Husband doesn't like being with me in Public

A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I'm 38 and married to a younger man. He and I have great chemistry at home (awesome, in fact) but he completely withdraws and doesn't want to be with me in public. I love to dance and he will not dance with me in public although he will dance with others if he is out without me. I find this very painful and the last time this happened I threatened to leave and he didn't want me to leave. I'm often receiving compliments that I am beautiful and attractive and I've had other chances with men but I'm so stuck on my husband...we've been married 9 months and he's actually told people he was with me for a green card (he's here illegally). He slept with one woman already after we married. He's lied to me quite often but says he is changing. Is there any hope for this or should I just move on?

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