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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My husband spends more time looking at and downloading porn than he does with me. He wont even let me watch it with him. What do i do?
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reader, ManAfterChrist +, writes (26 April 2010):
 Porn can be an addiction. I have been addicted to porn before, and it ruined my relationship. Now, I do everything I can to stay away from it. He has you, he doesn't need porn. If he is a real man, he would be working to fight his addiction if it bothers you.
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reader, yankit +, writes (26 April 2010):
Leave him and find a girl. Girls hate porn guys don't End of disscussion.
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reader, yankit +, writes (26 April 2010):
Leave him and find a girl. Girls hate porn guys don't End of facts
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reader, YouWish +, writes (26 April 2010):
 It's an addiction for your husband, much like heroin or meth. He can't break away even if he wanted to. And it doesn't sound like he wants to. To put you at ease, it's NOT because of you. You didn't do anything wrong, and it's not because you have a deficiency in any ways. His addiction is separate from you and his feelings for you.That being said, *he* has to expose it and break it. He has to be willing to "come clean" to you in every area, including his secret sneakings. You need to tell him that your marriage depends on it, and that you won't sit by and let him get his gratification from other naked women's images. The real danger with porn addiction is that it will interfere with his ability to respond to the real woman in his life. Some men can't even have an erection and ejaculate unless they're masturbating to porn. And that is a very sad state to be in. Your guy needs to re-train his mind and libido off of the porn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2010): Idk in my opinion he should not be doing that because he is with you. Thats really messed up. Talk to him about it, I think he has an addiction and he may need help with it.
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