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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I don't know what to do...me and my husband have a very tumultuous relationship...in the last 5 years we have been together we have faced everything from his infidelity to his father passing away....on Xmas eve last year I went out and got drunk and another man kissed me....I went home and decided that there was nothing to it so not to tell my husband....I didn't feel that I should unburden my conscience and hurt him just to make myself feel better....anyway over the last few months after his dad died he has been heavily drinking and taking a lot of drugs do for the sake of my son we have had a trial separation although we have seen each other regularly....still sleeping together....yesterday we went to see my mum and managed to achieve a stable allbeit a tenuous resolution...now this morning my ex best friend decided to tell my husband about this kiss on Xmas eve so when he rang me and asked I initially denied it but then I admitted to it....and he's acting like its the worst thing in the world...I don't want to lose my husband but I don't know how to fix it....I feel so lost without him...he's my best friend and feel that I can't go in without him
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2012): Firstly your best friend is no friend of yours, get rid of her. You need to maintain a seperation and only go back if he can forgive you and truely never bring this matter up again. Sounds like your husband is the type of person that will throw it in your face at every opportunity, I know I would not want to live with someone that is going consistantly hurt me.
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