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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Married and feeling attracted to the 19-year-old I'm teaching karate to!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I am a 33 year old male.(most people say i look 25). I am married for three years and she is 25. I have just gone back to uni. I recently started teaching a 19 year old woman karate privately. She is absolutely fantastic, and not your average ...

My wife won't have sex with me any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - No sex anymore My wife and I are in our early 60's and we are on really good terms but for some reason she will not indulge in any sexual activity with me. This has been going on for several years now and I am becoming more and more frustrated ...

Am I paranoid or is my wife cheating on me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Hello, I am trying to figure out if I am paranoid or if my wife might be cheating on me. We have been married 12 years and have two young children. We recently relocated for her job and I quit mine to stay home with the children. She has lost a...

I keep finding texts on my husbands phone, am I flogging a dead horse here or should I try and make this work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - three weeks ago i found some texts on my husbands phone (he had been out drinking all night with his mates again, and obviously got careless and forgot to delete them) they were not text that i would send to just a friend. "I would give anything to ...

How bad is the occasional kiss when you are married?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - My situation.... I have been in a committed relationship for four years, married for the past two. I adore my husband - he is everything that I could possibly ask for in a partner, but I cannot seem to keep myself in check when it comes to othe...

I feel like I'm the glue that holds this family together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - So how do I start this out. This is a family issue, not mine but my parents and brother. I've been living with my older brother and parents well since I was born anyway. It's a long story, and I will try to keep it short and right to the point....

My wife asked me to let her sleep with other men, but doesn't want to let me sleep with other women!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Ok, So my wife and I have been married for almost 3 years. It's a very good relationship, we are quite open with eachother, we don't hide things and almost never argue. our sex is, I would say, above average... not too much but not too little ...

My husband's boyfriend!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5136 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - HEllo there i am having really a big problem with my husband, i am in states and he is in germany, i think he had sex with his boy freind, first of all last month he went to his freind's house and called me and talked to me and then said i will cal...

Humiliated by my wife's old lie!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Hi, I met my wife back in high school and we got together the first summer of college 20 years ago. We slept together before we got together that summer and I knew she had had an encounter with a friend of mine after we slept together but before we ...

Thinking of leaving my family for another woman.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Should I do it? Here's the background: I'm a married man, 40 years old, with 2 kids. Had an affair with a 52 year old woman. Fell in love. We broke it off because the wife was getting suspicious and the other woman was very concerned about ...

I don't know what to make of someone that could cheat, propose, and marry me without ever telling me that he cheated on me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I've been married for less than a year. And I just discovered that my husband cheated on me 4 years into our relationship. I found out he proposed to me a few months after he cheated (sexual and emotional relationship with other woman). I am so ...

When is verbal abuse too much verbal abuse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I have a lot to ask, but it all leads up to, "When has the verbal abuse gone "too" far? My husband and I have been together for 8 years, we just recently got married this year. 8/2010. We are both mid 30's, and we each have 2 children. This is his ...

I am very interested in my co-worker, my wife doesn't deserve this

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - I have been married only two years now, known my wife for three. For the first time in the relationship I am having strong feelings and desire for another woman. The other woman is a co-worker, we are both quiet natured but talk to eachother quite ...

Husband doesn't like being with me in Public

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I'm 38 and married to a younger man. He and I have great chemistry at home (awesome, in fact) but he completely withdraws and doesn't want to be with me in public. I love to dance and he will not dance with me in public although he will dance with ...

Have you cheated on your partner and been able to have a good relationship / marriage afterwards? Share the story!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - Does anyone have any stories about cheating on their partner and being able to have a good relationship after? Has anyone here cheated on their partner, NEVER told them, and been able to have a healthy long-term relationship with the person they ...

Wife has cheated on me twice, I'm struggling to take her back

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - I met my wife when we were both 19 which was 16 years ago. We were together happily for about 6 years and then one night my wife got drunk and kissed my best friend in front of me. I think I battled with that for a while but we worked through ...

Separated from wife, ill mom, and I don't know where to turn

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - My situation is complicated. My wife and I have separated now for about a month. For the last year I have been staying and taking care of my 86 year old Mother at her house at night. We would travel between both houses so we could see my 2 children ...

Not sure if my husband truly loves me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Hey guys, how are you all? I'm good! I'm 18 years old and I'm married. My husband just turned 20. We've been together for almost a year but here lately I feel so alone, like I'm by myself. I feel like I can't seem to do anything right or good ...

Why do men start these outside relationships and think that it's okay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - My husband of 16+ years is a very loving man not only to me but to his girlfriend as well. I found out 2 years ago that he had been seeing her. Evidently he's been telling her that he is single and raising his 2 daughters alone. He's been flying ...

I think it's time to divorce my high school sweetheart!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I married my high school sweet heart. We have 3 young children. It wasn't easy for us to be together and I risked a lot to stay with him. He was an incredible young man, so loving, so naive and yet I felt so taken care of in his company. I adored ...

My husband accuses me of masturbating

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - well am a stay at home mom and Ive been with my husband for 5 years.and he has been accusing me of masturbating and he doesn't want or try to have sex with me,why do you think that is?accusing of masturbating?...

Married and in love with my ex-boyfriend who is always married

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - I got married over two years ago and am still in love with my ex who is also married. My ex and I were together for over 3 years, I cheated on him one night after a lot of drinks. I went home and told him instantly since I felt so guilty and ...

I feel so lost after losing this baby...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Me and my husband have together for 5 years and have been married for 3... We got pregnant about 9 months ago but i lost the baby and didint tell him because he said he would leave me... I dont know what to do because he is going to tell everyone i ...

Will talking about intimate subjects cause a problem in our marriages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Hii...I am married and happy.I found a guy who is my close friend.We share couple of intimate topics.He is also married.We feel that we are getting attached and loving eachother.I too feel to spend the max time with him.though we never met just that ...

My wife has shut down on me emotionally and physically and then accuse me wrongly of having an affair!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - OK, where do I start...well, I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read and reply. I have been married for more than 5 years. We have a fantastic dautor of nearly 3. Soon after she was born my wife lost interest in sex. Thats how it started....

I feel like he's cheating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been together 6 years and married three. From the beginning I told him that if he cheats that's it. He hasn't physically cheated but I still feel like he is cheating. In the beginning I found text message's on his phone. They ...

Should I worry or be concerned about my husband still using Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Hello all. My question is should I worry or be concerned about my husband still using Facebook? Especially since thats how i found out about his affair. Also he deactivated his account but uses my son's account to log in and out. He's able to do ...

Short affair, and only oral sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Back in Sept. My husband had a month and a half affair. I didnt find out till the friday before Thanksgiving. The woman's husband called me to let me know what has happened. I told the guy there was no way. Thats not him. We have been together for ...

Husband got girl pregnant twice!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - What would u do if your husband had 1 baby while yall was not together and you let him come back home and you find out he got another one on the way by the same girl...

Still deeply in love with the man I met abroad, but still have very strong feelings for my husband....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - I am happily married but went abroad alone and fell in love with a single man. He started everything and i fell so deeply for him, now he called it off without any valid reason. I feel like a bitch...please help. I am still deeply in love with him ...

My 25 year old wife hates sex... why????

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

26 November 2010 (M) - My wife and I have been married over a year and it gets worse everyday. I'm 24 and she is 25. For the first year she never liked sex. Now she won't let me touch her, kiss her, hug her, and she is mean. During sex, she rushes me, tells me to ...

I love my husband... but I love this woman too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - i am so confused and unhappy. i am married and i have 2 kids. im am also in love with a female. my husband is really good to me and our children. we have been together since high school but we only been married for 2 years. i left my husband for ...

I think we can make our marriage work but I could not survive another affair! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - I found out about 10 days ago that my husband had an affair. After the initial hurt and a lot of talking with each other we have decided to give it ago. I took him back a couple of days ago desperate to make things work. I think he feels the same ...

My husband has not spoken to anyone after his mother's funeral, what can I do to help?

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25 November 2010 (F) - Fifteen years ago, my husband stopped speaking to his family save for his cousin (who was a groomsman at our wedding) and his now deceased grandparents. We had already been dating by then and he was SERIOUS about getting away from them all. I knew ...

My husband tries to discipline me when I make a mistake!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - I've been married for about 4 months now and I'm having a strange problem with my husband: he wants to walk all over me. he's into spanking in the bedroom which I like but he also tries to "discipline" me when I make a mistake. I tried to play along ...

Husband waking me up at 3:30 am wanting to talk! I need my sleep!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - My life feels like it's falling apart over something that should be so simple! My husband only needs 5 hours of sleep but I need 8 in order to function. He normally wakes me up at 5:00 AM which is bad enough because I like to sleep until 6:30 on the ...

Is denial of conjugal relations a form of cruelty?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

25 November 2010 (M) - After 11 years of marriage, which included conjugal relations, my wife said she no longer wanted to have sex with me. She said I could mssturbate to meet my sexual needs. My choices were to find a eexual partner outside of the marriage or remain in ...

Confused heart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - So me and my husband have been together for 2 and a half years. We have a beautiful 17 month old daughter and i am totally in love with him and find myself loving him more and more everyday. Yes we have been thru alot of typical relationship issues ...

My Mother in law is making my life miserable!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I dont know English much. I am trying to write my problems. Please anyone tell some suggestions for me. My husband, sister-in-law and my mother-in-law have european nationality and passport. My husband and my sister-in-law have UK PR aswell. From I ...

What should I do about my wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - my wife demeans me, she is careless, she confronts her mother instead of me, she's always tired and busy when i want her to do something for me and she's boring in bed! she is ready to go if would tell her to, what should i do about her?...

We are trying to patch up our marriage but she is still talking to the man she had an affair with!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I wrote a few days ago, and I asked about my wife and me. Thanks to everyone for all the advice but I have a continuing concern. My wife and I are trying to patch up our marriage but she continues to talk to the young man she had an a...

Should Separation End?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - I'm wondering what to do now. I'm in a long term marriage of over 25 years but the early years of my marriage were not easy. We argued often and almost broke up a couple of times. When my first son was born, I couldn't stand the thought of not ...

My wife doesn't want to have a orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - I've been with my wife a total of 4 years, one of which married. We get along great in just about everything but there is something that worries and upsets me. After we got married my wife's attitude towards sex changed. I knew since we started...

I've fallen head over heels for a woman who is 20 years younger than me!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - In Love With a Younger Woman? I am hoping someone might give me sound advice. I have fallen head over heals in love with a woman of 39 who is younger than me by 20 years. I have been a happily married man for 35 years with 4 grown up children...

Husband's not ready to have a baby but I am!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I'm 29 years old, soon to be 30. Have a great husband (29), we've been married just over a year and together for 4. I have this burning desire to have a baby, have felt this way for about 6 months now but my husband says he's not ready and we both ...

I have to do everything for her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - i am 28 years old and i am married. i love my fiance but i have to do everything for her. I cook, clean, do all the laundry, pay bills, do all the house work and maintain the cars that we have. when i dont do something for her she starts getting ...

My husband has a big crush on my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - My Husband and i have been married for 5 years now. For the most part it has been really good and very trust worthy. he is in the military and travels alot So trust is very important to both of us. He has never given me a reason to not to trust...

My husband just disappeared but is all over her facebook page!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 November 2010 (?) - 21 years married 24 years together, two kids, I was happy I thought I had the best husband, he was so good to me then the unexpected happened 3 1/2 years ago he had an affair, from the internet, I was unable to forget....I fougnt with him ...

My husband with obsessed with my past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - I have been married for the past 20 years. I had many sexual relationships before marriage. My husband is obsessed with my past, wanting to know every detail. He like wise has a past, so i don't see what the big deal is. These questions are often ...

Virgin boy asking if his wife's past should bother him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - my wife when we started dating had other partners before and I was a virgin does that make me a type of cuckold? Should it bother me ? I had other girlfriends but never went all the way . Se was a loyal girlfriend although she did talk to her ...