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Archived questions from: August, 2009 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

I've been talking to him on-line for almost a year -- should I go to meet him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - im 15 years old and i have being going out with this 17 yr old boy that i met on the internet we have been going out for almost a yr and he says he has fallen in love with me and and i do love him honestly but we havent met each other in person :S ...

Meeting up with man I've been chatting to online unsure what to expect?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Met him, a divorcee thru a friendship website last Mar09. He sign up the website is to look for exchanging language friends. He has never dated online, don’t even know what is ‘online romance’ initially and after chatted for 3 months, he said he ...

I think he wants to try again, but we are both afraid to take the next step

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I broke up with a man three months ago. We see each other often due to my child's hobby. We had lunch last week and it went very well (were talking for 1 1/2 hours). He knows I have been meeting men on-line with no luck. He also has dated but, ...

Is he using me to get to my friends and meet new people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - i know this sounds ridiculous but i dont have trouble finding men at all. but i recently tried a dating website just for the heck of it and i ended up meeting someone. on our first date i didnt really care because its internet.. "it wouldnt work" ...

I lied about losing my virginity to a girl I met over the Internet, and when we meet she wants to have sex with me! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - So I am dating this girl that i met online...yes i know a long distance relationship blah blah blah. She told me she has a sexual past and just so she wouldn't think I was a loser I told her I wasn't a virgin. I really love her and we have been ...

Is 2 weeks of dating too soon to express my concerns about his facebook?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I am seeing a guy i met on the internet, he has many female friends on facebook who are younger and prettier than me. I am jelous of this, and wonder why he needs to flirt with them? I dont know if hes met any of them. We have only been together for ...

She cut contact with me because she thinks the distance is too much. How can I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - ok so here we go. I've a rough life. im not gonna get too much into it but in short I've been thru it all when it comes to relationships, and I havnt been in one in years ever since my ex died. so I met this girl in the most unlikely of places. over ...

Could this online relationship ever work in real life?

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29 August 2009 (M) - My question(s): Have you ever been in a serious relationship with someone you had (originally) met online? What tips would you give for making one work? My story (Note: You don't have to read this. its kinda long, sorry) : I'm 15, my girlfriend is...

What do you talk about on a first date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - i recently joined dating website and tlked to lovely man and we exchanged phone numbers and have bee txting last few days. we have prty much covered everything bout each other our likes dislikes family everything and now am afraid if we do meet up ...

How can I stop feeling so nervous when I first meet my Internet date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - hi all, id like to ask for advice on an internet date, blind date if you like. weve been talking for a month and a half, internet and phone calls. now were going to be meeting next week. il give you some background on the situation. We have both...

Too far to love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - Hey i am 16 and met this girl online shes gonna be 15 in november. we talk forever online and when its too late to use the computer we text up until 3:30. I have never really felt about this girl the way i did any other girl. were so much alike she ...

Is it normal to feel insecure this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

24 August 2009 (M) - Hi guys, I have a problem. My girlfriend and I have been together online for 8 months now and we both love each other very much. I know she loves me, and I do trust her when she says I'm the only person she wants in the world, so why is it that I...

Am I being pushy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - This guy likes me and I like him, we talk a lot on aim but every time I ask when can we hang out he seems to not know or doesn't answer me. I don't understand. Also ever since then he seems to flirt less and less. I think I just made him ...

Where should we meet up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

24 August 2009 (M) - Any advice on meeting a girl I found online? We first exchanged emails a few months back (it was a dating site, she gave me her email address because she had blocked her account temporarily), but it has been irregular. She says she isn't always...

Should I take advantage of her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

24 August 2009 (M) - I've been in a relationship for about two weeks with a girl that I met online. We are compatible in a variety of ways, and we find each other attractive. However, even before we met in person, I realized that I don't want a relationship, and that I ...

I know what I want, but what does he want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I'm really liking this guy and all. I met him off of a dating site. He lives like a hour and a bit away from me, but it's easy transit. We have gone out on dates and stuff like that a number of times now and been talking for a month and some what. I ...

Every time I get too close to someone I lie! I'm horrible. What to do about my online friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

24 August 2009 (?) - ok this will be long. And i have to clear this first because it's the main reason of this whole thing: I have problems with lying, since i was a younger, i was under treatment but i stopped going, i was raped when i was 13 and i'm pretty much ash...

I need help in this situation with my online boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - hi,I'm 15 years old,and I have this online boyfriend. We've been "dating" for 2 and a half years now. He's from U.S. and I've never met him before. He's 17 years old,and he will be coming here this year after he graduates from highschool. I've ...

23 year old son wants to meet with a girl he met online. Is it safe?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - Our 23 year old son lives with us, and he's in university doing a 4-year business course - it got delayed for financial reasons. He's doing well academically. However, he told us yesterday he wants to meet this girl he met online - he got talk...

Do I quit him or confront him? Met online, seemed sincere, lied about his job.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

22 August 2009 (?) - After an exhausting break-up with my ex, I met this wonderful guy online. He seems like a really nice guy. Our conversation was always decent. We talk about our professions, our jobs, our families, our dreams in life, our likes and dislikes. We even ...

I'm torn between these two girls...I don't know what to do. Any advice would be appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

22 August 2009 (M) - Ok well a few days ago i posted a question about my ex and how i was falling in love with her again. Heres a link to that qestion which you may have to read to understand this one. ...

How can I move on from his online emotional affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - My husband was having an emotional online affair. It started the day before our 18th anniversary. It took place with a girl he went to school with. He would sleep until 3 or so in the afternoon get up and be online with her till 4 or 5 that next ...

Confused - he hasn't called.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - I met a guy on a matrimonial website (a little different than a regular dating website as the intention is for long-term relationships from the get-go eventually leading to marriage). We’re from different provinces. Anyway me and this guy exchanged ...

He keeps asking me out, I'm not attracted to him, but I don't like hurting his feelings!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - I am on an internet dating site. There is a guy who has emailed me about 30 times. He has asked me out on several occasions, i have almost run out of excuses for not accepting. I am not attracted to him but he seems to be obsessed by me. Should i...

Boy on Msn says pick me or your boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - i have been talking to this guy for about 4years on msn and a really do like him like actually soo much but he lives soo far away and he wants us to be more than friends but i just cant see it working because of the distance and hes away on holid...

This guy I've been talking to on msn has told me to choose between him or my boyfriend! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

Toxic relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - I have an online male friend that tells me he loves me. I love him as well but not quite the way I think he wants me to. Any time I try to put some distance between us he goes of his nut and acuses me of using him and not loving him anymore. I speak ...

Did he play me or what? He had g/f he never told me about

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - I met a guy in a dating site. I am from the Philippines, he is from USA. We have lots of things in common… we agreed to no commitment with anyone, just stay as pals and someday meet in person. He kept telling me that he will not commit, he can’t ...

The man I met online hasn't contacted me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - I met a man through an Internet dating site and we had a wonderful meeting. Afterwards he sent me an email saying he had a great and was looking forward to doing it again. This was a week ago and I haven't heard from him since. We are both in our ...

I lied to him about my age and now he wants to visit me, what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - Okay, so, I was on a chat room one day, bored out of my mind, telling people I was 17 when I actually, I had just turned 14. Well, me and this guy (he was 17) got talking and exchanged emails. We got to know eachother and I guess he started liking ...

Why won't he even remove his ex's from the social networking site?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - My fiance and I have know each other for nearly ten years. We've been in a relationship for nearly five. Before me he only had three serious relationships. One we filed a restraining order against, and has no bearing here. The other two were bad ...

What was the reason behind his rude behaviour??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I met a man on a site I was networking on. We began talking on the phone and we seemed to hit it off. I am a single mom of two and I have a life. I noticed this man started being demanding and rude. He got angry with me because he assumed that we ...

What's the best way to tell her about my weight issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Referring to question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/advice-for-meeting-a-girl-i-met-online.html What's the best way to approach/tell her about the weight thing?...

I'm married but in love with a man overseas

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I am completely confused in my life now. I have been married for about 15 years. I was completely left lonely by my husband so many of the years and finally i met someone who is so sincere and meaningful to me, online and he lives overseas. Him ...

Advice for meeting a girl I met online

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 August 2009 (M) - Hi I came across this girl a while ago on a dating site. A long while back. No, sorry that's wrong, she discovered my profile. We've been in contact intermittently since, and I know I want to meet her. I just worry that she might be put off...

Fiance has profile on online dating website, does that mean he doesn't love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for three years. The other day, his mom called me and asked if I could have him reply to her e-mail she had sent him a few days ago. We know each others passwords to our e-mails, so I thought I would just check his ...

We arrange to meet, and she always cancels. How can I make this date happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

14 August 2009 (M) - thanks for reading! I have meet this really amazing Girl on the internet and she seems to be very shy.We have had some great conversations on the phone for hours at a time and when we talk its natural and nothing is forced and there isnt any odd ...

Will he think I'm not interested if I can't talk to him on the phone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - I started talking to a great guy online, flirting and joking around, then after a while, we moved on to texting each other. Now he wants to call me and I keep making excuses not to because I'm worried it won't go well. My ex, who I broke up with at ...

Is it considered cheating when you don't disclose that you talk to others online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Is it okay to talk to different guys online while you are not committed to any of them yet? Do you consider it cheating when each of these guys doesn't know you talk to others as well? I know for sure these guys talk to other ladies on dating...

Apart from watching , what else could he be doing on a porn site? And what does BDSM stand for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Why would a seemingly 'Godfearing' guy resort to using an adult dating porno website to meet women??? He is not ugly( about a 5) is EXTREMELY successful, can get almost ANY woman he wants to date him - and he goes on an awful lot of dates - driv...

I'm not sure I fancy the man I'm seeing, but I don't want to lose him either! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I am a 30 year old woman who has recently started a new relationship. We met through an online site, and on the first date I thought 'well I don't fancy him, but he makes me laugh and I feel very safe with him' We went on some more dates which were ...

I just want to know the truth, how do I get her to come clean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

11 August 2009 (M) - I have a serious question. I know that as men or humanbeings in general, we have a tendency to over react or feed into our doubts. Let me tell you the story. I meant and married my wife via the internet. When I met her I was done. Totally in love....

Back in the world of dating again, and finding it very confusing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Ok so I joined an online dating website and the main reasons for this are because I dont have the time to be going out and meeting people due to my job, and I've just moved to a new city where I dont know many people hence I thought using online ...

Fell in love after internet relationship, now he's gone, did he fake the 3 years, we were together?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

8 August 2009 (F) - As it says there, i really didnt know where else to turn. i don't have many friends left.. So i'll start from the begining. it all started when i was only 13, i'm now 16. it started as an internet relationship and i never intended it to go far i ...

What can I do to help him maintain an erection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

8 August 2009 (F) - I've recently started having a friends with benefits kind of relationship with a guy I met through an internet dating site. It's a really good arrangement in most ways since we both just got out of really serious relationships and just want a little ...

Does online dating work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Does anyone here ever tried online dating? Does it ever work like you can expect something serious to come out of this? I am asking because I am about to try this out and would want to know if its worth the time and effort generally. If no...

Is this normal ... or am I going crazy?

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7 August 2009 (F) - I just finished chatting with a very wonderful guy I met online. Aside from that, I am answering emails from guys who said to me they are interested to get to know me. As a matter of fact, I am confused now who said this or that and I always reread ...

He checks his email, but doesn't reply to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy, not exclusively (though neither of us has been seeing anyone else, we're just trying not to pressure what we have) for almost a year now. About 5 months ago, I moved 1000 miles away for work and we flew back and forth ...

How do I tell my boyfriend I'm making new social gay friends online and want to meet them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) - I joined a gay website to make new friends and it is working well. I am meeting a guy for a drink and probably a dance on Friday. I really need more of a social life. BUT BUT BUT I don't know how to tell my boyfriend! He only has female friend...

This relationship is all very one-sided and I want SO much more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I feel like I am in a one-sided relationship. I love my boyfriend, but he only has said he loves me when I found out he was on a fling site. Now I do not trust him, and he lied before so how do I know he is not lying now. he is going on a motorcycle ...