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Archived questions from: July, 2006 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

My husband thinks my vagina should be "like a virgin"...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I have a husband. We married in 2004, but now he doesn't want sex with me because he want me like a virgin.p /> He wants my vagina should be too small. I don't know what to do to make small my vagina....

My husband isn't man enough to leave me, so should I leave HIM?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - What shoud I do? I have been married for 10 years with 2 young children. Last summer my husband told me he loved me but he wasn't in love with me anymore. I told him that love changes, but he doesn't want to listen. We have stopped having sex ...

I don't like making love with my husband, because I'm more attracted to women!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - Hi! I am in a dilemma since years. I am married and have a son of 5. I get attracted to women and do not like when my man makes love to me.. in fact I cry after he makes love to me coz I do not like it.. He does not know this.. What to do? Shou...

I tried to call off the wedding, but it caused an uproar so I still went through with it, but I now have doubts about my husband!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - Please help, I am so lost and I need some direction!! I have been married for a little over a year. I got married to a guy I met in college. We dated for about 4 years. Through the engagement I really started to feel like something wasn't right, I...

We haven't had sex for a year...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - my husban looks at porn and goes onto chat rooms then denies it when i talk about it we havent had sex since last year iknow he is wanking to this crap. help please we have been married 20year...

The whole town knows.... but how do I get solid proof my hubby is cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I suspect my husband is cheating. Its embarrassing because the whole town knows, but there is no way for me to get some solid proof that he's doing that. All the signs are there, the whole town tells me about it, he has a prepaid phone so that there ...

So hurt by my husband's philandering, that I can't show my love for him... so he cheated again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6692 days ago

25 July 2006 (F) - I'm married. My husband cheated three times that I know of. The first time left me with so much of wounds. Because of this I am not doing what I should like making love and showing love. That's why he cheated again. Now we are at a point that we ...

I want to be physical withmy husband everyday but he can't keep up.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6693 days ago

25 July 2006 (F) - my husband of 27 yrs. only can have relations with me a few times a week,and i desire almost every day...we are both very nice looking and are attracted to one another....should i go to the doctor to slow down my sex drive????...

Never thought I'd look at another guy but this married guy makes me feel sexy and alive! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I am a 32 year old women. I have been with my husband for 14 years, 7 years non married 7 years married. My problem is that I have recently met another guy who is also married. Nothing has happened between us yet except for a snog but it is quite ...

I tells me Im boring, and when it comes to sex he tells me I should buy sexier underwear!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I have been married for 10 years my husband is close to 40 years of age, we have 3 kids, of late he has shut me out, tells me i am boring, i must wake up and smell the coffee, when it comes to sex and ask whats wrong i get told i should buy sexier ...

My husband has given up on our marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

23 July 2006 (F) - I have always been led to believe that a marriage is based on trust,understanding honesty and a degree of compromise. so when after 10yrs and two kids later i found our sex life going dramatically downhill( i couldnt achieve an orgasm because m...

He had an affair with his 21-year old niece and it is destroying me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - I have been married for 11 years.After my second child was born my husband never showed me any affection. We have not had sex, not even a cuddle in 8 years of our marriage.Both of his parents died of cancer within 4 weeks of eachother at the ...

Is my husband wondering eye away of him telling me done with me!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

21 July 2006 (F) - My spouse of 16 years is staring at women other than me Yet he says he loves me shows it and stands by me except the wandering eye problem which he has had for three or four years. I asked him to stop as it is lack of respect he said he will i a...

My wife makes our family holidays a misery!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - Whenever our family go on holiday my wife seems determined to spoil it for everyone. Last year she spent two days looking very annoyed, then, blew up at me for something trivial (the entrance fee to a waxworks would you believe, it wasn't even as ...

My husband thinks i'm having it off with a Priest!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - My husband hates the fact I am friendly with our parish priest. He has gone into a rage cos he saw me talking to him in the town and accused me of sleeping with him. I like the priest as a friend and feel nothing towards him in a sexual way. In my ...

I really hate sex, but my husband wants it all the time, please help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - i am 30+ and i have 3 boys 15,10,3 and my husband want sex all the time. i hate sex please help me.. at one time in my life i liked it but now i just dont want it and i will find anything to avoid it. and my husband gets very mad ... please please ...

I'm worried about my husband's cocaine addiction. He's stealing from me and lying about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6699 days ago

19 July 2006 (F) - I met my husband when I was 14 and am now 24. We have been married for 4 years with 4 girls aged 8, 4, 3 and 1. We lost a baby boy in 2004, a few weeks before the 2nd aniversary back in May my husband started taking cocaine. He said he needed it to ...

Affairs, advice from those who know.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

19 July 2006 (F) - hello..a question to those of you having affairs(come on you know you're out there)i have begun an affair but have no intention of leaving my husband for my lover and neither does my lover want or expect me to. we are both happy about this decision ...

My cheating hubby and the other womens crazy family! Stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - I have been with my husband since I was 16. We have 2 perfect children. We were having problems in our marriage that resulted in him leaving every time he got mad and he cheated on me with one of his now ex-friends girlfriends who is 10 years ...

Porn obsessed husband or great sex ex? hmm!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6700 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - Hi, i have been married for nearly 3 years (and have been married before). The thing is, it firstly stated out with my hubby hiding porn from me which made me feel useless, he borrowed my mobile for a bit then i gave it to my dad only to be ...

I've been snooping on my wife's phone and found she's still in touch with her highschool sweetheart... Do I have the right to ask her to stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6702 days ago

16 July 2006 (M) - I'm having trust issues with my wife. We have been together for six years and have been married for less than a year.I found out by checking her cell phone that she still communicates with a former lover who was also her high school sweetheart. When ...

I sprung my husband with his online chatting and he's keeping keeping truths from me. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

14 July 2006 (F) - I've been married to my husband for the past 7 years and I just recently, about two months to be exact, found out that he had posted himself on a dating website. He got busted by me and he claims that he never made an attempt to meet up with these ...

Married with 2 kids and moving. They've moved ahead of me but I'm living with my Russian girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6704 days ago

13 July 2006 (M) - I am 31 years old, married for 8 years with 2 children ages 3 and 1. I am in love with another woman, a brilliant, lovely, sweet woman from Russia living in America named "Elena". I am 100 percent certain that she is my soulmate. I told her that ...

Why would she do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

13 July 2006 (F) - A friends wife has gone off sex totally and has admitted to not liking to be touched at all. Any ideas?...

In an abusive relationship and I feel stranded

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6706 days ago

12 July 2006 (F) - I am married and have only known my husband for 2 years. We have a 15 month old son together. We have separated once for six months because of abuse. But he is only on a peace bond as I told the courts I lied about the assaults although I hadn't. I ...

We are married, want children but there is no sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6706 days ago

12 July 2006 (F) - Hi, we have not been married long, we love each other so much and get on fantastically. There is just one problem, we want a family and our sex life is non exsistant. The flame is not there, OK maybe a bit more for me but not at all for him. Any ...

My husband doesn't want time with me or our kids!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - My husband spends all his time either at work (self employed, part time) or playing casino games on the pc or out with his friends. When I ask him to do something with me he moans and replies he doesn't enjoy doing that (like going to a movie) or ...

So many problems... can this marriage be saved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6705 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - How do you know when a marriage has run its course? Is it when after 10 yrs together and your husband still won't compromise on even the smallest thing, like who gets a lie-in at the weekend because he works and you spend all your time raising the...

I'm married but my school crush is back in contact, 15 years on...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - I've recently been contacted by an old school mate who I had a crush on 15 years ago. We've been chatting online frequently and he has now told me he is in love with me and wants us to meet. I'm married but can't stop thinking about him. What ...

I think I've caused all his problems... Is divorce the answer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - Hi, I am writing because I have a huge problem and need some advice! I have been suffering for the past weeks lack of sleep and anxiety. I am 41 years old, 10 years married, no children, living over seas since 2002 in a country where my husband´s ...

My mother in law doesnt want us to marry!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - Dear Cipid I have a fiance whom I got engaged on 16th April 2006. We want to get married on 19th August 2006. The problem isthat my Mother-inlaw doesent want the wedding to take place since my fiance is a bread winner for the family. She thi...

Not sure if I ever loved him, is it possible that I ever could ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6708 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - Need help and guidence from anyone who has been in a similar sitation and can help me make my decision... I have the hardest decision in the world to make and I need to make it soon as I don't want to have this hanging round my neck any longer....

No sex from my husband. I'm only 33 and I can't stand it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - I've been married for 5 years. My husband is using heart medication - it was a very mild heart attack over a year ago which he has completely recovered from - yet is stuck on these heart meds for life now. But he uses this as his reason for not ...

How do I get over my wife's affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6698 days ago

9 July 2006 (M) - although my wife's affair has ended I cannot stop thinking about it, even during sex. another major problem is her friends and family who knew about the affair, her sister even let her use her flat, other friends lied for her, other friends ...

Marriage is slowly falling apart but we want to turn it around

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6710 days ago

8 July 2006 (M) - Hi, This is my first question here. I wish I didn't have to ask it, but I do.. My wife and I are having problems, we both feel as though the spark has left out relationship. We dont really make love anymore, we hardly spend any time togethe...

My husband seems to care more for my sister than for me, and we've been rowing over it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6710 days ago

7 July 2006 (F) - Hey guys, Listen, I have a problem. My husband and I had a terrible row, based on what he said to me has since being very overfriendly with my sister. He says that he finds her soothing, loving and comforting. Once at a party, one of my friends said ...

I'm 22, married but have a spark with a co-worker!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6710 days ago

7 July 2006 (M) - I am a married man of 2 years now, im 22 years old, and i have been through the ups and downs with my wife, and am currently in marriage counseling, well what it has been now for about a wwek is i have a co-worker that i have worked with for about 1 ...

I married her out of laziness, now she's pregnant and I worship someone else!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

6 July 2006 (M) - In 1998 a girl invaded my life. Through neglect or simple laziness, I went out with her without complaining, even though she grated with me. She idolised me. Five years on and the relationship was still there, again through my laziness to tell her ...

I can't help my attraction to my husband's friend... and I have to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6712 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - God Help me. I've done it again...I'd been seeing my husband's friend a few times and though there was kissing we never had sex and about a month ago we agreed to stop. however because we all socialise in the same group things were difficult a...

I found out my husband cheated four times!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6712 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - hey guys how are you I have discovered that my husband has committed adultery with 4 other women I want a divorce and I do not know how to go about it iam in a very difficult situation as I have no where to go0...

My wife revealed her real past and I'm finding it difficult

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

6 July 2006 (M) - My wife of 9 years has recently got back in touch with an ex-boyfriend. She admitted a few weeks later to having been on a date with him, but insists nothing happened. However, she felt she could talk to him about everything, and that she was fed up ...

After two years of marriage he says he's gone and says he doesn't love me... What next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6712 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - My Husband after only two years of marriage announced a week ago that he doesn't love me anymore and left. He said he needed time to think which I respected then he phoned two days later to tell me the our marriage is over. He has already moved all ...

I adore someone who is not my wife

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6584 days ago

6 July 2006 (M) - I have been married for over ten years. I have a loving relationship with my wife, but I know something is missing on my part. I have never adored my wife and don't know how or if I ever can feel this way towards her. We both brought pretty heavy ...

My husband just left me-he says I am holding him back but I found a suspicious e-mail. I don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6713 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - My huband is navy. He comes out in two years. He has just walked out on me just an hour ago. He says that i am holding him back and he wants more out of life. He says he is worried sick about the future. but i found a ripped up email he had sen...

Discovered a photo of another man in my marital bed..! What next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6712 days ago

5 July 2006 (M) - Since discovering a few months ago that the likelihood of me fathering a child was very slim, my wife of 5 years has lost any interest in me. I have now recently disovered a photo on her phone of another man in my bed. I don't want to lose her but ...

I suspect my wife my be a lesbian!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6711 days ago

5 July 2006 (M) - Please can you help me sort out my problem? I suspect my wife is having a lesbian relationship but I cannot prove it and would like some advice if you think she is bi-sexual. I have been married for 10 years now my age is 38 and my wife’s 43. ...

I'm ready for a family now, but my husband wants to wait and keeps putting it off!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6709 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - I'm 31 and have been married for just over 10 months and the problem is that I am ready to start having a family, but my husband want to leave it 'for a few years.' The thing is, he seemed very keen on children before we got married and I know deep ...

My wife just isn't interested in sex, and it's driving me mad!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6712 days ago

3 July 2006 (?) - Hi, I have a question. I'm 27. I'm in marriage that's devoid of affection and sex, and I'm losing my mind. Basically, I'm the only man on the planet not having regular sex, and the sexual fustration makes me deeply depressed. My wife is cool per...