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writes:should i give it a try?i am a divorcee mother w one kid. marriage failure was due to family violence and unreasonable behaviour.as i was e one who initiated the divorce, i feel sorry for my kid extremely. i jus wanna shower her w lots of love that i hve. by doing so, i told myself that life moves on, a new beginning and a new me. i hve to let go of my past and moves on from here.guys start to date me, but i always shut them off. reason being that i feel that since i was e one who depraved my kid from having a happy and loving family. i hve to pay for it by staying as a single mother forever. i thought this is just fair to her.i am not sure if this is truly rite for me anymore.ppl been telling me that i am young, why shut my 'door' when there is potential guys out there who want to date me. Am i too hard on myself?recently, i get to knw a guy thru a frn. he is very young, 9 yrs my junior, he comes from another country. he is very sweet and caring. he has expressed extreme likeness to me and wanna date me.what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks to those who hve responded to my question, greatly appreciated.
just wanna clarify that i am nt the party who was voilent nor unreasonable.
you are rite, i still need time to see if i am ready for dates. yes, i wont intro every men that i am gg to date to my kid but only e one that i intend to hve a long relationship with.
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reader, escribanus  +, writes (28 May 2010):
 OK, who use violence and unreasonable behabior?, you or your ex.
If it was you, you need proffesional help.
If it was your ex, yo have nothing to feel guilty for. Anyway you better go to a psycology.
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