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anonymous
writes:My husband cheated on me with his ex of 6 years when we were only married two months i forgave him we are now going on three years and i just found out from these girls that he slept with someone else about a year ago but im not sure what to believe these girls are not know to be beliveable he says they are just trying to get a reaction out of me but im not sure... and also im still worried he has feelings for his ex and that if the opportunity came he would sleep with her again. am i just being insecure, this is ruining my life everytime he is on the phone im worried who it is and if he goes somewheres i worry if he is really there or if he is gonna call his ex. what can i do to stop all this negativity is it insecurity or intuition? i really need help.
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reader, KitKite87 +, writes (25 May 2010):
Go to counseling (alone) and tell them all the details...being a disinterested third party they may be able to discern whether or not the girls were lying, and whether or not your lack of trust for your husband is making you doubt him more than you should or if it is correctly warning you.
Other than that, tell your husband how you feel and pay close attention to how he reacts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): Do not trust all these rumors. He might not have slept with other girl. Forgiving him for some thing about his Ex is good idea. focus on future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): Hello,
I think it best to have a heart to heart conversation and mention what you've heard if you haven't already. Tell him you're feeling insecure, and based on his past he has given you the right to be. Although, many people are capable of change if they truly want to.
If he hasn't done anything since then and reassures you that nothing has transpired you have to trust him, and have faith in what he's telling you.
Good luck
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