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female
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36-40,
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writes:HEllo therei am having really a big problem with my husband, i am in states and he is in germany, i think he had sex with his boy freind, first of all last month he went to his freind's house and called me and talked to me and then said i will call u when i get home back, then after that i was calling him for like 3 hours he didn't pick up my phone, he called me at 4 am and said that sorry my phone button was pushed to vibrate and he was busy in his computer - work, then after three days ago he called me and was repeatly saying to me that he has really bad pain in his head and wants to take a shower and will call me 20 minutes later.Then he called me like 1 hour later and said i am sorry i was laying down and your my sweetheart i didn't want to make you upset, i was thinking about you and now i want to sleep about 3 hours then i will call you so i was like somthing is going on there. i said somebody is coming or maybe your going somewhere... he said no its not like that so i said come on internet and be online, he said no not now i said NOW then he said ok i will bring my laptop one minute and then he hung up the phone. i was like really angry, he called me back 1 minute later and said i didn't hang up, so he was online i told him to show me all over his house.First he said oh dear you don't trust me then he said ok he was nervious a little then he showed me the kitchen and then living room, there was somthing on his couch and a blanket on it, i screamed what is that then he showed me that was his boy friend, and i screamed and said you lied to me, why u didn't tell me that your freind is here with you, so he said he was drunk and i didn't want to tell you because you will be angry. guys i don't know what to do, please you guys help me i am really depressed, what should i do???????? should i tell him to be examined with a doctor that he had sex with or not?
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reader, FloridaCatGirl +, writes (30 November 2010):
 I'm a bit confused. You caught your boyfriend hanging out with his friend... but what makes you think they are having sex? Has he admitted to having sexual feelings for men? If this is the case, there's really nothing you can do to change him. If you think he is having sex with other guys behind your back, the last thing you want to do is jeopardize your own health. This doesn't sound like a guy who is devoted to his girlfriend. As hard as it may seem, you will be better off if you break up with him now.
Let us know what you decide to do. Good luck!
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