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Am I wrong to be insecure with where I stand in this relationship?

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Question - (20 November 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Well here it goes, I have been doing online dating and talking to guys for the past couple of years since I separated from my child's dad, I have talked to a lot of guys and met a few in real life with no connection. Until about 4 months ago I had been talking to this guy that I thought was divorced and I really liked so we met for dinner after a month or so of talking. I really liked him and we have been continuing to see each other since then. The problem is that he is still married, she doesn't live with him and she hasn't for about 6-8 months (so she was gone before me). I think that I am falling in love with him but I am not sure if I am a rebound. We have had sex and have a normal relationship but when I go to his house that used to be their house there are wedding pictures on the walls and I feel really insecure. I want to tell him, but I sometimes feel if it is wrong to have feelings like that since he is still legally married but has nothing to do with her. Am I wrong to be insecure with where I stand in this relationship?

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