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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

If she's not interested, why doesn't she tell me so??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hi all, well i sent a question in last week regarding a girl i had dated a few times, and got some great advice on what to do. Well since then she has been in contact with her friend on a social networking site. Her friend asks her how shes doin, ...

Why won't he come and see me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I am seperated and have 2 children, I got talking to a nice man on the internet and we have been in contact now for 10 months, we have emailed and text each other every day and we have chatted for hours on the phone. He is divorced and has 2 grown ...

All of a sudden he is not interested in me or my pregnancy - we met online; what do I do now??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I really do not know where to begin. Its simple though I met an incredibly sweet man on the internet. We hit it off really well , we were always online or the phone. I even helped him with a few bills. Even went as far as even buying him a cell ...

How should I handle not being able to see her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Ok, I met a girl online and we have been talking for a while, and its been heavy flirting both ways. I'm pretty sure in a few weeks I'll be able to move to considering asking her to be my girlfriend. Although, I have never met her in person, we plan ...

How to win back my wife's trust after chatting to women in the Internet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - i have a dilemma where i've lost my wife's trust due to some stupid decisions i've made by chatting to women on facebook and texting someone else flirtatiously and now face a situation where my marraige is in doubt.How do i win back her trust and ...

Are guys like wolves on online dating sites? It's unbelievably hard being a woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - I tried an online dating site. Out of curiosity I set up a fake female profile to see what it's like from their end. It's absolutely ridiculous! What an eye-opening experience. I got bombarded by messages. The guys were almost like wolves. It...

Do you think this is a sign of his true character?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5869 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hi there everyone. I'm looking for some answers as to what I should do about this guy. We started talking online a few weeks ago and I really love his personality. He is (or was) interested in me big time. But since he lives far away I was hesitant ...

How long should I leave it before I message him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Please help im not sure what it means/am having trouble reading the signals. I went on a date on sat night with someone that i met online. The date seemed to go well, he said that he enjoyed it, walked me to the car and the end...

Why did he react this way when I asked about his children?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I guy I´ve emailing quite long time now after we met in person 2 years back, I called him to say Hi since we are long distance and holidays are coming. I always knew he has 3 kids but I never knew much about them, or how old they are. So, I ask...

I met a wonderful man on the internet, but now I'm afraid I might have pushed him off, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5870 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I have met the wonderfull man on the internet , we have spoken on the net, text and telephone for over 3 months. He is away in the USA taking his ill mother for a short holiday, I cannot contact him by phone, although he said he would ring or e ...

I went online for cybersex pretending I'm a woman and it turns me on! Does this mean I'm a gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - cyber sex hi im male , ive got a wife and 2 kids, we have not been getting lately, ive signed to a web site for cyber sex chat, you can talk to women and even do cam to cam cyber sex , the problem is theres more men on than women and it got...

I have an online friend who I just found out is only 14! Will I get in trouble for just talking to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I started speaking to a girl on facebook because I like her style of fashion etc. Have been talking about music, hair, make up, clothes etc as no one I know is into this particular thing (which is why I found someone on facebook as no one to speak ...

I have the chance to lose my virginity with a girl I have been chatting to over the Internet - should I go for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5870 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - I'm a virgin but I've got the chance to loose it to a girl I've been chatting to over the internet. We are planning on meeting in a hotel and spending the day "doing it" She is lovely to chat and is well up for it even though I'm a virgin but ...

I'm not sure about being intimate with my long distance guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5870 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hi, just need a bit of advice please if anyone can help. I met a guy on a chat site just over a year ago and have met each other twice since then. We live approximately 150 miles apart and both work shifts so meeting is quite a challenge. we talk ...

Long distance relationship... seeking advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - So here is a dandy. I met a girl on the net about a month ago. We met on a video chat website, and at first we just talked, you know the normal 'hi, how are ya's' But we quickly started sharing pictures and falling for each other. There is an ...

Has my online man lost interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I met this guy through an online dating site. I responded to his profile and He immediately responded back. after a couple of messages we sent back and fourth I ended the conversation given him my email address. He sent me an email message the next ...

Is my online date just playing around with me, or what is going on? Should I agree to meet with him, or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - My problem starts when i met this guy in a chat room which i frequent often,however after chatting a couple of times,things were starting to change,and we started to connect,of course he told me these feelings will get more serious ,which it ...

I met him and he looked NOTHING like his picture!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - It all started about a year ago when I met this guy online, who lives in another country, I was at the time dating someone else, but the guy online was just a friend for 6 months, so no I wasnt cheating. I did in the end sort of break up with my bf ...

Is it wrong for a 13 yr old to date a 19 yr old?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

23 November 2008 (?) - Is it wrong for a 13yo girl to be dating a 19yo guy that lives over seas? I love him to death, but i want other peoples point of view. No my parents dont know about him-im not supposed to date. I have been with some one that was 14....it didnt work ...

Why is he so different with her? Was I just nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Please help me. My life is in chaos. I met a man online six years ago and we wrote all of that time. Then we met and spent two weeks together to see how it would go. It went well (I thought.) and he promised to come and see me for the weekend in a ...

Am I crazy not to trust him 100%?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Hi My boyfriend kept a female pen pal he had secret from me. Only me finding a letter she had sent him, before we started going out, triggered the questions. Who is she? Why were you writing to each other? He said she is married and that there i...

What do you do with a hubby who creates dating profiles and views porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - My fiance and I have been together on and off since middle school. He was logged in to my computer and forgot to log out so I glanced at the first page of his email (being nosey) and seen that he had registered with a dating website. I then clicked ...

I'm afraid my online girl won't like me when she sees me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - hello,i have a question i met this girl online.we have talked for 6months. we know everything about eachother,we know how we look. but i feel scared she aint gunna like me when she sees me. idk... am i being paranoid?...

Am I wrong to be insecure with where I stand in this relationship?

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20 November 2008 (F) - Well here it goes, I have been doing online dating and talking to guys for the past couple of years since I separated from my child's dad, I have talked to a lot of guys and met a few in real life with no connection. Until about 4 months ago I had ...

My boyfriend, his online dating voyeurism, My problem...Can you help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I would like advice. I probably should note that it looks a little long compared to the other Dear Cupid's but a little background is necessary. I have been dating a man I met online for 3 months - he's a great guy. We are in a real relationship. ...

Does his e-wink ; ) mean anything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I sent a message to someone i like on a social networking site, and told him i thought he was attractive and funny, and he replied saying thanks, kiddo and put a wink symbol like this - ; ). what do you think his response means ?....

Whats your opinion on dating websites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hello, I was just wondering if I could ask what people's opinions are on online dating websites? I recently joined one, and I'm just wondering if anyone has any success/failure stories? I'm trying to work out if its actually worth my time! I've he...

Leave it or wait and approach her in person in the near future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I saw a colleague from work on an online dating site.I don't really know her other than to say hello to.But I get the impression she likes me. I decided and reasoned out that rather than ask her out directly at work,I would join the site and...

My friends tell me to run from him but I don't see him in that light at all...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a little dilemma. I met this guy online and we hit it off from the very first meeting. I told him from the start that I was not looking for anything serious and just wanted someone to have fun and a casual relationship wit...

We're on a break because I told him I went on a date with another early on. Are we over? Should I wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5878 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Ok someone please give me some insight on this situation. I was talking marriage with this guy I have been with for almost 9 months. Well he said he wanted me to explore other options before I settle for him. I said no I didn't want to. He asked me ...

I don't know what I can get her for her birthday - since she lives thousands of miles away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 November 2008 (M) - Just a quick question - slightly irrelevant to the norm on this site - but I have an internet penpal with someone from America, and I have no idea what to get her for her birthday. Shes 14; I don't really know what I can do for her birthday or ...

I am interested in on-line dating, but as charming as I try to be, they always disappear, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 November 2008 (M) - I am a single man who is kind, has a good sense of humour, good hygiene, takes care of himself and his dates and generally behave in the presence of women and give them all the attention and respect they need. For some to me unknown reason, ...

We seemed to have a really strong connection, but have I scared her off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

15 November 2008 (F) - hi, i've been chatting to this woman online for about a month, and we hit it off immediately. we exchanged photos and then she asked me out for a drink. however, she is quite busy so we haven't yet set a date yet although we were planning to meet up ...

Stuck in Purgatory

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

15 November 2008 (F) - I think I am the biggest idiot ever born. I think I really fell for a man I met online. I have been talking to him on and off for well over a year, we have lost touch for a couple weeks and lastly for a few months but when we talked again a few ...

I think I might be getting into an online relationship. Thoughts and advice anyone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

14 November 2008 (M) - I think I might be in a situation where I could end up in an online relationship. Can this ever work? It's just we are opposite sides of the ocean. I think if were geographically closer it really could work. I have been doing some serious flirting...

She broke up with me and broke my heart after promising to be with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

14 November 2008 (M) - well this is a long story i'll try to make it short but plz try to be a bit patient and read the whole things cos i really need help. i'm a 22 year old guy livin in asia i'm not a very social person cos i was bullied most of my childhood by cla...

Was he just being nice, or is there something more to it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5882 days ago

14 November 2008 (F) - I'm asking for your advice. A guy I know, who works at the same place as me, spent 2 and a half hours chatting to me through facebook chat. He was chatting from 2230 till about 1am. He has to be up at 5am for work. We get on really well, always ...

I ended a friendship with an online friend but can't get over this missing him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

14 November 2008 (F) - This will probably seem to many as a ridiculous question. But, I met someone online, he is the same age as me ( he is he really is) and we became friends...at first more then friends then we just decided to remain friends because we knew we were ...

Is having an internet lover stupid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Is having an internet lover stupid?...

I love my online boyfriend and now he isnt replying to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - help please i got to know this boy online and i fell for him. i told him that i was in love with him and he said he was too. so we started somthing. but he's been all off me and isnt reply to me. i dont wanna be a pain, but i love him. does thi...

If he didnt want to talk to me anymore why didnt he just say so?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I met a guy online five months ago,we started chatting as friends and after some time we started talking romance to each other.I didn't believe in "long-distance online relationships" because I had bad experience ,but he kept saying that distance is ...

I met a man online, he says that he loves me but at times he just switches off.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I met this man via chatting..He is a scorpio by the way. After some days he proposed his love for me stating that he meant it by his heart n soul n is just waiting for my reply. We exchanged numbers n got to know each other well n after some days I ...

My mom thinks I'm in love with someone online! How do I explain that I'm not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5882 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - He and I became friends after working together for an *online cause*. We were just FRIENDS, but we did joke and tease with each other over the fact that I was attracted to him and he knew it. In any case, there was never anything sexual there and to ...

How do I prove myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with this guy I met online. Every phase of this relationship was so rushed and unexpected. It was after about 4 months of serious long distance relationship did we meet. First meeting and we ended up in bed. He thinks I ...

Is it my fault that he can't be on the internet, text or call?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - I dont know if its my fault or not, but im in a internet relationship with a boy who i really do love, and his mum has now disconnected his internet and blocked his phone so he cant send texts, and i think its my fault... if it is what should i...

If she doesn't like me, why does she constantly e-mail me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - I am totally into this girl she's 20 n I'm 16 we both work in the same office we email each other all day but she is so far over on the other side of the office so we can't talk much. I can't stop thinking of her she is gorgeous n her personality is ...

I would love to find a stay at home career/business.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

12 November 2008 (?) - I have a question that I hope there is someone who can help me with...it's more of a career dilemma than a love... I met a wonderful man on a dating website last year. I live in Arizona (USA) and He lives in Maine (USA) For those of you who are not ...

What do I say to him? I'm inexperienced.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

12 November 2008 (?) - my online (ex) boyfriend brokeup with me 4 months ago. i now have a new online bf of ? months and he started getting a bit sexual. i wasnt sure how to reply. im not allowed to date so i dont really have much experince with guys... what do i say if ...

He is nice to everyone else, but acts like a jerk towards me. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - There is this one guy that acts strange around me. He talks to my friends and not to me. My friends add him as a friend on Facebook, and he accepts them, but when I add him, he ignores me. (he does not even know my friends). He is nice to everyone ...

I don't want to scare her away by moving too quick

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

12 November 2008 (M) - Hi, I just met this girl online, I really like her, she has everything I have always wanted in a woman. We are up to the fourth date now, are dates are affectionate, but not over the top, everything still seems ok. Here is the problem, i think i am ...