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writes:my husband told me that rumors have been spread around his job about him having sex with a co-worker at work. He told me that his supervisor knew about the rumors.I later asked his supervisor about the rumors and he had no Idea what I was talking about. What am I to think. Is my husband really cheating with this woman?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010): i always say where there is smoke there is fire
your hb is one clever dude. he is basically covering his tracks just in case he is busted. which you have. now what??
your hb is a smooth operator.
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (23 May 2010):
Enable to GPS tracking on his phone and see where he goes. That will tell you. Most all phones now have the ability to track the phone via the internet. great feature for finding out when he's got a meeting at a no-tell motel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): I'd be highly suspicious. It sounds like he's afraid that you'd get wind of the affair, so he made up the story in case you do. Another possibility is that this is as close as he could come to confessing the affair to you--or maybe he wanted to see how you'd react to the news.
Whatever the reason, you should investigate further, because something stinks here.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat made me feel that he feel's guilty is when he messaged me saying he really love's me and he always will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have talked to him about what happened to the rumors started. He said that the woman was friends with his friends, and that there were also rumors about those people too. It also seems like there are new parts added to his story. One day he says the the rumors are they had sex in his office, and the next day he tells me that the rumor is she gave him a lap dance in the barber shop.I asked her name and he tried to act as if he didn't know it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know I shouldn't jump down his throat, but It seem like there is something new added to the stroy that he didn't tell me at first. Like one day they just had sex and the next day he tells me that someone says she gave him a lap dance. When I ask him why he didn't tell me this at first he says he just found that part out.
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (23 May 2010):
 It is very hard to tell what is going on here - the supervisor may well have said something to your husband and might now not want to confirm this to you in case he is being out of line. On the other hand, he may not have said anything to your husband and he may well be trying to cover something up before it comes out.
While I truly hope that this is not the case, I would suggest talking to your husband about it. Just voice a concern about the rumour and see what he says. If he is lying he will slip up and give you the wrong details. If he is telling the truth he will tell you the same story.
You should trust him until you have proof otherwise because this is how rumours truly ruin relationships.
I would like to know how this works out for you and i really hope that it was just a rumour.
Good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): I owuld think that he was afraid that something would break out so I think there might be a flame for the smoke.
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