true details about yourself where you live, the school you attend, telephone numbers etc and as long as you don't arrange to meet up at all then it is harmless fun but you are only young and some older men prey on young people like yourself.I would mention what you are doing to your parents don't keep secrets from them and let them decide if they think this is healthy.Don't spend so much time on the internet get out with your friends more and meet really people it is much easier to build a profile on someone you can actually talk face to face with.
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