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writes:Ok, I met a girl online and we have been talking for a while, and its been heavy flirting both ways. I'm pretty sure in a few weeks I'll be able to move to considering asking her to be my girlfriend. Although, I have never met her in person, we plan on it. We are about 3 hours away from eachother and neither of us have licenses yet. We will soon, but driving a long way to see her may be a problem. I am a very physical bf, I feel lonely when I can't hold/cuddle my girlfriend, also I feel the same when I can't kiss her or whatever it may be. I usually get consumed by these feelings and they leave me in a shitty mood. Which often leads me to becoming temporarily clingy until the feelings go away. What do you think I should do, and how do you think I should handle not seeing her, if we do date. I will probably only be able to see her every month or possibly more often if we do date.
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reader, Alone_again  +, writes (30 November 2008):
Me too well I was . . . it was horrible I felt so inlove with him I met him face to face unlike you which is probably why it hurt more for 6 months we comunicated through texts messages sending pics of ourselves it was fun. But as you said you miss the cuddling, holding hands a kiss everyday lots of hugs and I just CANT be without all thoes little things that build a relationship. Can you? x
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reader, tayalouise +, writes (30 November 2008):
 I'm in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend lives about 3 hours away, the same as you. And he lately has been feeling the same as you - being upset that we can't cuddle/kiss etc. as much as normal couples do.
It is hard, and I would only reccommend going into this relationship if you think you can deal with the highs as well as the lows.
There will be times when you will feel shit and not know what to do with yourself, but then when you see each other it'll be totally worth it.
Be prepared to talk to each other A LOT if you do go into a relationship as well. Lots of phone calls/messages/lettesr to keep your feelings alive.
If you're both willing to put the time and effort in, then I would say go for it
And good luck!
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reader, petina1 +, writes (30 November 2008):
 If you want a lot out of the relationship, i'e . physical wise, then a long distance relationship is not for you. Speaking to someone online and actually in person are two different things. We imagine a person to be a certain way when we talk online, and our illusion can be so different when meeting in person so you have that to contend with as well. You could try talking to girls who live a bit nearer to you if this doesnt work out because long distance dating is really really hard for most. hope this helps.
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