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*pudgun
writes:im 14 and i met a girl on msn and iv been talking to her 4 a few months and we are sort of going out on line like but she lives in London and i live in Bilston and she said she wants to meet me but i dont think i should and if i do i think i should take my bro who is 18. she is just 13 as well so she is younger than me. i no she isnt a perv cuz iv chatted to her on the phone and iv seen pics of her with a clock in the back ground and the date on a paper near her. should i go out with her (it will be a non sexual relationship at least till were 17)?
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (8 January 2009):
are you a 100% that she is who she says she is? people lie online all the time and yes the perverts that are out there do pretend to be a young girl to attract younger boys who are minors. it's sick but that's what they do. have you had a cam conversation, so you can no for sure that she is real?
also if you do meet take an adult or an older sibling. don't go on your own. also suggest that to her.
i personally don't think that you will get a peoper relationship out of this, as when will you ever really see eachother? you can't have a relationship over msn. maybe friendship. but the reality of it, is that online dating is not always a good idea.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (8 January 2009):
It should be good as long as you take your big brother and she brings an adult as well.
You are a bit young to be travelling long distances to strange cities alone anyway.
Meet in a public place and stay in public places for your day together.
Whether you can last it out when you are mostly long distance and will never get much time alone together even when you do get to visit, that is another thing.
Google "meeting online friends" and there will be lots of advice there for you.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Gemmat_X +, writes (8 January 2009):
I think all will be fine as long as you make sure some1 like ur brother goes with you. This way at least he will be there if you need him for any reason at all (also meet somewhere public not somewhere quiet like the woods or wotevaa).
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (8 January 2009):
 well i guess it woudnt be too bad as long as you can except that you wont see her very often. and i think it would be a good idea to bring along your brother. but i wont lie, long distance relationships have a hard time of working out, but if its what you want then go for it.
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