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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I don't know if I should even try to make my marriage work or not.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - im 22 and im getting divorced. i was married for about 2 weeks then she left. she saw texts from girls that i did not think was bad but she blew it up and left. she said she was still in love with ehr x and wanted to be with him but she says ...

He decided I'm not worth the effort of fixing this marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I do not understand how someone, man or woman, can simply walk out on their family. My husband and I have had our share of problems. Our marriage hasnt ever been a cake walk, but I have supported him in every decision he has ever made during our 3 ...

Do I stay with my husband or live with my lover of 8 years?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - To stay with the man I have been married to for 35 years or to move in with the lover of 8 years. Neither relationship is brilliant but the clock is ticking. Why am I so unsatisfied with my life?...

I have sex with other guys with my husband's permission.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I have sex with other guys with my husband's permission. He says 3 or 4 times in a month is ok, but don't cross this limit. I am doing it 2 or 3 times in a month with my friends. also i had it with his friend some time. actually it was his idea to ...

My husband is living with his mistress but says he loves me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Hi. My husband has moved out and in with his mistress. He met her on facebook and had an online relationship with her for several months before meeting in person. I found out shortly after, but he did not end the affair and now lives with her, has ...

Scared about getting married....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I am 24yrs old and getting married in a few months. I love my fiance but i maybe having second thoughts about this wedding. I am so confused, i dont know if i want to get married?! I love going out and partying and i love the attention i get ...

Do you also believe that how he cheated on me and how I cheated on him is the same?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for a year now! I got pregnant when we had been together for like 8 months and 3 months later we got married. The thing is, when we had just started dating, about a month in the relationship I cheated (had sex) on ...

Quick sex, no Frenching

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Why does my husband like quick sex but does not like to french kiss. Only to have his few minutes of fun and that is it. ...

My husband wont talk to me. Every time we have words he will stop speaking to me for months.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - My husband wont talk to me. Every time we have words he will stop speaking to me for months. He comes in from work and goes straight upstairs, makes his own tea, cleans his own plates etc. When i try an talk to his he just swears at me. Theres a lot ...

How do I talk with my mom after her stomping out of my house?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - there has always been tension between my mom and my husband because he is 2 yrs older than her. she hates him 4 that which in turn makes him dislike her too. last night after dark as soon as our dinner was done my parents made an unannouced visit. ...

Wife had emotional affair with coworker... how to win her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I have been with my wife for seven years. Through a lot of those years i was an alchoholic and addicted to pain pills and she was a "good girl" so to speak. She has always been there for me through all my screw ups... (trust me... i have had some ...

I've been waiting for my husband to grow up

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I've been married for seven years have have two children with my husband. He recently told me that he's been thinking about separating. I never believe in divorce unless there was abuse or infidelity involved. We have had a hard marriage. Lot's of ...

Like others, married wanting someone else.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I've been married for 4 years to a great guy. He is 14 years older than me. We only dated for about 6 months before we got married, but I thought he was the one despite our age difference. He has older kids that do not live with us. Being a step ...

Married and have a crush on my son's coach

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1895 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - My son is playing his first year of football and I have the biggest crush on his coach. In the beginning of the season I didn't pay too much attention to him, as a matter of fact I called him an asshole. I saw him look at me a few times but I ...

I lost weight and now my husband thinks I'm cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I been with my husband for almost nine years we have 2 wonderful sons. A couple of months ago i got hurt at work so i was at home doing nothing which i started gaining weight. My husband never told me oh ur fat. Evevery thing was going fine. Well i ...

We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...

Just need some advice or encouragement!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - I have a beautiful wife and a 2 1/2 year old son. But last year I notice my wife was becoming distant and not very loving(which was very unusual for her). So I confronted he and she proceeded to tell me that she loves me but doesn't feel she's in ...

I'm in love with a married woman but won't leave my wife

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - I am in love with a married woman .How can I stop thinking about her so much. She is driving me crazy..I love her but will never leave my wife. Please help me!!!...

Why do I have to beg for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I have been married for almost 7 years.. my husband and I have been together for 9 years. We have never had a strong sexual chemistry- at least not as far as I am concerned. I thought early in our relationship that we had what was important- alot ...

He is abusive and accuses me of cheating constantly. How do I stay away??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Me and my husband been together for almost 2 years we have a baby of 1 year . I love him alot and always have respected him. Since I was pregnant he has always accused me of cheating on him even when I was carrying his son. I have never gave him ...

I don't feel as though I belong. Is love enough to keep us together anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 9 years. I love him. He is the only man who has been in my boys life. He"s been a father never had to be. I'm not very close to my husband kids I feel as if I don't belong, is love really enough to keep us ...

My husband just doesn't seem to care about me at all anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I dont really know what I am looking for but i would like any opinions and advice that anyone can offer. My husband and I have been together for 6 years since we were 16 and have never had a GREAT relationship but obviously we are content because we ...

I'm 18 and dating a 42 year old married man!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I've kind of dug myself a grave here. I'm dating a man who's 42, and I'm only 18. But there one huge problem that I used to let slide but now it's starting to get to me. He's married. I used to just brush it off, but every time I see his and her car ...

I think my husband is a sex addict! Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I need advice, me and my husband have been married for 15 years and have three kids. He has also cheated on me 3 times and one of the times got thown in jail for it and then three years down the road he cheated again. After the last time he cheated ...

I want to regain my husbands trust and confidence

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - My husband and I dated for three years and were sexually active. When we got married, I just stopped wanting sex at all, but I did continue to masturbate. I dreaded sex and just had no interest. And when I say dreaded I mean I would just pray I ...

Does ex-wife of 13 years want to try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Does ex-wife of 13 years want to try again? We both remarried and divorced. The first time we had a few drinks buzzed then 3 days later again..she said she was feeling vunerable becuase of a problem we have since resolved with our son. A month later ...

Moving On From One Night Of Horror In A Happy Marriage Of 10 yrs??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I've been married now for almost 10 years. My husband and I have what most people consider a great relationship. We don't argue or stupid things and when we do, the fights don't involve name calling, profanity, or low blows...and we make up ...

My husband is no longer nice to me and I'm 3000 miles away from my family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I loved my husband more than anything but a few months after we got married he is no longer nice to me i've tried ignoring it and making light of it but its come to the point where i ignore him because i hate him yelling at me however he still says ...

I am a wifey in distress! Should I try to work it out with him or just throw in the towel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Hi I am a Wifey in distress. I don't think my husband is in love with me whats worse is I think he is being unfaithful. We have been together since we were 14 ( I know right) we are now 29, we have 4 kids and we are busy people. He used to be ...

Is my husband in love with his best friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Hello all, Let me preface this by saying that I am a man and my husband is also a man, so if that makes you uncomfortable this is not the post for you... So here it is. I'm not sure where to start so I'll start with my husband and I have been ...

Why cant he even show our children some fatherly love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Hi,i once was married to a guy whom i got two kids with. My in laws recognized me as his wife but he delayed too much in officiating the matter. I later moved out of the relationship with my kids. He never bothered about our whereabouts until six ...

Life after depression and big relationship problems, is there such a thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. Thank you in advance for reading this. This is not a short post and I am not in a very stable state of mind so the writing may reflect that. And thanks again for bearing with me. And I really appreciate every piece of advice I can poss...

I am hooked on the calls from a married man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I am in love with a married man. We have known each other since High School. He has been married for 29 years. We have been talking for 1 year, we have never touched. We have talked about sex 7 or 8 times, the other times we talk about families, ...

My wife says sex makes her feel nasty?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - I have asked for help before and you guys have tried but it's been almost 2 years and I still can't get my wife to have sex hardly at all I still can't get a hand job, I can't even get a kiss goodnight here lately. I love my wife very much but I ...

Can I save what is left of my marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - im having an affair with a 21 year old, but are still very much inlove with my wife, who on her end claim she divorced me coz of this girl, i so much wana get back with my wife and make things rite with her but only problem is this girl fell ...

Is my husband sexually attracted to men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I have been married for 5 years now. Over the last 2 years my husband has developed an interest in anal sex. I didn't think twice about it because he is very masculine. Last night I found she-male and men on men websites on the search history of ...

I need to get rid of this young girl before my wife finds out!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - I need help getting rid of a girl of a young girl in my life... This is causing me much stress and I don't know what to do.. Here is a little background... I'm in my mid 40s, been married for 20 years and have two teenage daughters. My w...

I'm doubting my husband's honesty. Is he cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I’ve been married to Mike for 4 years. The past year or so, I caught him contradicting himself constantly. Example 1: He took home a football team lanyard several months ago. He told me that the guard at work gave it to him. Yesterday he blurted ...

Threesome lead to wife giving something that I had always wanted

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - Awhile back, my wife and I got drunk and lost our inhibitions and did something we always fantasized about, but should have left as a fantasy. We had a threesome, with a complete stranger. We picked a stranger, because we thought the chances of a...

Why does he hide so much from me? He knows I wouldnt get mad, I just hate the lies!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5170 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - hi id really apprecitate some advice on this please guys. i have been trying to save my marriage after finding out certain things about my husband he was hiding things from me that have turned out to be not a big deal but he hides things from me ...

Husband wants to leave but can't but he claims he doesn't love me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - What should I do? My husband of two plus years has told me he no longer loves me yet he can't leave me. He is no longer sleeping in the same bed. He has spent some nights away from the house. He says he needs space away from me to decide if he lov...

We haven't had sex in over a year!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - Hi there, I have a question and concern. I have been married for 18yrs and to this day have not messed around on my wife. She is turning 50 this week and I am 43yrs old. We have 2 kids and own our home. My wife has no intrest in sex what so e...

Husband says my body isn't tidy, won't have sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - pls I have two children and my husband said that my body is not tidy as is use to be.pls help me and tell me what to do so that my husband will enjoy having sex with me. Pls is urget.thanks ...

Husband still in contact with "friend" he cheated with against my wishes!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - he cheated with a new "friend" who he kept hidden from me. now that all has been found out he lies to me still about talking to her and uses excuses to keep in contact with her now its her parent is ill and he feels bad for her so they email each ...

My wife is a good mother and a good friend to me, but the sexual side to our marriage is dead!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - Hi Cupid I have been married for 15 years and have a wonderfull family. I love my wife and my kids. the problem however is that there is no sexual attraction in my heart towards my wife. It is not that I dont want to but the problem is that ...

I am having an affair with my first love ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I've being married for 8ys but so much in love with my first love who's with someone. We meet and ended up in bed. I just went him bac. Please help...

As soon as we were married everything changed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I am a 39yr white female. I married a 46yr black male. This is the first time that I have ever stepped out of my race. Governor and I got together on 09/20/09 We got married 05/24/10. Prior to marriage, he and I had a wonderful relationship. ...

Is there a way out of this mess? I feel like I cannot cope anymore....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - I am an Orphan brought up by one of my Uncles who is no more.At the age of 27 one of Aunties(Uncle's side)took pity on my bachelor life and proposed to get me married to some one whose parents my Autny had known for years.As it turned out later on ...

Husband is cheating but I feel he's pushing me to leave so I look bad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - For various different reasons me and my Hubby have been having problems for the past 3 months, we've been to counselling b4 and it didn't help our situation, so he won't try again Basically the problem is whilst I don't believe he's cheated ...

I think marrying my husband was a bad idea

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I want to seek advice. I just got married for about 5 months now, but our baby is now 2 years old. Personally, I married my husband because I want my son to have a family when he grows up. To be legit in the eyes of everyone. Also because of family ...