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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi My boyfriend kept a female pen pal he had secret from me. Only me finding a letter she had sent him, before we started going out, triggered the questions. Who is she? Why were you writing to each other? He said she is married and that there is nothing going on. But why not tell me about her. Am I crazy to not trust him 100%? Also with the creation of Facebook and other social networking sites he could still be in contact with her. She said that she would be jealous if her husband was writing to a girl and I can't be. I bet he wouldn't like it if I had old letters from male penpals. I am so confused. I think he met her too, many years ago long before I was on the scene. Has anyone else had a similar experience? Thanks for reading this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): I've had quite a number of pen pals and email females (think I will patent that?) and I have been married a long time. I assume they don't live near each other or there would be no need to write?
What is the problem if that is the case? He probably only kept it secret because he knows you are a bit insecure.
People like to correspond with people from other areas/countries etc and it is more or less curiousity and not necessarily someone looking for relationships. I think you are worrying far too much.
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