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writes:my brother-in-law is hitting on me!ok,So i've been with my Husband a total of 6 years, well I've always been kind of shy around his whole family. But I still have conversations with them here and then. But I've noticed since I first came into my husband life his brother kept looking at me funny. My brother in law acts very differently when he is not around his brother or wife, looks at me like in a desire way and even touches me like if was an accident, but I don't lookm at it like that, don't know what to do or say to my husband. I mean Me and My husband are happily married and moving on up little by little and although his brother and his wife envy us and want to try to be like us , his brother tends to flirt and touch me inappropriately and I do not feel comfortable around him, I try to stay away from him especially when he comes over. what should I do Please help..
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (16 August 2012):
 I would advise to just directly tell him
you've noticed his behaviors and to stop it,
it makes you uncomfortable.
That way he will get the message and feel embarrased.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 August 2012):
 You need to be honest with him. Next time he flirts or touches you inappropriate then just tell him that he is making you feel uncomfortable and ask him to stop. You need to tackle the problem head on or else it will only get worse. So next time he does it don't just stand there and take it from him, open your mouth and stand up for yourself.
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (16 August 2012):
 Oh dear god!I think by not reacting your brother in law is going to think your okay with whatever he is doing and will not stop..I would suggest you talk to your brother in law just tell him 'hey I'v meaning to talk you about something for a while now,its been bothering me a lot..I would really like it if you respect the fact that I am your brother's wife and quit acting funny around me,cuz I don't feel comfortable and I don't like any of this,I decided since we are adults we deal with this problem more maturely,I haven't involved my husband yet,cause I think I would likevto solve my problem on my own,but if it continues I think my husband has the right to know..so I need you to stop doing it..'
So just say that to him,be open be honest but don't let him get away!!good luck x
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