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writes:My husband say's I'm mental because I say what's on my mind and if something is bothering me in our relationship. How can a person change there ways for the good of there relationship? Let the past go and live for what they have now, forget the pain, hurt? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your response.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for giving me help!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 May 2010):
 If some thing is bothering you and you don't say it out, how would he know what is going on in your mind?
Is he a mind reader?
Men are more stoic and keep all their feelings and problems to themselves. They bottled it up until it explodes.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (23 May 2010):
 You're right he's wrong. Does his family talk about things?? I bet they don't which is why he finds it so hard. Keep doing it regardless of what he says and show him this answer. Even if he doesn't respond at least you are getting it off your chest and working on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): Sounds like you two are not connecting and are polar opposites. Why did you get together? You both have to want to improve your interactions and that involves forgetting your selves to bring the other into your world as well. Less being self-centered and more togetherness. You can also do the activities your partner enjoys as that will build connections. You can be positive and respectful and mind your manners.If in the past the relationship has suffered because pain has been inflicted then the person who did the damage must show true remorse and a dramatic change in behaviour toward the other party. If not, then not much change can be expected and you are just being Pollyannish and hoping for the best and fearing the worst.
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