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Archived questions from: July, 2012 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Could it be he really doesn't want to get married?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is 41 and has never been married. We have been together for a year. When I ask him if he sees himself getting married in the future his response is "maybe, I'm not sure". I would think that by 41 you would know if you wanted to get ...

I know the truth, still he tries to blame our son!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - My husband of many years has been on the internet chat with numerous girls, but one in particular for years.....I just found out this information of late. My problem is he will not admit to it....he blames it on our son...and calls me sick in the ...

Why does my husband think its right to put me down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - why is it when my husband puts me down he thinks it's right?i use to be controlling and not allow him to work and follow him everywhere he went and went threw his phone to see what he was doing on his phone and i know that is not right so some of ...

I didn't sign on to this marriage for me to be this unhappy and alone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 26 years, married for 18 years. We did things kinda backwards, had kids, bought a house and then got married. The baby is getting ready to go to college this fall and I have been struggling with what to do ...

My husband disrespected me, should I go back to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - My husband is 4 years older than me, we got 3 kids together he's a great father and a loving husband, he's such a nice guy, meaning he's always out there somewhere letting other women cry on his shoulders whenever they in need for someone to talk ...

Don't want to cheat. She doesn't want sex and I love her. So how can I get rid of this desire on my part for intimacy and also affection?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 July 2012 (M) - o.k. here is the jist of my situation. I will be married for 20 years come next year to the same woman. And I love my wife so much but intimacy has never been the same. now a days, since the kids are older she likes to go out with her girlfriends ...

My boyfriend spends too much time helping another woman through her separation

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - Hi. I could really use your advice to help me determine if I am over reacting in this situation. I have a boyfriend. We have been dating for about five months so the relationship is very new. But I am having a problem with his attention on a f...

Do you think this Work colleague likes me, after he said my husband, "would be crazy to not love me"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I'm a 35 year old married lady though not happily and on my way out of a marriage. I just got chatting with a collegue and as part of a conversation i said 'i dont thing my husband loves me' and he said 'He'd be crazy not to' Do you think he has f...

What's he on about? Wedding called off, he's moving out, but doesn't want to split !?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Okay...so I'm feeling heartbroken and I don't know where to go from here? My fiance and I have been together for 4 years and we were supposed to be getting married this September. We've lived together for the last 3 years and we bought a new hom...

Religious differences. Parental interference. I love him so much and I know he loves me too. What do I do!?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I'm in love with my guy friend who has been brought up in one religion and me in another religion. I have started to question my beliefs about 2 years ago... now I identify as agnostic. A few months ago I told my parents about my love for my frie...

I told my lover's wife about us but it is as if she doesn't care!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I am so hurt right now, I decided to tell my married lover's wife about our affair, because I knew that would be the only way to stop it. I am 35 yrs old and he is a 43 yr old man. It started out as a friendship with casual dinners, and no sex. ...

I think my husband had gay sex with our dinner guest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I have a bigger problem than my last one now! I think my husband of 4 years is having a gay affair! Ive talked to him, but to no avail, we just end up arguing, let me start from the beginning, 3 weeks ago, he kept making excuses to go out, 2 weeks ...

I Am Just Fed Up With My Husband...!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hello Everyone... I am 25years old and my husband is 30years old,we are married for 6years now and have two kidz who is 5years old and 1year and 4months old..I am not happy at all in my marriage,It seems it was the biggest mistake of my li...

I'm in a bad situation with my husband and really need some advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - Okay so I'm legally married, my husband in the past has hit me before and is extremely verabally abusive. We have an 2 year child together, I decided I wanted out of the marriage for my daughters sake because she can already tell how he treats me ...

I feel he doesn't care about me, anymore, and now he's just using me for his own pleasure.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - I have been married for 13 years... we have had or share of ups and downs. He has had PE and only got medication a few months ago. He helps me orgasm by other means. a month ago he woke me up at 2.00 am and aroused me and as i started responding ...

Should I consider this other man? My husband is not intersted in me. Does this other man only want sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - Hi, iam 25 years old married and have a kid,my husband is not interested in doing any sex with me... Nor will he discuss any matters to me. I saw some SMS in his mobile , which is related to a girl. I think he has another affair, if i ask him, he ...

Should I be with my husband knowing he belongs somewhere else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - pls help be4 i make a mistake im madly in love with this man my husband and i been trying to make this right from the shock of his cheating that was found out 2 weeks after we got married he was still sleeping with his ex. i have tryed to heal ...

How do I start to get over this? I am still affected by my parents infidelity and how it made me feel as a child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - My question is regarding cheating parents. A few years ago, my father cheated on my mother. I am considerably younger than my siblings AND when this infidelity occurred, I was placed in the middle of the drama because of my age difference. Althou...

My husband addict masturbating instead having sex with me and he always rejecting me when I tried made move or touch him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - I just wanna to swear . I'm miserable wife. People kept saying I'm young cus i will be 28 next month. My husband always having masturbating himself since before married me and still now. We already married for nearly 9 years and this has to stop ...

I'm not sure how to handle this new revelation about my husband.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - Am i wrong? Ive got this problem, my husband and i have always been very sexually adventrous, mutual masturbation, threesomes, anal, you name it we have done it. But recently my husband as told me, he thinks he might be bi-sexual, and wants me to wa...

Text I feel neglected and hurt and I have lost all my self confidence.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - I feel neglected and hurt and I have lost all my self confidence. My husnd who is 10 years yournger than me ( married 20 years) has been a good provider and our life together has had its ups and downs just like any othr marriage. But hrough out...

I need to move forward but don't want to hurt my husband

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - The one thing that is so diff. B/w me and My husband is he wants material things to make him happy. Always has. Yet these things just create more work for him that stresses him. I get happy from the close moments doing nothing that requires $. My ...

I think she is manipulating me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (M) - I've been married for 4 years. My wife and I have an 18-month old daughter. We had our ups and downs when we were engaged, but we worked it out. Lately, I feel like she's being emotionally manipulative, and purposely trying to confuse me. ...

I have a secure marriage and a satisfying affair!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - I am very torn, and I need advise not criticism pls. Anyways I have started and an affair with one of my husbands friends. It isn't purely physical, I had some feelings for "Bob" for a few yrs prior. And now they have intensified.. My husband is ...

How to tell if women are interested in a married man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (M) - I am moving away from my wife due to work for 6 months. She realizes that as a type of a male I am, it will be hard to abstain from the natural urge of sex. So she told me that if I really need to have sex I can do so as long as it does not turn...

Influenced by his new friend, he has filed for divorce!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - just over a month ago my husband of almost 12yrs left me we had been together 15yrs.the main problem for me was the fact that my husband had a new friend who would do everything he could to seperate us when we was out on a night our other friends ...

Marriage problems. What should or can I do? I feel like starting over. What are some options?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4532 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - I really do not want to share this with friends or family. I have been in a relationship for 15 years and married for 4. I have 3 children, work full time and try my best to manage career, husband, children and home duties... Lately, I feel not...

My Marriage is slowly disintegrating;

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (F) - I separated from husband 4months ago. We're married for 5months. I found an excuse to get out since i felt emotionally abused. He made every discussion and living very difficult and we just never saw eye to eye,(finances, household chores, living ...

He is willing to give me up if I want a more secure relationship ...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (F) - A person who doesn't like expectations and commitment in a relationship but tells you he is in love with you and the love is real and pure. Is this love or just playing games? I am in love with a person who tells me this and my relationship wit...

Manipulative, controlling husband now doing the same to the kids!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 July 2012 (F) - Hi, I've been to the forum before and it's really helped a lot since I am I'm the course of splitting from my husband of over 12 years whose been manipulative, controlling and not social at all. We have kids (9 and 4). Now my husband will leave ...

Is it for the thrill of it all?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (F) - Hi Aunts, I have a question i would like to ask you all,as i can't seem to make any sense of it. I have been having a affair with a married man for quite some time,years actually,so please if any of you are going to preach to me that i'm doing wr...

Husband is choosing his parents over his wife and baby.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

20 July 2012 (F) - hello everybody. my husband and i are married for 4 years then had a baby now 9monhts old. So hes mom doenst approve of what i do.. complains about everything and her son is treating me very bad. if i would ask please can we do this (vacation) this ...

Do many divorce even when they are still in love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

20 July 2012 (F) - My husband and I are most likely divorcing, he refuses to work on things and a whole mess of other details I'm leaving out... Basically, I know it is the right thing to do. I know I deserve to be happy. I know that nothing will ever change. ...

My husband financially supports his ex girlfriend, is at her beck and call; ultimatum or just leave?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - My husband sold his whole duplex to his ex girlfriend, even though she hardly ever paid her rent to him for her side when we lived in the other. She's constantly calling needing something, and he jumps, sometimes making me do things for her, too. ...

I have no reason not to trust my husband but I don't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - My husband always say I'm the only beautiful and attractive woman for him.He says he doesn't find any other women beautiful or attractive.In fact I can't believe him because he's a man.But when I asked my cousin,my sister,my nephew and some of my ...

He claims to love me and yet talks so badly to me. Is it just manipulation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - I've told a controlling and manipulative husband of over 12 years that I want to leave him and he's looking for jobs in another city after trying for 3 months to convince me. As I show him a strong front but he still tries to use every opportunity ...

I want to have sex at night but can rarely get husband to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

18 July 2012 (F) - Please help! I am a married woman, I'm 25 years old, and I've been married for 5 years. My husband and I rarely have sex. I'm the only one even trying to instigate anything. I don't think I'm that picky when it comes to sex, I like my husband to be ...

I left my husband and now my boyfriend is not interested in me anymore.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

18 July 2012 (F) - I left my husband because I fell in love with another man. I no longer loved my husband. The other man led me to believe he loved me, too and would be there for me when I left my husband. It turns out that he is not. Now I am all alone without ei...

Married 27 years, love each other like brother/sister. Do I stay here miserable or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 July 2012 (M) - I'm 45 years old. I married my wife when I was 17, and we've been married for 27 years. We've raised 4 kids together and we have 3 grandkids. Our relationship has been very tough almost from the beginning. We have separated a few times, but I always ...

I have a terminal illness and my husband will not give me affection!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4540 days ago

17 July 2012 (F) - my husband and i have been married for almost 8 yrs and have a 3 yr old daughter, i have been fighting brain cancer for 5 yrs and lost 100 lbs. now he wont hug kiss or touch me, he says he loves me, but all we do is argue. anytime i need some ...

Husband insists on going clubbing without wife - why

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

17 July 2012 (F) - So here's my problem in a nutshell I believe my husband is having a midlife crisis and I don't see a way back from this - so any advice will be appreciated. We are both in our forties and some months ago he started going out with his friends on ...

I don't want to be married anymore! How do I tell my husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

17 July 2012 (F) - i'm married and i'm not in love with my husbandi have know feelings for him anymore, when he touch me i don't feel anything...i don't want to be married anymore...how do i tell him that i want how of this marriage without being so blunt...

I accused my wife of lying about being on a porn site and now she is filing divorce papers

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

17 July 2012 (M) - Someone please give me advice! I have recently got back with my wife after a seperation. we live seperate and have for the past two years. We decided not to sign divorce papers because we both agreed we still loved each other and our reasons for ...

The love is gone, she's refusing to let me see my children. Do I start divorce proceedings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4540 days ago

17 July 2012 (M) - Hi all - my wife and I have been married 4 years and things have been turbulent from the start - we have two young children aged 2 and 3 1/2.When we got married we moved in to my partners home and this is were a lot of trouble has started from - ...

I'm getting sick of him still getting angry at his ex. Should I continue to endure this uproar on his part?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

17 July 2012 (F) - In a relationship 5 months both of us are one year out of a marriage, both still going through a split of property etc... My problem is that we ask each other for advice and we give each other advice, but he doesnt use it and just keeps getting ...

I'm broken hearted over this. Do I let go of showing my love for the son I can contact? Just so he can do well in his studies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

17 July 2012 (F) - Dear friends,im desperately in need of advice and i would be so very grateful if you could help me.. I'm divorced from my first husband seven years ago with three lovely children.. According to our customary law in my country,my ex-husband is en...

What's wrong with me? I don't understand.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 July 2012 (F) - I'm 33 years old mother of 3 been married 12 years husband has looked at porn since he was a teenager. At first I was mad about it then realized He wasn't gonna stop no matter what. So I accepted it even though it hurt. He has told me when he ...

My husband ogles other women, flirts with other women in front of me, and is mean about my body since I had our baby.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

16 July 2012 (F) - I had our baby 5 months ago. During my pregnancy, I was on serious bed rest, and meds, for 3 months, then after, I had to recover from Caesarean for another few months. I was approx 110lbs when I got pregnant, and gained quite a bit of weight due ...

Have my wife and friend been intimate behind my back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

16 July 2012 (M) - A while ago I asked for advice about fulfilling my wifes mfm fantasy with my friend. A resounding 'bad idea' was what most people said,which is fair enough and we are not going to pursue it. However,some of u said that given what I'd said about our ...

My husband is very critical of my friends, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F) - My husband doesn't understand why I keep on being friends with some of my girlfriends. More, he developed an attitude of not liking them, because of their actions. He makes negative remarks about them all the time, and with some of them I agree bu...