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writes:help please i got to know this boy online and i fell for him. i told him that i was in love with him and he said he was too. so we started somthing. but he's been all off me and isnt reply to me. i dont wanna be a pain, but i love him. does this mean he dont love me anymore or what??? please help xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): I'm not going to like to say this because I've been down that road, but let him go. What might seem as love is probably just infatuation for both of you. Let him go and find someone you can see and touch. I know it hurts. Good luck!
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reader, StrawberryTea63 +, writes (13 November 2008):
Hun, I been down this road before and believe me, you'll get over it. You might think it's love, but I think that your just trying to fill a viod in your life by finding someone online and calling it, "love."
Besides that, I think that you should just give him a little space and when he wants to answer you or talk to you then he'll do it.
I'm not really that sorry if I got you mad, you just need to face the truth. If you guys don't live close to eachother then there is like no way it will go anywhere. I hope I helped you out just a little. :]
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reader, Boredatwork  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Your not going to like my answer, but this is my honest opinion:
How people can this they fall in love with someone without ever holding seeing them, holding them close, feeling there touch/kiss amazes me!
You were friends and thats all, theres no way you can hold down a full relationship without ever being together. Chances are he has meet someone else, probebly that he sees IRL and has had to cut ties with you for fear of hurting there feelings.
Please meet somone who you can actually spend time with, and good things will come im sure :)
IF you strugle to meet people, join clubs for things your interested in, that way you will meet like minded people.
Please dont dwell on this "online relationship" its really not worth it.
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reader, helpjayne +, writes (13 November 2008):
 maybe he feels that things are moving to fast because you havn't met yet and he might be getting a little nervous give him sometime to cool down and if he really likes you he'l reply to you, make more friends while he is not talking to you that way your so busy getting to know all these people you forget about it and don't worry as much.
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