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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

My husband is wearing me down soooo much... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - See I've been married two years and my husband tells me I'm a dog that should be put down, or I should drown in a tub, awful wife. We fight a lot and maybe that's my fault but I wouldn't fight with him if he wouldn't back me in a corner. How so he ...

My husband isn't always turned on by me when we have sex and so sometimes he will fantasize about other women to get excited.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - My husband isn't always turned on by me when we have sex and so sometimes he will fantasize about other women to get excited. This hurts my feelings and I feel insecure because of it. Is this something that normally takes place when a man has been ...

Wife treated exes better than her husband!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - I was reading someone else's question and it encouraged me to post a similar question of my own. My wife and I have been married for about 7 years. When we met, she had a lot of sexy lingerie - about 20 pieces. She also told me she had thrown ...

Why do I want my husband to mess up so bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Why do I want my husband to mess up so bad? I have been married for over 17 years, I've cheated and my husband has cheated. He has lost two jobs over woman that he cheated with and he talked to several woman on a computer. We have been to church f...

Interracial marriage having issues

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - I'm An African American guy married to a German woman.but we are having serious issues. Been married now for 6 years.our relationship was cool when I was stationed in Germany but now back in the states things are difficult. We have had iss...

Sexless husband at his limit..

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - My wife and I do not have a sex life. In the past 3 years we have made love once. We don't flirt, no passionate kissing or anything. Pretty much she is like my sister. She is a decent mother and a good friend but the spark is gone. She has g...

Lonely married military guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been married now for 9 years and I'm not happy with the intimacy in my marriage. I feel my wife is being very resistant to improving our relationship. Our relationship was passionate and giving, on both sides. Even after a...

How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?

This question has 84 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...

Can anyone out there throw me a life raft???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Hi. I'm an Aunt and I need YOUR help, or a little hug at least. My husband and I have separated. We've separated before and its usually for the same reason, or thereabouts. He's a very hard worker, has now got his own business, looks after me ...

Does a married man flrting mean he wants a fling?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I know I'm going to get in trouble for writing this, but do married men that flirt want to have a fling with you? A married man has been flirting with me for a few months, and I wondered if he ever thought about taking it to the next level. I'm not ...

How can I forget about her past and forgive her for this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - I,ve got married to a beautiful girl last year, after few month one day she started sharing about her past life, but some how she was not ready to open up, this kept on going for few days. and then the time came when she shared every thing about her ...

Suspicious that he's cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I think my husband is having an affair. Firstly we don't have sex and haven't for a number of years. He does not not seem bothered by this. It all started with calls to his mobile "Text to date, we have found you a love match" he said he must have ...

Deployed and confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - I am currently deployed and have been so since August 2009 i will be home in 2 months. This deployment has turned out to be very bad for my marriage. All the way up until January my wife and i were ok, we communicated positively and talked about a ...

My wife won't give me a blowjob!!!!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - I'd like to start by confirming I m 32 not 21. So this is my problem... My wife don't want to give me a blowjob anymore because she says she doesn't like it. I'm going down on her all the time because that's the only way that she can have multiple...

He's been cheating online with obese women...what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I am engaged and getting married in 5 months...I discovered my fiance's fat fetish online almost a year ago, and I confronted him immediately. He assures me that he is extremely turned on by me and desperately wants to marry me. I am a tall thin ...

Wife wants kids, I don't think I do anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - When I got married, my wife and I talked about having kids some day. Now I'm not sure that I want to have kids... I'm starting to feel pretty sure I don't. This is the most important question I've ever had to answer, because kids are the most imp...

Punishing myself for the sake of my daughter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - should i give it a try? i am a divorcee mother w one kid. marriage failure was due to family violence and unreasonable behaviour. as i was e one who initiated the divorce, i feel sorry for my kid extremely. i jus wanna shower her w lots of l...

Please give you take: Is my husband cheating and what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - I know my husband is cheating, but I have been too direct with my suspicions,so he is trying to convince me that I'm paranoid and delusional. He has stooped so low that he is pretending that his object of lust is a longtime friend 13 years his ...

Is online release horrible?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - So here is my situation. I have a really high sex drive. Much higher than my wife's. And sure, it's been a bit of a problem, but I've accepted that people are different and since everything else about our relationship is great, I'm deali...

Could this "friends with benefits" thing work? And is this a bad idea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Ok so here's my situation. A few months ago my husband and I were going through a really rough time. There was this guy that i worked with and we became good friends. One night he invited me out for coffee and we wound up having sex. This guy had a ...

What will my husband be like in 10 years if he doesn't want sex now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - Men over 45!!!!!!!!!I really want to know ,what is going on. Do guys over 45 decline in sexual desire and erections,or is this just my husband? He used to be so horny,I couldn't keep up.,and now he is off sex,and his erections are week or lost. ...

Infidelity is Bad for Your Health

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - Pinkee here~ As some of you may know, I cheated on my husband when I was married. I have learned a lot since then. I am quite clear that I NEVER want to do that again, not to anyone- my partner, my potential “partner in crime”, or myself. Even ...

I just got married, but I feel neglected! Help!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - Hi all, I just got married on May 10th. I know it's supposed to be a happy, joyous occasion, however with my husband working 2 jobs, and going to school full-time, I just sit here all day in our house, with nobody to talk to. So when he gets home, I ...

My husband left for another woman but I still love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - Hi i am a 39yr old women married to a 39yr old man, we have been together 24 years and married 17 together we have 3 children. 5 weeks ago he woke me up to let me know he had met someone else, he met her 2 weeks before they started texting each ...

My husband has been cheating with his sister-in-law, and won't give her up

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - My husband has been cheating on me for years with his brothers wife. I never could understand why she was phoning him constanly. I even tried to talk to her about it. She later started spreading rumours about me. Telling people, my husband included ...

How do I get the fire back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - me and my husband have been together 6 years . he used to not be able to keep his hands off me and now well i can't even get a kiss so how do i get the fire back ...

How to get someone to get help if you cant get them to admit they have a problem

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

26 May 2010 (M) - My wife is very jealous. I get accused daily of flirting with or sleeping with women at work, as part of my commute, even with my cousins. Nothin I say can change her mind, and it's all so absurd to me. I haven't been with any woman but her, we ...

We don't have sex anymore!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - hi everyone. ive been with my husband for 13year on and off. we've been married for almost 5 of those years now. he seams to have lost interest in me. ive had 2 kids and put on 2stone. my youngest is 4months. since my last child was born we wouldnt ...

Marriage without intimacy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Okay I've been married for 3 years but been with my husband for 7 years now. We get along just fine, he is caring and respectful treats me great. The only problem we have is that I have to initiate any form of physical intimacy, he seems withdrawn ...

How do I tell my husband I just want to be friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - I knew before I ever met my husband that I didn't ever want to be anybody's 'wife'. He is a good man and my best friend, but after 9 years of marriage I still don't like the role of wife. How do I get back to just being friends without the pressure ...

Depression issue or stuck in a rut?

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26 May 2010 (F) - I don't know what is wrong with me anymore...If I have a serious depression issue or if I'm stuck in a seemingly endless rut. I am so irritable with my husband and child almost all of the time. It seems that almost everything that they do gets on ...

Am I deluding myself? Will he really leave his abusive relationship for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Please don't judge me on this, I just need advise and have no one to talk to who will understand me. I've known my MM for over 2 yrs. My husband and I both worked with him at our current job. We became quick friends with him and his wife. My ...

I recently found out that my wife cheated on me when we were engaged.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - I recently found out that my wife cheated on me when we were engaged. We've been married over 10 years and before me she had this boyfriend named Jim. Right after we got married we moved about 3 hours away to another part of the state for my job...

Her mother doesn't want us to be together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - Hi i am ravi I need your help i get marry with my girlfried. we were togather last eight year now she want divorce. because her mother she dosn't want this relation. what should i do ?...

I'm so lost! My own father and wife have been having a secret relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - I just learnt that my Father age @65 and my Wife age @31 Years have been having a sexual relationship for the last one year. Both are doing regularly and chatting with us.We are live in joint Gujarati hindu family with my mother and two chil...

I want to marry this guy, but his anger is hurting me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - hii people!!im in a relationship with a guy for a couple years and we are planning to get married...he is very sweet ,caring and loving when he is normal..!!!he is the best partner one could get when he is normal...!!but when he becomes angry he is ...

Our affair was discovered and now he won't talk to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I have had an affair for nearly four years and his wife found out when i called him at his place she answered the phone. He told me never to call him again and it was over i ruined his marriage. I am also married. This man and i were caught ...

I feel trapped in my marriage and don't know what to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - I'm very unhappy with my marriage and I am really fed up and want to finish it but don't know what to do. I do all the housework and gardening and shopping and work full time. I have lots of friends and get involved in lots of local activities...

Trouble after just 5 months and I don't want a second divorce!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

24 May 2010 (M) - My wife of five months wants to leave me. We met two years ago at work and were just friends until we got married. I took her in with her three kids and I have been trying to provide for them as she had to quit her job to move with me to a different ...

I want to have more great sex with my husbands friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - I am having marital problems with my husband. He wants space, and we have not had any kind of sexual relationship for the past 2 months. To complicate matters I recently ended up in bed with our friend Ryan. Last week my husband was working ...

Husband erupting over the silliest things, what can I do to help??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 9 years. I can't even ask him a question about the simplest things without him making me feel like I shouldn't have asked. I asked him to slow down in a neighborhood because he was doing 50 miles an hour. ...

Any good advice on how to handle an alcoholic, my nerves are frayed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

23 May 2010 (M) - hi i'll keep this as short as i can,three years ago my father inlaw died.my wife of sixteen years took it really bad and started drinking.my father inlaw left her a substantial amount of money .when this came to her she got progressivley ...

How can I encourage my wife to have more sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

23 May 2010 (M) - i have been married for over 30 yrs. and our sex life was from everything having sex at public places to swinger life style but now she does not want sex. we have sex once a week I want more and tell her all the time. i do the things she asks for, ...

Should I stay with my husband even though he cheated on me with 18 year old?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - My husband cheated on me with an 18 year old from the district in which he teaches at. We have a family and a beautiful area where we live. Should I stay with him even though he did this to me? He has been married before and he would probably still ...

My husband sister had an affair-how do I get over it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - i think i need to start at the beginning, i was thirteen when my sister was born, she was like my baby. i loved her like she was mine. when she had marital problems i took care of her i made an apt. in our second home for her and her 2 children. my ...

Husband cheated with his ex, insecurity and trust issues causing me problems, any good advice appreciated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 May 2010 (F) - My husband cheated on me with his ex of 6 years when we were only married two months i forgave him we are now going on three years and i just found out from these girls that he slept with someone else about a year ago but im not sure what to believe ...

Husband said there were rumors at work about affair, boss knows nothing, was this for cover?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

22 May 2010 (F) - my husband told me that rumors have been spread around his job about him having sex with a co-worker at work. He told me that his supervisor knew about the rumors.I later asked his supervisor about the rumors and he had no Idea what I was talking ...

My husband doesn't like it because I say what is on my mind

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

22 May 2010 (F) - My husband say's I'm mental because I say what's on my mind and if something is bothering me in our relationship. How can a person change there ways for the good of there relationship? Let the past go and live for what they have now, forget the ...

My husband does not contribute to the weekly shopping bill. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 May 2010 (F) - My husband is refusing to give me an allotted amount of housekeeping money per week. I earn a small amount of money which does not cover the weekly food bill and other household items required. He says that I spend too much money on food etc., ...

Ot ready to hang up the towel just yet...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 May 2010 (F) - I need to hear from men in their 50's and early 60's. My husband says he's just not as interested in sex as he used to be. I don't view mid-50's as old, so I'm having a hard time accepting this, especially since we had been sexual at least 5 times ...