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writes:Hey guys, how are you all? I'm good! I'm 18 years old and I'm married. My husband just turned 20. We've been together for almost a year but here lately I feel so alone, like I'm by myself. I feel like I can't seem to do anything right or good enough. He tells me he loves me all the time but I'm not sure he really does. My wedding ring - a diamond fell out and I want it to get fixed but he won't take me to get it fixed. What's wrong? Is it me... or him?
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (28 November 2010):
 How long have you known him? Is he quite busy all the time? In my honest opinion, it seems as though you married him far too early in the relationship.
Already your marriage is crumbling upon a brittle foundation. The moment you felt you could never do right by him, the basic relationship started falling apart. Have you talked to him about it? If you have, what has he done to show you that you are good enough or rather, MORE than good enough for him? You are his wife! So why has he not made you feel like the woman he treasures more than anything, as a husband should?
It is not you. How do I know? By posting this question, you have shown concern and serious care for this relationship. Your very words reveal an honest effort has been made so I am confident that it is not you.
What you have now, I cannot say that it is love. It may have felt strong enough but, it was too soon to begin something as sacred as marriage. I suggest you discuss this with him and if he does not show some effort to change, leave him.
I hope that helps.
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