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Archived questions from: August, 2012 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Affair that wasn't. Will I ever quit feeling guilty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - First, I am 69. I have been re-married for 6 years to a man who has had anger, jealousy issues and 2 turbulent marriages. My marriage has been fraught with trust issues, and a great deal of them on my part as well. I was told that he still ...

Why is my husband coming home late every night?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - Dear cupid, what do I do? My husband of eyrs with a year old daughter suddenly started keeping late nights. We barely lived in our home in those years coz we always travelled. But this time, we have stayed here for 5mths now. Though he had travelled ...

I'm not in a position where I can get a divorce but I want to get to know this other man. I'm very unhappy and don't know what to do.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

29 August 2012 (F) - I am 28 and have been married for 5 years. I was good at first. But when I got pregnant with our first child my husband starting watching porn. Without getting into massive detail, I eventually confronted him about it and told him how I felt. After ...

Open relationship mess.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

29 August 2012 (F) - I'm 27 and got married at the age of 19.I've been with my husband since I was 14 years old, it was the first relationship for both of us. He really loved me alot, treated me like a pricess, spoiled me and gave me everything I wanted. I loved him and ...

I'm staring at the dissolution of my marriage...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

29 August 2012 (M) - Hey guys its been a while since I last posted. I thought everything would come along well with my wife and I but I'm sadly mistaken. She has really turned against me. It all started just after she left for her 9 week holiday. She started saying...

My husband lied about his ex for THREE years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - I've know my husband all my life. We reconnected about three years ago and have been married for six months. We've had problems in the past about his ex. They were together for seven years but they don't have any children and they weren't married. ...

He wants me to change my title from Mrs to Ms. Should I, and how do I do it?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - My husband is very keen and really wants me to change my title from Mrs. to Ms. He says it is much more sexy. What do others think about this, as I am fairly OK with it, but not totally sure. How would I go about effecting this change? ...

I'm having a issue getting the past out of my head.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

27 August 2012 (M) - I'm having a issue getting the past out of my head. This is long, but I think I need to tell the whole story to put it in perspective. My wife and I have been together for 15 years and married for 11. We were each others first loves, and were you...

I love my wife but I am not sure I can live with her because of her slovenly habits

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

27 August 2012 (M) - I have been married for 20 years and each year my frustration grows. The basis of my frustration involves seemingly insignificant things which, over time, grow into issues for me. Let me give three examples: 1) Laundry My wife does not ...

My husband and his family do not believe I was a virgin because I didn't bleed after our first night together. Why did I not bleed?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - Hola I am from Mexico . Please forgive my English it is second language to me. I am originally from Mexico but live here in the united states. I am 21 years old and recently got married . I was a virgin when I married . I didn't bleed . My husband ...

My husband never wanted me to have an identity and now I'm left wondering if its wrong of me to want more out of life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - I dont know where to begin but here it goes . My husband and I have been married for 14 years . We met when I was 18 and he was 20 years old . We dated for 4 years and then we got married . When we met I was already in college and he told me that I ...

My husband is very disrespectful

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - I feel so low! My husband is so disrespectful to me! We had a wedding to go to today at 4 pm that was 70 miles away. I asked my husband what time he wanted to get on the road? 2:30 he said. So we got up early to get some things done before we left....

Married one year. He disgusts me and he will not sleep with me. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - My husband and I just passed our 1 year anniversary ... However he disgusts me. I can't stand to be around him, he won't even sleep with me.. So I resent him for that. He won't take showers for days, doesn't even change his underwear, won't brus...

I'm 26 married and still we can't have sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - i am a 26 yr old girl.got married one yr back..but ever since i have not been able to have penetrable sex ..he is able to enter only a inch of his penis inside me..ive tried all lubricants but nothing has helped..its very frustrating ...

I'm in love with someone who isn't my husband and think its time to walk away from my marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 August 2012 (F) - I'm in love with someone other than my husband. What should I do?? My husband and I have been married for 6.5 years and we have two children. We only dated a few months before I became pregnant with our first child. I don't believe we ever got a ...

Wife cheated and I can't stop thinking about it when we are apart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

24 August 2012 (M) - My wife cheated on me a few weeks ago, we are working through it and i really do want this to work. The problem is not when we are together but when we are apart. I cant stop thinking about it! How do i stop and move on? This is starting to chew me ...

My husband has been sneaky lately and I found a flavored condom in his pocket that he blamed on our son!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

23 August 2012 (F) - Lately, my husband of 9 yrs. has been a little sneaky. he talks to all kinds of women, first of all he's a photographer OK. Now it's one particular friend that he tells her he loves her. Just recently, while I was doing laundry,a flavored condom ...

When a man treats his woman well: When did it become okay to commit or marry but then show no interest in a sex life with your man?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

23 August 2012 (M) - I am talking about women in serious relationships who act like their man has no right to expect a decent sex life from them. Before you jump on me with the claws out, please listen to what I am saying and what I am not. I am not saying anyth...

I love my husband but his habits of selfishness and laziness are starting to makes me feel unimportant and undervalued, and is putting me into a state of depression.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

23 August 2012 (F) - I love my husband, but his habits of selfishness and laziness are starting to really eat at me. While I feel he loves me, I don't feel he cares about me. He doesn't seem at all concerned with what I might need or want, and everything seems devoted ...

Kind empathy please. How can I stop my parents pressuring me into marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

23 August 2012 (F) - Hi dear cupid..i m 18 yrs old. my question is about my family..ok here's my question Daily my parents are forcing me to discuss marriage..they deal with me like a puppet..whenever i put my views my father started abusing and my mother she looks at...

My wife was intimate with someone else while we were separated. How do I get past this?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

22 August 2012 (M) - So My wife and I of just over a year have been separated(distance) since April. During that time we talked on the phone, texts, skype. It seemed like everything was going ok, we were both heartbroken and sad to be away from each other, but we were ...

My marriage is over, I know this, but it is a good idea to contact one of the girls my husband has been cheating with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been married to a serial cheater for 28 years. I have prayed, screamed, cried, stalked, snooped, anything I could do to make him see what he was doing. Honestly, even though I "knew" what he was doing, I never actually caught h...

How can I gain more confidence in order to save my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - i dont know why but im shy to strip for my husband...how can i get comfortable in my own skin? after i gave birth i got stretch marks and i dont like my body anymore.this is ruining my marriage and i hardly hv sex with my man anymr...i want to be ...

His Mom undermines my ability to discipline my child. We live with her. Would it be wrong to leave my Bf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for the last 3 years, the last year and a half has been nothing but an emotional roller coaster. Earlier this year we had financial troubles and so we moved back into my mother in laws house. I have a daughter...

After ten years of marriage, I find out my husband has had an affair.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - I am writing because I need advice. After 10 years of marriage and two kids of ages 8 and 2, I found recently that my husband was having an affair. I kicked him out of the house but now I want him back. My husband now blames me for our split and ...

Husband and I have a very unstable marriage but I don't want to lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4474 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - I don't know what to do...me and my husband have a very tumultuous relationship...in the last 5 years we have been together we have faced everything from his infidelity to his father passing away....on Xmas eve last year I went out and got drunk and ...

Does being a stay at home mom mean I have no say in this relationship??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - Do I have no say over anything because I am a stay at home mom and I don't make any money? Does that give my husband the right to act anyway he wants because he is the sole bread winner and I just have to except all the things he does.. He can ...

So much pain. I don't know what to do now. save marriage? how? then what? Or divorce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - I need help. I have not been married for long. when dating my future husband, he was quite emotionally abusive, and i ended up cheating with another guy. i got pregnant, and only realised i was pregnant after i got married. I told hubby and ...

After my car accident I am suffering from anxiety but my husband is pulling away. Am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

19 August 2012 (F) - I recently was in an auto accident. Ended up being my fault because my foot was wet and slipped off the brake. Thankfully, no one was hurt. Also, a month ago my cousin was killed in an auto accident just outside of town. I am struggling with ...

Second time around and I feel suffocated in this relationship. What can or should I do? Or are there too many problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 August 2012 (F) - I'm in a relationship with someone, this is the second time around we are together. First time he couldn't decide what he wanted and I moved on. I need advice please, he is 10 years older than I am. I'm just irritated with some things he does. F...

I still love her. We have a child together. How can I get over the fact that she has rejected me? It hurts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 August 2012 (M) - Hello all Last April my partner of 7 years suddenly broke off our relationship, saying she no longer felt happy. She had been going to see a therapist about her life in general, and ending our relationship seemed to be part of what she felt sh...

Does my husband love me like a sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 August 2012 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 7 months now. We've been in a relationship (mostly long distance) for almost 5 years. I would be able to see him 3 months every year until I moved to him last december. The past 3 months, he has given me no ...

Why did I sleep with my best friend's husband? I know I betrayed my friend. How do I fix this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

19 August 2012 (F) - My best friend, her husband and I have been friends since the 10th grade. My friend and I both got married 2 years after we left high school. I got divorced and they remained married. Throughout the 16 yrs that they've been married they both have...

His habits drive me nuts, all day, every day!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

17 August 2012 (F) - It migt sound silly for most people, but two of my husbands habits drive me nuts every single day, even every hour. He has plenty of others but they are not as annoying as these.we have fights about it almost every day. It irritates him when I p...

Is he playing the sympathy card with me so he doesn't have to pay up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

16 August 2012 (F) - ok venting time i hope they allow this because this is the only site there is to get answers and vent. so my husband you all know him the 48 year old that left me for a 24 year old, tells me today (i had to go get alimony, he wants to pay cash all ...

What can I do? My Husband makes me feel like a 5 year old, because I have to rely on his parents for financial support.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

16 August 2012 (F) - I'm a woman who has been married for three yeas and have a beautiful 9 month old baby. I'm originally from southern Asia and because my husbamd is an only son, we live with his parents. My MIL works And my FIL recently was made medically retire...

I am a separated woman trying to date. After you've read it all do you think I should see a therapist?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

16 August 2012 (F) - Apologies! This situation description isnt as short as I'd hoped it would be. Click back if you dont want to read a long story. I want responses, but if I dont get any because my post is too long, at least I'll have cyber-vented! My husband an...

My brother-in-law is hitting on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

16 August 2012 (F) - my brother-in-law is hitting on me! ok,So i've been with my Husband a total of 6 years, well I've always been kind of shy around his whole family. But I still have conversations with them here and then. But I've noticed since I first came into my ...

Why am I still helping my husband, even though he chose his mistress?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

16 August 2012 (F) - we are together for 7 years, early this year i found out that he cheat on me with his co-worker 23 yrs old woman ( he is 31) and i thought i was over but it still continues. the mistress spend their get away because we are poor, and his salary is ...

Disillusioned with married life, and not sure where to turn.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

16 August 2012 (F) - Hi Aunties and Uncles, Newbie so please be kind! Really disillusioned with married life. I've been married for almost three years and the man I met no longer exists. He has become stuck in his ways, a bit controlling, bad tempered and I ...

We haven't had physical contact since we married, could he be cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

15 August 2012 (F) - i have been married for eight years love my husband to bits but we have not had any physical contact since we got married, is this normal? do you think he is having sex with someone else, i feel like i have turned into his mother, i really feel i ...

My man on the side says it hurts him to think of my husband and I in the house together. Could that be true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

15 August 2012 (F) - I have been in a long term (14 yr) relationship and have two children. I married just 8 months ago. I have met another guy and have been secretly seeing him for 5 months of this marriage. I feel terrible and have tried telling my husband that we ...

My husband of 27 years doesn't seem to care anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

15 August 2012 (F) - Hi, I guess I'm writing because I need to vent to some body who does not know my husband and I. I've been married now 27 years. My husband has not handled situation in our marriage when I've needed protection or support in a situation. He is a ...

My wife is closer with her sister than with me, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4480 days ago

15 August 2012 (M) - my problem relates to my marital relationship. My wife,whom i married after an love affair of two years is not giving me the attention that is required to me as a husband. The cause I feel is because of her younger sister, she and my wife are great ...

Can you help me understand this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

15 August 2012 (?) - My ex-husband and I split up he reached the mid-life crisis and went to town, I mean the whole nine yards ....went on dating sites, new car, new clothes, abandoned his family after 21 years of marriage....he has never been the same again, needless ...

I want him to get a divorce so we can marry. Why does his wife keep trying to get his attention? I want her gone.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - im living with a man twice my age. yes he could be my daddy. but i love him. he works hard, cooks for me, cleans. and i dont have to work. the problem is is that his wife is still in the picture. she just wont get the hint, that he loves me and n...

So many years together. So how could my husband move on so quickly and easily to a new woman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - why did my husband who i have been with for 21years leave me and then started seeing someone weeks later....

I thought it was a love marriage but my husband treats me badly and sometimes acts like an animal

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - I am 24 year, 1-1.5 year married girl with no child yet. It was a love mariage after 8 years relationship. My husband abuses and black mails me, he even call to my mother and tell her our before marige secrets. Sometime he behaves awsem and sometime ...

Married for less than 1 year and Super UnHappy!!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

14 August 2012 (F) - Hi guys. Thanks for reading my post. So...I've been married for 11 and a half months..Sept 4th is our 1 year anniversary. We were high school sweethearts then went our separate ways during college..but we stayed friends. We both moved away from ...

I have just learned my husband fathered another child during our marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Hi I hope someone can give me some advice! I have been married for 31 years and have a pleasant life! We have raised 3 well adjusted,talented and successful kids. My husband was my first lover and even thou he had a child out of wedlock, which he...