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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Help! My husband is a workaholic!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Is there any solution to this tricky situation? My husband is a workaholic. I know, it is so much better than a guy who does not pay the bills. But if you have one if these husbands, you know what I'm talking about. Because of his work, he totally ...

I got married on the rebound and now miss my true love! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I was married for almost 20 years. I divorced almost 6 years ago and have been a single parent. For the past 2 1/2 years I have been in a monogomous relationship and was content until the issue of marriage became the topic. In short, I ended the ...

I wake up in the middle of the night thinking about my wife having sex with other men

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - When I was 15 and my wife Susan was 16, we were lovers and I was the first one to ever have sex with her. After a couple of years we drifted apart and later when I was 18 my room mate and Susan became friends and wanted to date, he asked my ...

Not in love with wife and never have been, very depressed

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - I became an alcoholic and drug addict when I was 15 years old. I met my wife when I was 17, she was 14. I am now almost 33 years old. When we met, I was drunk and high everyday, and the relationship was for me simply a sexual relationship but she ...

Why after 8 years do I feel jealous that my wife has dated a black man?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - my wife of 2 yrs (together for 8 years), had mentioned casually that she dated a black guy in colllege. Now i feel like Im not good enough to satisfy her beause he was so much bigger. She also has dated a lot mofe guys than me and it makes me ...

My husband is infatuated with his half sister!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I have a dilemma, my h is from a broken home and spent part of his life in children's homes, so he has issues from his past. His father recently passed away and that brought the estanged family back together for the one day, he met up again with his ...

I've tried everything to make my wife happy but she hates me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Hi every one, I'm a 45 year old man. I'm extremely sad and depressed since last 4 years, when I lost my job, I sold out all my properties to meet the life expenses. but the most tragic incident happened to me was that my wife got changed, she ...

Wife wants me to leave over someting I don't remember doing, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Question, my wife and I have been married for almost 4 years now, we have not been getting along lately, we have had some tension. We recently moved out of state for a fresh start, I have been out of work and just started training for a new career. ...

Husband says he loves me too much to cheat but signs are pointing otherwise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I think my husband is having an affair with someone he works with. I caught them chating on facebook and told him I did not like it and he said he would stop. The other day he told me he had to work late and his phone was in his locker but when I ...

Marriage in trouble. I can't stand my wifes weight or how she dresses

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - *OP's own title* I am a male, 44 years old. My wife is 41. We’ve been married for 15 years and have one 10 year-old daughter. For the last several years I’ve been unhappy with my wife’s appearance. In my opinion she needs to lose about 15-20kg o...

He wants big wedding, I want small , what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I have a problem, my boyfriend and I want to get married, problem is, he wants a huge wedding with everyone he's related to at it and all his friends (he's got loads). I was never really into the whole wedding day idea. I want to get married but ...

My husband avoid talking about having a baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 3 months already. We went for tests because it's been 2 years since we started dating and we never used a condom and never have I fallen pregnant well test came back that we both have a problem anyway when I ...

Divorced and alone, how can I make my life more fulfilling?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Ok Here we go I will try this .I am a 43 yr old woman who has been married for 28 yrs Always with my husband until he ask for a divorce in feb. of 2008 and then he moved out on his own.I missed him badly but come to realize he wasnt coming back ...

I love my husband but not this forced celibacy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Im an totally sexually deprived. My husband does not have any sex drive. We tried to fix this problem , but never got better. But now, I realized, if I dont want to leave ,its better just leave him alone.He is nice guy,I don't know what happened to ...

Help in leaving an abusive relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - We've been living together for almost 13 years. After all the reading on the internet I realize that it is an emotionally abusive relationship. No wonder I've been miserable for 12 of those years. We just bought a house 1 year ago, and have ...

I'm not sure if my husband still loves me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I'm not sure if my husband of 10 years still loves me. He was my first so I'm having all these feelings that I'm not expeienced enough for him and that he thinks I'm boring. I'm not sure if he's getting sex elsewhere or if our relationship is ...

It seems like he needs more stimulation than just me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Is it wrong for a man to fantasize about having sex with other women when he is having sex with his wife? My husband has started looking at porn online and sometimes wants to play it to "get in the mood". I am an attractive woman, but we have been ...

I thought I understood women but I guess not.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - 6 1/2 years ago, I met, fell in love with and married the woman I know I will always love. I’m a man in my early 40's, professional and for both of us, it was our first marriage. After a couple of years just being together, we decided to start a ...

When do you say enough is enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - When is enough enough???????????????? I'm with my partner over 15 years and we have a mortgage and two kids a two year old and a ten year old and for the last two years since the baby was born we have just not been getting on, fighting over the same...

Yearning for something else, and cheating to look for it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I am in a bit of a quandry and I hope to get some advice or at least some insight. I've been married to a really wonderful man for the past 7 years and we've been together for a total of 13 years. We have no children. We've been through a lot of...

He kept on talking to his baby-mama, his other son by another woman is a brat, and I just don't trust him. It breaks my heart!I

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - When I married my husband, it was after he cheated on me and I knew the girl was pregnant. But I listened to his apology and believed he was sincere and loved him regardless and was ready to take on the challenge. After we got married, I found out ...

Husband moved out with another woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Me and my husband have been together since 2003 and married in 2004. We knew each other as friends for at least a year before. I was the one who initiated everything pretty much but he also wanted the same thing. We were crazy for each other at the ...

Please Help Me Get A Divorce

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I have been married for 3 years now, and we have a child together. My husband is physically and verbally abusive daily, and the only time we ever talk about anything is when he is yelling about something. It was never like this until our child was ...

I want to leave my husband so badly but wouldn't know how to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Im 22 years old, I have a two year old and an eight month old. My husband and I have been together since we were fifteen years old. I noticed a change in him while I was pregnant with our youngest daughter. As it turns out he has been abusing ...

I just can't get any affection from my husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - 'human' Hi can anyone help. I have been married let me think our eldest son is 33, we met at least 5 years before that. he used to take the first step and make love to me and used to be kind with conversation. but over the last 10 years I SAY 1...

Why did wife lie about her past? I have a right to know!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - I found out my wife lied to me about how many guys she slept with before me. When the topic first came up when we were dating she told me there was three. I had a very hard time with this because i felt very insecure about myself. At that point i ...

How can I catch my wife out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - i am in uk. my wife living in her mothers home in india along with her brother. i am suspecting she is doing sex with her own brother while i am doing phonesex with her. how can i caught her please help me....

Porn is taking over his life! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - My husband spends more time looking at and downloading porn than he does with me. He wont even let me watch it with him. What do i do? ...

My husband is selfish, ... or maybe it is me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - My husband is a good man he works hard and takes care of me and our daughter. He is a good person but, sometimes he is just selfish or maybe it's me. All we ever do is go accross the street and hang out with his friends and I watch him play com...

Is our relationship dying or is it over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

24 April 2010 (F) - my husband got a job overseas and things have been okay. I confronted him about an issue involving his ex, and we got through that. things were good, he was sweet, happy, and loving when we spoke, all of sudden it stopped. when I explained how empty ...

How do I get over my husbands past, when it keeps coming to the future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F) - Hello thank you for taking the time to read this. My husband and I have a healthy relationship, the only problem is his past. I have some issues with dealing with these women he has slept with. I understand it's not a huge deal. Yet whenever we ...

My husband has an addiction to men and women on Craigslist, am I handling this the right way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

24 April 2010 (F) - My husband has an addiction to Craigslist, writing and posting to mostly men and occasionally women. I know he loves me like crazy, and I know that he hurts himself even more than he hurts me. He's extremely intelligent (really, he's a brain), and ...

I want to feel what love is... how do I leave???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F) - HI have been in a loveless marriage foor 15 years. We got married because I was pregnant at 21. We are and have always been friends, but the love just isn't there. We went through counselling and things were 'better' for a year or so. We have 2 ...

Wife constantly text messaging!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

24 April 2010 (M) - My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years, and we have what I think is a mostly healthy relationship. Lately however, she is constantly sending or reading text messages. When we go out to eat, even with our friends, throughout the entire ...

Husband says I am smother him and he needs space but I rarely see him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

24 April 2010 (F) - Hi, my husband and I have only been married for 1 1/2 months. He has said on more than one occasion that I am basically smothering him and he needs space. He works in the mornings from about 6:30 am till 4pm and get home around 5 or 5:30 pm, I leave ...

He already "needs space"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F) - What does it mean if a man that you only been married to for a month and a half tell you that he needs space, and has told you that on more than one occasion? ...

I masturbated because my husband never wants sex! Is this bad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F) - So one day my husband was at work and i wanted to have sex so bad and we hadnt had sex for 3 weeks and he never wants to so i masturbated and it wasnt as bad as i thought. My husband would be mad. so am i in the wrong for doing that? Do you think ...

My husband farts on me and thinks its funny

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - My husband farts on me. He thinks its hilarious, and its really annoying to me. It makes me feel like I am one of his frat buddies instead of his wife, who he might like to have sex with again at one point or another. I don't know how to make him ...

Sneaking around on Adultfriendfinder, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - A while back and I got the Mail and I just open the credit card bills and I just found out that he was charging by adultfriendfinder and he was telling me that I cancel it . so yesterday, I just found out that he still on it. so I don't think he...

How can I stop his wandering eye?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - hello.. I am married and i know my husband loves me and we have good times together but i get insecure when i find my husband looking at women who dont look all that great but their neckline is low or wearing short skirts and I am ok that my husband ...

Should I call off my wedding to a man who finds me unattractive?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we're engaged and getting married this summer but lately he's been acting weird towards me he complains about my weight he tells me that I'm not attractive anymore, the sex is awesome, he wants it all ...

How can I help my obese wife who won't help herself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

23 April 2010 (M) - I'm having serious issues right now... I have been married almost 3 years. My wife and I have been together since middle school except for 3 years after high school when we broke up and dated other people. When we first got back together, all of ...

Married for two years, but we don't understand each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - Have been married for two years but we dont quite undestand each other we fight over nothing and sometimes i feel like we were not meant to be together. please help (MOD NOTE: Text edited for clarity)...

In love with my friends mom but getting mixed signals!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

23 April 2010 (M) - Hi Im 32 Ok what started out as a crush , over the last few years I developed feelings for my friends mom 53 at first it was innocent . I once left my cell with her because we cant talk in private because her husband found out I slept with one of ...

My husband's bipolar and PTSD, watches porn more than alot, and nothing I do is good enough..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - the bottom line question is Where do I go with my marriage and how much more do I put up with? So here is the background leading into that question My husband and i have been together for 10 years and 9 of them have not been easy. The first...

Engaged to one man but still love another.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - Please bare with me. This is a rather long one. I had been dating two different men for a brief time. It was not at the same time, just back and forth. Man number 1 was the one I was absolutely smitten with. He had commitment issues. Man numb...

Can a married man have a platonic relationship with another woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - My husband reconnected with an old high school friend whose a girl. The've had two lunch dates together since they've met in Sept 09 and they continue to communicate over the phone or facebook. The girl is also married and my husband tells me that ...

Is there any hope for this marriage after 25 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - Hi, i last wrote for help around a month ago. I was so desperately sad for my husband and the situation that we were in as a family. My husband lost his mum around a year ago and was treating me very badly, so bad I would just cry for days and feel...

I can't let go of her past

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

22 April 2010 (M) - well ive been married for 2 years and everything seems typical , but i have a problem i cant let go of , my wife told me she has had over 50 one night stands ! it bothers me sometime i feel like a sucker , she also has had three ways with guys and ...

Would I be naive to believe my husband will change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

22 April 2010 (F) - My husband of 9 years (together for 16) had an almost 4 year long affair with his office manager who had a live-in boyfriend. Although I've decided to give him a second chance he has not stopped all contact with her as she still comes into the ...