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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I think he is waiting for the right opportunity to leave me, as we own a property together. What should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I have been married 7 years, my husband is 11 years younger than me, he suddenly is rejecting me and talks secretly to his ex wife, the mother of his 2 kids. His sister is best friends with his ex and always wanted them back together, and she hates ...

My partner is so unsociable and forbids me to go places... because "he's a man." If only he would spend the evening with me alternatively, but he won't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I have 2 children with my partner and i'm finding it really dificult not being able to go out. At the moment i have 2 weeks off work and my bf just had a week off. I would love to go to a fancy dress party my friend's having, i haven't seen any of m...

Younger married man keeps coming back for more and I can't help myself

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I've been having an affair with a married younger man (alot younger)for 18 months and he is always breaking it off but then comes back for more. I'm hooked on the excitement of the affair (the sex is just so so)and am more than happy to go back. I ...

Help-how do we stop his past fling from pestering us now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - i just found out my husband had a short affair with a co-worker that was black mailing him i want to forgive him and we both want to move on with our 10 year marriage im scared and i don't know how to let go of all the crazy thoughts in my mind ...

Am I painting him to be the bad guy or is he really thoughtless?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - After years living apart through work commitments and a huge amount of stress from moving we finally achieved our long awaited goal but now I'm having a hard time settling down. My husband is a lovely man, which is why I've turned my life upside ...

Am I being paranoid because of his previous betrayal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Ok to cut a long story short my husband cheated on me once before and I forgave him. Its not been easy and I do not want any advice on something I want to forget. I just need to know if I am now paranoid or have the right to be worried. We w...

I am married, love another man who doesn't love me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I am married for the past 10 years. I married when I was 18.My husband is 12 years elder to me. I was doing my graduationwhen we got married. Now for the past 3 years , I have a relationship with this guy who is a colleague at the instituion where I ...

My husband insists that we have a MFM! Is he gay!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Why does my husband want to have threesomes with his long time male buddy and me? When he first tried to get me to do this by playing stip video games, I was very upset and went to my bedroom alone in tears. He continued to try to get this ...

'Truth or Dare' game leads to an awful revelation by my wife! Am I over-reacting?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - I've been cruising this site on and off for a while. I like to read the questions and have even given my own advice a few times. Now it is my turn to ask for advice. My wife and I had a party last weekend. After the group dwindled down to 12 or so...

Why has he become so distant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - My husband and Ive been fighting for some time. I think he cares more for his job than for me, he's assertive and attentitive more to his job. Like, he's emotionally disattached himself from me. Our fighting has really calmed down in which th...

My husband always waits until I am at breaking point to say how sorry he is, the niceness then lasts for only weeks! I'm at my wit's end!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i have been with my husband for ten years, married six. we have 2 kids. sex was never brilliant, he has ed, but the first year was great, then it slowly got worse. i will cut this down for the average reader!!! I have over the years caught him ...

Can I forgive after he cheated and got a girl pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - How do you forgive your husband after he has cheated. And made a baby with another women during your marriage....

I was happy sleeping with other men to please my husband, but he doesn't want me to anymore.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - after we had been married about five years, my husband told me he wanted me to have sex with other men and he wanted to watch. i told him i didn't want to, but he begged and begged me to do this and i finally told him i would. he brought home a ...

We are getting divorced, so why does he keep messing with my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - In 2006 i found out my husband of 11 years was having an affair with someone he met through work in a different country. We have since seperated and getting divorced. How do i move on when i still love him and would have him back? He is still seeing ...

I slept with my wife's sister and best friend, one is now pregnant...what can I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - Hi all This is all a complete mess!!! I slept with both my wifes sister and her best friend and dont know what i can do now. They both came onto me and are so hot that i could not resist either of them... The problem i have now is t...

My husband is spending too much time with my dad, and he's neglecting me and our children!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I've become concerned about my husband lately, as in the past few months he's been spending too much time with my dad, and not enough with me and the kids (two boys, one is 6 years old, the other 8). When they first me, they got on great, and th...

HOW can I finally get over my EX??????????????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - 9 yrs after divorce and I have been remarried for most of it. However,I still battle with being in love with my ex. I left him and he was devistated but I was young and went through something pyschologically where I just didn't like to be around ...

Married less than "2 years" and no sex life!!! HELP

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Hi all, I am married for nearly 2 years, my problem is this, We have practically no sex life, it's like we are brother and sister or something just sharing the same bed. There is no passion, it's just a peck on the lips and then good night....

When should I get a pregnancy test?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - hi i was reading what you guys wrote about the Pregnancy test. Well i just had sex with my husband and something happen so i will like to know, when should i do it? I hope to hear from you guys soon byebye thanks...

How do you figure out why your wife of 30 years is always against having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - How do you figure out why your wife of 30 years is always against having sex? She always has an excuse too tired, doesn't feel well, has to go to sleep you know the drill. Is it normal for women at 50 to get this way? I am finding it hard to even ...

I'm faithful to my husband, but have been chatting online with an ex. Should I see him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 14 years and I have been 100% faithful. He does treat me well, and does everything as far as housework and cooking. Here is my problem. I spoke to my ex boyfriend like 3 weeks ago, and have been almost everyday. ...

Any ideas on how to get my husband to communicate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I have been married for 7 years and lately it is pure hell. My husband seems angry all the time and wont talk to me about anything. He gets mad if he doesnt like the breakfast I made and will continue on being mad the entire day and wont eat ...

How can he move on like that and just stop caring?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I am a married woman for about 4yrs i have two children and i am having an affair with a man who has been married for 18yrs and has two children as well. We both work together this is his part time job he works full time during the day elsewhere. We ...

I ended my affair with the family friend but he still pursues me! I'm afraid our infidelity will come out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 May 2008 (?) - I cheated on my husband with a family friend. Husband does not know.I broke it off, but he won't let me be. He is persuing the family friendship in an effort to stay close to me. He doesn't care whether our spouses find out. We each have three kids. ...

He's wonderful, but he's says inappropriate things to my friends, how can I get him to understand this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I have been married for a year to a man whom I truly believe to be the 'one' for me. He is a wonderful husband and we have a great sex life. My problem lies with his behavior towards our female friends. He is always saying things to them which ...

Lost and Confused about love and marriage. Someone please HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for about 5 years. He has been in love with me since the beginning. He lives in India, and I'm in America. I like him, but I'm not in love with him. He's lower than middle class, but planning on doing his MBA. He ...

My husbands parents hate me and I'm pregnant, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - My husbands parents hate me. His mother accused me of being a witch because I did Tarot for fun.They even offered him money not to marry me. Well we were married on June 23rd of last year, and it was wonderful. except for his parents, who even at ...

Married and confused, I'm falling out of love with my husband and in love with my ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Please Help... I am 29 years old and have been married for 6 years. I have recently had 2 children and my marriage is totally boring. My husband and I do not see eye to eye on almost every issue. We were raised and grew up completely opposite of one ...

I'm in love with two men and I don't know what to do! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - i dont know what to do i am in love with two men for different reasons. one is my husband the other is my ex....

I want sex 3-4 times a week but my wife only wants it twice a month

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - I've been married for over 10 years. My wife and I have major sex issues. She wants it a couple of times a month, and I want it 3-4 times a week. Needless to say, it is a constant struggle. The big problem, though, is (like most guys) I'm v...

How can I end this marriage making as few waves as possible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been together for almost a year and a half. I am somewhat saddened to reveal that i no longer have an desire to be with her anymore. I no longer find her attractive, and have been secretly seeing someone else. I know, I know, ...

His ex came back into his life, and now I'm wondering if I should be there for the DNA test on my husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - ive been married for 3 yrs and now got a 2 yr old son be4 me and my husband got married he already know that i have a child of my own so its not a problem to him. me and my husband is always far from each other coz of his job he is in the military. ...

My wife says she thinks about the man she had an emotional affair with, when we are together. I feel used!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

26 May 2008 (M) - I am married fo 8 years and was a virgin when I married, My wife also said that even though she had affairs there was no physical etc. Now after 8 years she says that she thinks about the guy and his physical when she is physical with me and her ...

Since our third child, my wife's sex drive has diminished so I find myself frustrated, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 May 2008 (M) - hi im im a relationship with my girlfriend for 6 years we have four children and my problem is since my 3rd child my partners sex life has gone we have done it one it 13 months and now i am get fustrated and think its time to leave what can i do...

Marriage break-up-Does anyone have any advice on how I can move forward and what is best to do first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - Feeling pretty desperate today and would be grateful for advice. I am 36 and been married for 15 years. During my 20's my marriage turned sour but it was never bad enough to leave. There has been a lot of verbal abuse and overbearing behaviour on ...

I hit my wife how do I make it up to her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

26 May 2008 (M) - I Hit my wife four months ago and can't forgive myself. We were in a heated argument and I lost my temper and slaped her in the face. I would never hurt her she is the best thing that ever happened to me and I love her and can't live without her. ...

Any tips on how to give oral? I've been trying for years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - i want to give my husband oral sex but every time i put his penis in my mouth i start to gag and i dont like the feeling. i have been trying for years to give him oral does any one have any tips how to over come this problem i have as i really want ...

Is my wife attracted to her best friend who is male?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 May 2008 (M) - I want to know if my wife is attracted to her best friend who is male? They have been friends for awhile know and I didn't really think anything of there relationship till we got drunk one night. All her attention was on him all night and they even ...

I'm only with my wife for the sake of my children. I don't want to hurt anyone, but...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

25 May 2008 (M) - Hi everyone, I have a big issue in my life right now, I am 45 years old and have been married for 15 years and have 2 wonderful teenage daughters, the thing is i no longer love my wife and we do not get on at all, i have stayed in the family home ...

My wife has always had someone else on her mind. Is our marriage worth saving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 May 2008 (M) - Hi All, I have been married for last Two and a Half years. We have known each other for about eight months before marriage. In those eight months we talked on phone and dated. Since the time we got married, my wife kept nagging about small thin...

I don't love my wife anymore, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 May 2008 (M) - Dear all, I know my wife thru internet. I live in US and she is in other country. After almost one year chatting and went there to see her. We got married. Because of the situation, she can't live with me or come here to stay with me. So she stud...

Is this email considerd cheating? please help me, I love my wife so much!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 May 2008 (M) - I wrote the following email to a friend, of whom was a girl, lets call her girl B, I wrote the email at the start of my first proper relationship with a beautiful girl i met, lets call her girl A, this was written within 2 weeks into our ...

I think my husband is chatting online often and late with a female coworker. Should I have a word with his boss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - Hi, think that my husband is staying late at work to chat up with his female co-worker via online. Ive seen him change diff towards me. He's not as attentive. He is very rude to me when I ask him if he can make it home earlier, and then when h c...

Sexual life after marriage? How does it change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 May 2008 (?) - I'm a 29 year old male, and have been thinking about how relationships change after marriage. Maybe you can share from your experiences? I am particularly concerned with the fact the few couples that I have discussed with have told me their se...

I'm married, so how do I supress the feelings for another man? Is becoming friends an option?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6055 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - I am happily married for nearly a year with my partner of almost 12 years and I love him lots. I am worried about the feelings I started to get for a guy at work. I am almost certain that this is just an infatuation but I feel so bad about this, ...

I found very intimate letters from some girl he used to hang out with who he had claimed was just a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - I was going through old boxes to pack up and move into our new house, when I came upon some letters that I had written to my husband 3 years ago when he was in jail. We just got married last year, 2007. Please do not judge him for the jail time, ...

My husband is unaffectionate and cold, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - we have been married for 2 years. before we got married, it took me a while to accept my partner as the one. he now seems to be very bitter about the rough time i gave him. before we got married, he used to be this nice guy but nowadys he is very ...

He's working so much and is so tired and depressed, I don't know how to help him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

23 May 2008 (M) - My husband is constantly depressed and there is nothing I can do to help him. He works 6 days a week, 12 hr days and is always tired. By the time he gets home at 8pm he just wants to have his dinner and go to sleep. We rarely even make love...maybe ...

A two-year marriage with big problems. Advice please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6056 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - I'm married and have a 1 year old kid, I've been married for 2 years and already their are problems, I'll make it quick and straight to the point. We moved to a new area, and got to know everyone they all seemed nice, I had the baby and then couple ...

My husband just plays computer games. Is he letting me down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - i have been with my husband coming up 5 years and married 2, i have a 9 year old son from a previous relationship, this is where one of my problems lies. my husband appears to always be on his case, puting him down, and i hate the wat e talks to ...