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Archived questions from: February, 2015 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I think anything I did while we were broken up is none of his business!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - I broke up with my BF for 5 months. He's married by the way and we had an affair for 2 1/2 years. We have started talking again and want to pursue a relationship but only if he leaves his wife. I refuse to get back to that stressful, wrong mess. ...

My wife misled me with her sexual past

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

27 February 2015 (M) - We got married 16 years ago and i had to ask her parents for permission to marry her since we were both brought up the old fashioned way, so at that time we got to know each other for about a year before we got married. before I met her I had two ...

How do I deal with a lying husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - i'd honestly never thought to see myself on one of these websites.. i'm 5 months pregnant and been married for a little over a month now. ive been with him for only 6 months. which i know sounds horrible, but my parents are old fashion and the...

How do I sincerely forgive my husband for cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - I want to forgive my husband.i want to believe he is willing to reform as he promised recently. He has apologized and realized he was on a wrong path. He is willing to do everything it takes to fix our marriage.We've been together 17 yrs and have 3 ...

How can a husband handle such an issue?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

24 February 2015 (M) - Is it proper for the woman to always pin her phones preventing her husband to never have access to her phone? Even when the husband demand that both of them should remove pin code from their phones, she refused. There after the maids alleged that ...

I don't think my wife should be communicating with an ex, she doesn't agree!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

24 February 2015 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 10 years. Unfortunately I ignored her for much of that time and we drifted apart. We recently rekindled our marriage but I innocently found something on her Facebook. I went to log in to my Facebook but it was ...

What are the ground rules during separation from spouse?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3587 days ago

23 February 2015 (M) - Just curious, what are the ground rules for separating with a spouse i.e. we need some time apart? Is dating and seeing others ok? Please don't look at this as an excuse but rather a consequence of separation....

Husband has apologised and wants me back, but I haven't changed since I left him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - I left my husband because he had a problem with my body and would make comments. Mainly about loose skin ( dr says its as good as it will ever be again short of surgery which I'm not doing ) from babies and my breasts sagging , the general aging ...

How can I cope with this? Hasn't been a good marriage. Wife is leaving me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3587 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - So after five years of marriage my wife is leaving me. It hasn't been a good marriage, with her spending our money and leaving me to pay off he debts, she has ben humiliating me. She makes herself look good, but she rarely helps around the house et...

33 years of amazing mariage but the spark has gone. How can I deal with my wish to leave my wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - I'm thinking of leaving my wife after 33yrs of an amazing marriage. It all began three years ago. I was let down badly by people I trusted (including my wife)I needed to feel valued again. I met someone and we began a relationship. I ...

My husband puts his parents before me and it hurts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - Hi everybody, I had a lump followed by pain in my breast so I asked my husband to take me to the doctors. We went and then that doctor scheduled me for an ultrasound which was three weeks after that. Come the morning of that appointment my husband ...

Newly married, but I've lost my sex drive completely. What can I do? What could cause this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - Hello, I just recently got married literally about a week ago. However, I've lived with my husband for a little over a year. For about 9-10 months now, I've not wanted sex at all. I'm on birth control pills, and on anxiety medication so I'...

Married with kids. She is seeing other men. I love her dearly...but when is enough enough?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

19 February 2015 (M) - Married with kids. I love her dearly...but when is enough enough? I would really appreciate insight from the outside looking in. I am going to be 100% truthful here. I have no reason not to…I just really want thoughts and advice based on my s...

Need help to move past then when I see the OW all the time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - My husband told me that he had cheated on me I have decided to stay and see if we can make it work. We have been together for 10yrs and have 3 children hence why I am trying to move on. He has done everything I have asked ie deleted her number, ...

I caught my husband taking negatively about me to the kids and family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

17 February 2015 (F) - I've been married to a man for three years. I had three kids to bring to this relationship he had 2... At first things were great between us like they are in the beginning... We have since then bought a house and are starting to try to make a ...

We are separated but trying to work it out, I'm worried that he's not attracted to me or prefers to watch younger women in porn! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3574 days ago

17 February 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been seperated a year and living in different houses. We mainly seperated because we had drifted apart and I felt the love wasn't there or at least that he never expressed it. He has always had a major problem with e pressing ...

My wife wont talk about our sexless marriage and thinks everything is ok!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

17 February 2015 (M) - Hi I'm been married 27 years After my wife had breast cancer 20 years ago she as gone completely of sex when I try to touch her she just turns around I've tryed talking to her but she's not interested I still love her but ate being regected all ...

I care for my husband but don't love him. I'm confused and made to feel guilty because I want out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

16 February 2015 (F) - Hi all, I am a little confused at the moment and am not sure what my feelings mean! Please help. 9 years back I opted for a traditional marriage with a cousin from India (I'm from the UK). Before we were married he said he had business ...

Wife and I fought over circumcision

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

16 February 2015 (M) - My wife and I recently found out she is pregnant. We don't know the sex of the baby yet and probably will let it surprise us anyway. We were talking about baby names when my wife asked me about circumcision. This wasn't a topic we had ever disc...

My wife can't see that her friends are bad for her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

14 February 2015 (M) - My wife has very poor taste in friends. They do not treat her like a friend at all. They spread rumors and try to undermine anything she does, like telling her boss she shouldn't get a promotion. I try to sit idly by until I just can't stand it ...

I'm feeling resentful towards my wife for her lies about her sexual past. Has this permanently changed our relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

14 February 2015 (M) - I will make this simple short and sweet. My wife lied to me about her sexual past and was not honest about it. She had made herrself sound innocent and I knew she wasn't a virgin when we met. Being dumb and naïve I didn't press the issue further....

Should I stay even though he says he won't love me anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

14 February 2015 (F) - I'm married with two kids. I have been married for about 11 years,going through some tought time with my husband. I'm so stress out, will my husband wants to end marriage because he says I don't listen to him and is always talking back, I feel tha...

I have resentful feelings for my wife lying about her past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

My husband calls me fat and useless, I think he is cheating on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

14 February 2015 (F) - My husband Is cheating and denies ces So rude towzrds me and everytime He tells me am So,fat,uselesscalls me idiot.he sends secret messages to a particulzr girl,once i asked himhe shouted and got annoyed of me and pretend he didnt know anything....

I told him I don't think he loves me anymore and he told me to stop complaining.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

14 February 2015 (F) - I have been married for 11 years. Marriage is ok, has ups and downs. Every Valentines Day my husband will buy beautiful red roses tall stemmed with baby breath. They are always given in a loving way, usually with a hug and kiss. This year he gave...

I'm finding it difficult to continue living in this atmosphere of deception.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - There was a period of five years in my present relationship, of 20 years, where sex stopped. For me, it was part of a larger package of the menopause, our teenage daughter's behaviour and my partner's semi-loss of potency. In October last year I ...

Was my husband being inconsiderate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - I have an question. I want to know if my husband was being inconsiderate or am i just tripping. Since yesterday i have been battling a major toothache where as my jaw is swollen and half my tooth is gone. All day yesterday i stayed in bed due to the ...

Should I start dressing like a frumpy mom?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - So, I am almost 35 and "look 18", according to my husband (and all the men at the office, ew). I apparently have an "innocent look", despite the fact that I wear makeup and don't go with the trends, I have my own distinct style. Thanks to my genes, ...

Marriage probems and my sister interferring did not help. How can I get over this, and move forward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

9 February 2015 (F) - What should I do? My sister has meddled in my relationships for years including my marriage. She became his confidant and he ran to her with loads of stories, none of them good for years. My marriage came to an end, not because of her, but her inte...

My wife gave her ex boyfriend better sex than she gives me!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

9 February 2015 (M) - I have asked my wife for 10 years to do the same sex acts that she did with her ex boyfriend but she refuses. She had sex with him daily and with me 3 times a month. I feel hurt and inferior to him. Is it ok that she denies me but wanted to ...

My husband wants me to travel to Kurdistan but I am too scared!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

8 February 2015 (F) - My husband is from kurdistan, iraq. He is waiting to get his passport and then he was supposed to be meeting me in turkey as i I dont want to go to kurdistan. The travel advice advises no travel or only essential travel as the situation could ...

What are some options, considering that my wife doesn't show me any affection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3605 days ago

7 February 2015 (?) - I have been stewing with this problem for a while and it just won't go away. I am married with two children and in most respects happy, apart from one thing, the physical side of the relationship. I don't just mean sex, I mean kissing, cuddlin...

In love with two men for 25 years...Help, what would you do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3601 days ago

7 February 2015 (F) - Just wanted to know if anyone else has been in love with two people for over 25 years and they both love you back? I am married to same man for over 20 years and love him greatly...dated in high school, got married, had family. However, during this ...

Walking on egg shells. Am I falling out of love with my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

5 February 2015 (F) - I have been married to my husband for almost 13 years. He is generally a good man but he is not easy to live with. All along he has had problems with light substance abuse, anxiety, anger management issues, borderline personality disorder (which i...

My husband wears his stinky socks, and wears them and wears them and wears them!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

3 February 2015 (F) - My husband wears his thermal underwear for 3 or more days in a row and after wearing them all day, will also wear them to bed. He will also wear his stinky socks and take them off and leave them by the bed and put them back on in the morning. I ...

My husband left me for another woman and I'm very confused and afraid

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

2 February 2015 (F) - HUSBAND LEFT ME TO LIVE WITH ANOTHER WOMAN Married for 16 Years to a man I thought was my prince charming. We are both drinkers in fact he didn't drink when we first met I did. We were both married but we both got divorced and remarried before t...

Affair, sex, drugs, lies ... I've got the lot!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

2 February 2015 (M) - So I have been having an affair for the past 8 months ( yes I know I'm the biggest idiot / careless / reckless / selfish person Ass hole in the world) and yes I am asking for help from people who will judge me and make comment Althoe the ...