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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi there everyone. I'm looking for some answers as to what I should do about this guy. We started talking online a few weeks ago and I really love his personality. He is (or was) interested in me big time. But since he lives far away I was hesitant with my feelings. Well he went on trying to convince me to date him and that he could eventually move here and so on and so on. I said I needed time to think and aslo to get to know him better. Well he sent me a message about...4 days ago saying that he has thought about it and that I am right, that we should give it more time. I thought he was acting funny when we chatted that night... I'm pretty sure I know why now. Around that same day that he sent that message, he started dating someone. (I know because of a certain comment on his page) So now I'm kind of upset that he didn't just tell me that, I guess it wasn't a lie but it was dishonest not to tell me the truth of why he was agreeing with me regarding a relationship. So anyways.... I like the guy. But now he doesn't talk to me and I haven't bothered to make contact with him because I feel like he tried to hide that from me that he started dating someone and that bothers me. Do you think this is a sign of his true character? It's good that he cooled things off beetween us if he's not single now, but why didn't he just tell me that? I'm also worried that maybe he tries this kind of stuff with a lot of girls, his feelings for me developed very quickly, which sort of scared me I guess. I don't know if I should try to talk to him or not, but I guess I kind of want to, I'm just worried whether or not I can trust him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): Oh dear come on you are not a child any more. Forget about this guy, be happy that you discovered his true colors before you got to closely involved or before you moved to be with im. Stop wrroying about him and stop sweating about what he does with other girls. Think about yourself and how happy you can be that you are not involved with him big time.Please stop acting "desperate" you don't need him in your life. Forget about him and why even bother to be concerned about trusting him or contacting him. Go and find the right guy that will be honest with you and that will love you. These things happen in life but we learn from our mistakes.Next time you will be more carefull.Good luck.
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