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writes: A friends wife has gone off sex totally and has admitted to not liking to be touched at all. Any ideas?
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (17 July 2006):
 Why don't you try to communicate with her? Aske her why?!?! You may be surprised by the answer.
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reader, SwimGirl26380 +, writes (17 July 2006):
 I think that possibly, she may have some fears about the relationship. Maybe she regrets getting married and thought she might be able to find someone more suitable. Again, she may also have fears relating to her body or fear being committed to one person forever - she may wonder if she made the right choice.
The point is, I think it has to do with fear. Again, I can't stress enough, that it would help her to discuss this with her husband and even a counselor.
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reader, angelheart +, writes (14 July 2006):
angelheart is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice but it goes deeper than that with her. She recently started sex with her husband due to it being their wedding anniversary weekend. but has admitted of late that she hated every minute of it and couldn't wait for it to be over. She says its something in her head that makes her think this way. Do you think this is the case or is she just playing him?
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reader, SwimGirl26380 +, writes (13 July 2006):
I agree with Yos's post - that her lack of interest in sex could be related to stress. She really needs to talk to her partner. Also, she could be upset about something in her relationship or she could have possibly found someone else. It could also be a health concern or she could feel unattractive in some way. These are all just possibilities - the only way to know for sure is for her and her partner to have a serious and in-depth discussion about it.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (13 July 2006):
 There are hundreds of reasons why this could be happening.
She may have a problem somewhere in here life that is not to do with sex, but that is stressing her out. Result: no sex drive. Or she could be feeling unnattractive and 'un-sexy' for some reason. Or it could be a symptom of some unresolved relationship issue.
The only way to find out is to have a careful considered conversation about it. She is the only one who knows the answer, she has to find a way to discover it.
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