Suspicious that he's cheating

A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I think my husband is having an affair. Firstly we don't have sex and haven't for a number of years. He does not not seem bothered by this. It all started with calls to his mobile "Text to date, we have found you a love match" he said he must have dialed the number by mistake when his mobile was in his in his pocket, unlocked!Then he kept his mobile buy his feet when I was in the car with him, it rang once, he would not answer. Then he left his mobile behind,it rang I picked up they put the phone down. Within a second my mobile rung same thing happened, then within a second our home phone rang same thing happened. All calls had blocked numbers. Tonight, and this has happened twice in recent weeks, a car stopped in the junction opposite our house ( we only have one neighbour and they are elderly)and at 12.20 blasted their car horn until I went to the window. They then went down the road, I noticed the passenger who was a woman( could not see the driver) was laughing. He has come home from working night shift late twice to my knowledge as I am not up at 6.30am usually so who knows what time he gets home usually. How do I find out what is going on? I have asked him and he says nothing at all.He is very stressed out and tired all of the time.I have checked his mobile and everything is deleted. I know something is going on how do I prove it before I make myself ill with worry please help. Thanks

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