A
male
age
51-59,
*udiTT
writes:Dear all,I know my wife thru internet. I live in US and she is in other country. After almost one year chatting and went there to see her. We got married. Because of the situation, she can't live with me or come here to stay with me. So she studied in Canada so that a little bit closer. Well, in the first 6 months, every friday after work, I will drive from va to Toronto, really long drive, but it's worth it at that time to see her. Finally I move to Canada to be with her. But that''s not a good 2 years. She blamed me I didnt find out early to move to Canada, don't talk to her, and we don't even have sex for 2 years, she said she doesn't feel me. I try to do everything to make her happy. I am sure she did too. But that's not enough. In general, she said because she is not settle down, that's why she is like that. I do what I can to see her. I thought 2 people together should be happy. Now, I am back to US, and she went back to her country because she might be able to come and live with me. After all these years, I don't feel I love her anymore. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, :):):)  +, writes (26 May 2008):
You are both living seperate lives, it isnt suprising you have grown apart.
If you really feel that you no longer love her you should let her know.
The sooner you let her know, the sooner you can both move on with your lives.
xxx
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male
reader, Dr. John +, writes (25 May 2008):
 I am not surprised you are feeling this way.
You are isolated from your wife and you are unable to enjoy the company of your wife.
How can there be any growth progress in this relationship?
The only thing in my opinion that will save this marriage is if you are able to get together with your wife permanently so you can get to know and enjoy each other again as I'm sure it was in the begining.
The only ones that can work that out is the two of you.
I hope things work out for the both of you. Doc
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