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Archived questions from: June, 2012 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Each thing I say or do he takes the wrong way, it makes me sad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Hi, I know this guy and it was love at first sight between us. Kinda weird because we never met in real life, and I never believed in love at first sight before him. We were obsessed with each other, always on the phone or videochatting. Please d...

I've told him he needs to change ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I can't decide whether to break up with my boyfriend of 7 months. We've known each other for years and have been good friends, although living in different countries (we're still in a long distance relationship). Last year, on a visit to see him he ...

I am in a LDR and I am frustrated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I am not happy that my once good normal loving relationship of over 2 years has turned into a long distance one (about 6 hours apart - my boyfriend moved for work because he had to transfer or lose his job in a downsize). I don't really want to ...

Why haven't I met his friends yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I've been with my bf for almost a year now in somewhat of a long distance relationship. We live an hour from each other and only see each other on weekends when he comes and spends the whole weekend with me. In the whole time I've known him, I've ...

How do I get my online LDR girlfriend back? She broke up with me because she said being gay was against her faith.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - i'm lesbian and two weeks ago my girlfrind broke up with me after nearly three months. Its a long distance relationship. At first our relationship was great but there were issues. She'd tell me i upset her or made her angry because i didn't a...

My boyfriend is too sensitive, and I'm tired of being so cautious around him !

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - This is a very weird question...and I've been trying to write this properly since ages but I just can't seem to find the right words. So please bear with me! My boyfriend lives abroad and works in shifts. He can only call me when he's on a break,...

Boyfriend is withdrawns since I told him I loved him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hi, I really need some advice. I've been dating my boyfriend for 7months were in a long distance relationship so I only see him fortnightly. At first things were great lots of fun and would tell me he misses me and was very loving, but I made ...

My boyfriend has extreme anxiety and we are in a LDR !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4529 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - Hello all, I need some help. My bf has extreme anxiety when it comes to news things,people,and places. Since we are in an LDR, this causes some problems. He has flown to see me 3 times already, but it took an ultimatum for him to get the courage ...

I find boyfriend's friend hitting on me exciting!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - My bf is out of town for a couple months for a job. I'm working and going to school in a town where I really only know people I've met through him. Lately I've been spending time out and about with one of his friends here in town that I think is a ...

He ended what I thought was a great relationship, what happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Hello everyone I have a problem which i would like to see if anyone could shed some light on. I met a guy 8 months ago and we stayed in contact with each other for 8 months, he lived 4 hours away at the time but recently moved 1 hour away, so fr...

How should I handle my insecure and jealous boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Here is a background of me and my boyfriend. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-not-a-talker-but-my-ldr.html My boyfriend has a few times said to me that because I am quiet on the phone, he thinks I am distant, and that I must be talking w...

My Mother seems obsessed about trying to break up my brother's relationship with his Gf. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - ok my question is in regards to my brother and my mom. My brother A has always been a mamas boy and she has ALWAYS been obsessed with him and in his business. A is the dream kid, has always just let her be her over bearing self and smiled and s...

How can I approach him without seeming like I'm nagging? Think my Bf is seeing another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - Iv been dating a guy for 3 months and half everything was going on when my dad found out about us and prevented us from seeing each other, because he claims im too young So now we've been secretly dating. We were schooling together but now we are f...

I've never met my LDR boyfriend but he wants to feel like he's got a bigger part of my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

23 June 2012 (F) - Hi,I met my boyfriend online he lives in another country we're ina LDR and we're very in love, we talk to each other for hours everyday via skype etc... and we're planing to meet next october. We totally trust each other and do our best to make...

Would it be a mistake to go running off after a fling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

23 June 2012 (F) - Ok I have a dilemma. Ive met a wonderful man I just feel absolutely amazing when im with him. Hes just one of those men who really wants to make his woman happy. I dnt mean like a whimp but like a real man would want. BUT, HE LIVES IN PENNSYLVANIA ...

My boyfriend is jealous when I dance salsa....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - So...7 months ago I started a long distance relationship with a man I met online. We talked on the phone for a month before meeting in person. We have a lot in common and he's very attractive. The problem is his jealousy. When we first started ...

I'm ashamed of how angry I got when I found duplicates of text messages to me sent to other women!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I been seeing a man in USA and I am in Canada about 6 months. We were having everyother weekend together. I just spent 3 beautiful days with him. I thought we were falling inlove, While sleeping somehow he hit me with his...

Boyfriend coming home to look after me, but...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - My boyfriend lives and works overseas and he comes home every 6 weeks or so. The last week I have been very ill and have spent two non-consecutive nights in hospital. He's coming back this weekend to take care of me. His condition, however, is for ...

I'm really jealous when my girlfriend goes out with her girl mate!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - Hey I don't like to think I'm the jealous type but since i've been with my new girlfriend i've been getting really jealous when she goes out with her girl mate, I wouldn't be bothered if I lived near her and seen her often but I don't get to see h...

Who do I choose, my partner or my family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - hello, i love my partner dearly but he lives away from me and i am with my family at the moment. my partner has asked me to move with him but im torn. i love being with my family and i know i would miss them a lot, especially since i would not...

He says he loves me and cares for me, but his actions say otherwise....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - Hi, I've been in a kinda long distance relationship we see one another between every and 4 weekly and on our2nd holiday we had our first dusagreement mostly steming from feelings.it come to ahead with me asking him if he wanted to split, he said n...

Long distance relationship.....how do we plan our future together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

20 June 2012 (F) - Hello! I'm in a long distance relationship and we're really in love with each other, however we never met but he's planning to come from Germany to my country when he graduates next october to meet for the first time... he says that he wants to ...

LDR broke up..does she just need space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

19 June 2012 (M) - Ok so my long distance girlfriend in Chicago broke up with me a few weeks back over her self esteem issues. Well when we talked 2 weeks ago she said for now we are on a break. She is open to us getting back together once im moved up there in ...

We want to get married, but I'm afraid the process wont be easy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

19 June 2012 (F) - Hiiiii dera cupid.....i m 18 yrs old indian muslim girl nd i m in love with a pakistani guy of age 21....we both r planning to get marry after 1 yr...we both met online..i dont know how i fallen in love with him i really dont know..he is a great ...

Boyfriend is stressed and acting like he wants nothing to do with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

19 June 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 10 months. 4 have been long distance because he got a real good job out of state and moved, and I stayed where I am for now. The last week and a half he has been real distant. He is trying to buy a house and ...

Does a cyber relationship has a possibility to become true in the real world?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

19 June 2012 (F) - I am currently in an online relationship with a US Army in the middle east who is married. I don't really want to get myself into this kind of relationship that makes me the third party, and on the internet for that matter, but i just can't help ...

I might get dirty on the phone but I am not ready for sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

19 June 2012 (F) - My boyfreind has been away for some time now,we do comunicate ,chat and get naughty on the phone(dirty).I am a virgin and he has made it clear that when he comes back his going to f*** me,now mi feel am not ready for sex,hw do i make undertand ...

My boyfriend and I broke up. Were we just not meant to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 June 2012 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend broke up because we had too. We didn't want it to , we wished we could stay together longer. The factors that play In it is that 1. He is moving 2. My parents do not want me to date 3. No matter what happened when we we...

Can feelings of love develop or should they already have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

17 June 2012 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and see him every couple of weeks due to distance and we've been on holidays together. We had a talk about feelings and he told me he has feelings for me but doesn't love me but wants us to stay toget...

We're in different countries. How do I tell him online that I'm in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (?) - Dear agony aunts, How do I tell this guy through facebook or twitter that I like him. In fact, I'm in love with him although we've only spoken a couple of times and it's been a while...we both left the town we met in..it's been like two years a...

When we are both back in Canada and at opposite ends of the country...will it be worthwhile having LD relationship with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (M) - Hey guys, So I'm in Europe last week backpacking and my friends and i meet these women. Long story short I totally hit it off with this one woman who was also from Canada but a different province, but she is living in France for a year due to her j...

I'm struggling to stop looking at porn but its very difficult!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

17 June 2012 (M) - Hello, I am attempting to stop looking at porn because it is hurting my girlfriend's feelings. She likens it to cheating or is afraid that it will lead to me cheating. I love her more than anything and that is reason enough to try to stop, and I ...

Finally, I'd like to settle down with my LDR. But now he's being distant. Have others had a similar change of heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F) - I started dating this guy about a year ago. I liked him and was attracted to him but didn't think of him as being potentially "the one" as we were in vey different stages of our lives (me all settled with a good career, money etc and him basically ...

I'm worried I like him more than he likes me. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

16 June 2012 (F) - I met this guy about a month ago when I visited my friend out of town. They are roommates. My friend has told me that he is a very nice guy etc. We hit it off really well, hung out a lot, got physical but didn't have sex. Until I met him I had ...

My mother isn't happy about me dating a woman in Japan 9 years older than me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

15 June 2012 (M) - I think I've fallen in love with a Japanese Lady I've met on the internet, but I'm having problems with my mum accepting it. Back in 2009 I joined a penpal website, I never had any intention to find a GF or someone I loved and just wanted to learn ...

I am not a talker but my LDR boyfriend keeps me on the phone

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

15 June 2012 (F) - I met my boyfriend online and it has been 7 months. He lives an hour away in a house in the rural with an 87 year old dad. He commutes 1 hour each way to work in the city. I live in the city. He visits me once a week but sometimes once in two weeks ...

We've been dating on the phone, I'm already in love with him, do you think he changed his mind about me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (F) - hie,went to a party and met this guy he liked me n asked for my number,we exchanged numbers.we had been communicating on fone for abt a month,we hav been dating for abt 7 weeks nw ,he lives 2hs away from my place.we had agreed to meet and talk one ...

Would someone who is simply a friend invite me over like this? Is there more here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (M) - Hi all, it's been many years since i've been back on this site and i've grown a lot since then. I'm currently 22, turning 23. I used to write a lot about one girl like 6 yrs ago.... whom i was very nervous around.... well 6 yrs of online chatting ...

My LDR boyfriend is into anal sex and doesn't like the way my vagina looks

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (F) - This is kind of embarrassing but here we go. I have been in a LDR for several years. Not long after we started dating my boyfriend talked me into, um, pleasuring myself on camera for him. So I did and it's become a regular thing where we do it ...

Do you think a virtual relationship can become a real relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2813 days ago

12 June 2012 (F) - Hi! My question is: do you think a virtual relationship can become a real relationship? OK, if you want to know why I'm asking this question, just read my story below, if it's too long for you just answering my question will be enough :)! S...

What to do with my relationship, parents and bf not getting along, am I being blind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F) - (Hi, I'm new here) Ok, recently I got really caught up in a huge mess for sure. It's a pretty long story but I have to start from there so that I can give my fellow answerers the info they need. Sorry, I know it's alot to read... ---- My bf a...

He's moving for better work opportunities, but we've been lovers and friends for 10 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

11 June 2012 (F) - Hello I have a issue, I have had a very good friend and lover for ten years and I really love him! We have a great time together great conversation and everything. He lost his job and he has bee out of work for some time now. So now hes moving to ...

I broke up with my boyfriend for him and now I'm wondering, was he using me? Does he have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4544 days ago

11 June 2012 (F) - Hello, I have a question to ask. So iv known this guy for 4 years and we dated for 2 years on and off (he works on cruise ships, so i see him every 6 months for a weekend at a time) Anyway, i found out he slept with a girl on holiday and i to...

I'm not one of the priorities in my boyfriend's life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4549 days ago

7 June 2012 (F) - hi everyone im in a long distance relationship situation i am feeling that im not the priority by my boyfriend and im not sure whether im part of his plans or enter in his world, he just visited here last few months, weve been 2 years knew ...

I want to know if this LDR could work!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

7 June 2012 (F) - Sooo i met a guy at a street party a couple of days ago and I just felt something there already... Hes 20 and Im 18. we met two days after at a big party and spent the night together there where we kissed and talked and so on. He has left to where ...

I cannot get over that my girlfriend had a guy bigger than me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

7 June 2012 (M) - My girlfriend has a high sex drive, compared to other girls I have been with at least. She likes sex. Plain and simple. She told me that she had a one night stand with a "larger guy" one night when we were well, fooling around. She said it hurt, bu...

Is my LDR boyfriend not happy with me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F) - hello everyone. i really need an advice. im in a long distance relationship were been almost 9 months but we knew each other about 2 years. his 13 years older than me, and he lives in australia and i lived in singapore. recenly past few days hes ...

My Long Distance girlfriend says wr are on a break cause of her low self esteem but wants to remain friends. Is this a good sign of us getting back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

6 June 2012 (M) - I allready made a post about this a few days ago but i thought id do a diffrent one. Anyway so my long distance girlfriend in Chicago basically blew up on me a week in a half ago. She pretty much broke up with me via txt. I didnt talk to her for a ...

Should I cheat on him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

5 June 2012 (F) - Ok ok I can do this _ SO! This is my first question on a site like this so... If this question is dumb please be gentle.. Sooo I have a boyfriend I love him a lot! The thing is it's long distance and things get a bit... lonely.. He's a total video ...

I lied about who I was and have lost the trust of my ldr boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 June 2012 (F) - Ok, so it's a very long story; I'm a huge liar, or was a huge liar now I'm just a regular liar I guess. Ever since I was 13 I adopted a persona that I would use for online purposes. Things got weird when I started to actually value this life more ...