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I met a man online, he says that he loves me but at times he just switches off.

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Question - (13 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2008)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met this man via chatting..He is a scorpio by the way. After some days he proposed his love for me stating that he meant it by his heart n soul n is just waiting for my reply. We exchanged numbers n got to know each other well n after some days I said yes. Its been days n he says his love has been growing for me leaps n bounds. But at times he just switches me off..saying he is busy n can't call if he is around with his friends or relatives because he doesn't trust them for me! Even though we haven't met yet..he has already gone through the talks of future. He is very possessive n says he feels extremely jealous when he gets to know that am with some other man..n therefore he keeps asking me questions as to where I am, with whom? But how can it be that a man can't talk with his friends or relatives around?? Though the age doesn't doesn't really matters but he is 10 yrs elder to me.I don't know .. I feel confused.What should I do?!

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A female reader, Teacake United States +, writes (13 November 2008):

Teacake agony auntNever trust a scorpio! LOL I know from experience. They are in love with every woman they meet!!!! Love is impossible when you don't know someone, its all about fantasy and has nothing to do with real life.

Stay off meeting men on line. Everyone I know who has done this ends up very sorry. If he is this creepy when you don't know him, imagine how controlling he would be if you met him. Scorpio men tend to be the most controlling of all, and have a very hard time being faithful. Delete or block him from your contacts.

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A female reader, helpjayne United Kingdom +, writes (13 November 2008):

helpjayne agony auntmaybe there is another woman on the scene thats why he switches off. if he's possesive now either make another internet friend or go meet people you shouldn't have to justify yourself to a man on the internet if you ever met him imagine how controlled you would be go have fun you shouldn't be questioned you deserve more than to be shoved to one side because his family are their. he doesn't sound like that much of a great person but if you really like him tell him that your sick of him questioning you and putting you to one side treating you like second best and then maybe you and him could work something out

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goodluck

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