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*ingerboy
writes:Hi Im 32 Ok what started out as a crush , over the last few years I developed feelings for my friends mom 53 at first it was innocent . I once left my cell with her because we cant talk in private because her husband found out I slept with one of the family friends and warned them.So she took the cell and I called her later that same day,just to find she feels the same and it changed our relationship.At this point in time Im confused because one day we are like I cant explain and the other she avoids me liked the plague.I dont want to see her hurt but at these times pushes me away and I believe if you love someone you wont stand by and see them lead a miserable life...
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reader, Gingerboy +, writes (23 April 2010):
Gingerboy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJanetbubi I am sorry u cant understand but she got married as a teenager never had a life never doing thinks she liked.Try being in a marriage or dating not because u want but cause u obligated and we love eachother does nt that count for anything.I am not doing this for the trill but I honestly love her, sometimes she herself does nt get it.So dont jugde help...
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (23 April 2010):
 Tell them you have become extremely busy and don't have the time to spend with them, alas. So what if he calls? Say you're busy, hang up and go volunteer at a soup kitchen. Stop buying her chocolates.
What part about "she's married" are you having trouble understanding?
You don't sound like a 32 year old. Poor impulse control, poor judgement, self-absorbed, inability to comprehend the consequences; more like a teenager's traits, maybe 13-15 years old.
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reader, Janetbubi  +, writes (23 April 2010):
Stop wasting ur time with a marridd woman! U r cheating ur girfie with her own mum?
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reader, Gingerboy +, writes (23 April 2010):
Gingerboy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think what is bothering me is that they regard me as family.What troubles me is that none of them knows about her feelings for me,so I want to walk away but my heart does not allow me.Staying away will make them suspious and her husband already asked her why Im buying her chocks but can buy him anything under the sun.I dont know what to do because if I stay away he calls and I cant be in the same room as her throwing a sign and scared of getting caught.So what now?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (23 April 2010):
She's married. Wait for her to be single, and then you can pursue things. Otherwise, you're just adding drama to her life and your own.
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