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writes:This will probably seem to many as a ridiculous question. But, I met someone online, he is the same age as me ( he is he really is) and we became friends...at first more then friends then we just decided to remain friends because we knew we were never going to meet. I've talked with him for more than nine months now. We have had fights before in the past but would always apologize to each other later. We had so much in common. He was my friend when he was not playing pranks on me. So, I ended it because I was tired of him playing these jokes and him telling me to lighten up. I know many of you reading are probably thinking "it was just an online thing.. you never met. Get over it" I know I've told myself that but I can't seem to get over missing him. I don't miss the way he treated me ...I don't want to go into details but all the pranks really was the last straw. This is bothering me so much that I miss him because its ridiculous, he was just somebody online. I was doing great until a mutal friend was asked by him if they had spoken with me. Please any suggestions on what to do. Anybody have had something similar? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008): This is not ridiculous, you have only been talking for 9 months. I talked to this girl for 4 years online/phone/email. We fell in love "over the time span of talking".. but when we did meet... it was the most intense thing I'v ever been through. Mind you we went on webcam, exchanged videos and photos of each other over the 4 years, so it basicaly felt like we knew each other for a 1000 years, it's quite odd really! but GOOD LUCK with your situation.. and remember.. you don't know what you have... until it's gone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionplease if anyone has any advice I'd really appreciate it
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