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30-35,
*ram
writes:Hiiiii dera cupid.....i m 18 yrs old indian muslim girl nd i m in love with a pakistani guy of age 21....we both r planning to get marry after 1 yr...we both met online..i dont know how i fallen in love with him i really dont know..he is a great guy..he belongs to india i mean his mother is an indian..for me i really believe that love doesnt bother the distances nd other things..so my question is that if i marry him so is there any problem or hurdles that should be faced by us..we both decided to live in third country..so what r the hurdles that should be face by both of us..does our goverment allow us to do so..is our marriage become a public issue..plzzzzzzzzz help me i m very dipressed......
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (21 June 2012):
 Visiting India is a different thing,you spending time with him is important..
Don't make hast decisions like I said before get to know him even if it takes two years..
Running away from home means cutting contacts with your family,in the future if you ever have problems(god forbid)u'l need your family..don't make it difficult from them and you!
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reader, eram +, writes (20 June 2012):
eram is verified as being by the original poster of the question He visited india three or four times..
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (19 June 2012):
 It is unwise to marry someone you have never met in person. Online relationships are a lot different than relationships in the real world. You need to see how he is in the real world, how he fuctions, and what he is really like. Sometimes online people will make themselves look really good. Then when you meet them, they will be anything but ideal. I am not saying your guy is bad, but you won't know until you meet/date/see him in person. Please do not marry until you know who he is and what he believes in. There was another post on here of a girl who moved to another country to marry and now she is in a terrible situation with a husband she fears. Please do not leave your home, culture, and everything you know until you are absolutely sure of this online relationship.
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reader, cute angel +, writes (19 June 2012):
Hey there,First off I knw so many people who have had these online relationships,they talk and text all day long..they are head over heels over a guy they talk online,finally when they meet not everything is as sweet as it was before..at first when your talking to a guy,your computer is your shield but its a different thing talking to that same person face to face..I am not saying all online relationships end up like this,most of them do..I had a friend who was talking to this guy online for 2 years,they both thought they were in love,they met each other and realised there's so much more they need to know,sometimes they were even out of things to say to each other..What's important here is you meet the guy face to face,spend time with him get to know him better,running with him to a third world country is just juvenile!ur just 18 and u must be inspired by romeo and juliet to fight for your love but you'v got to be practical..don't give up on your love but make sure he is the right guy..!don't take hasty decisions your young you have the world in front of you,right now marriage,running away may all sound easy and right thing to do,but may be 10 years later u'l look back and think why you did it,so don't regret,take it sloww..meet the guy then decide what you want to do..All the best x
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reader, bearN +, writes (19 June 2012):
 I have some Questions to ask you :
1) have you met the guy face to face ?
2) Does his mom know about you ?
3) Has he ever been to India.
Unless you meet a guy face to face never ever believe something good will take place. Maybe he loves you . But its always safe to make him come down to India and see each other. Rather than taking a life time decision online, Moreover I see you guys are so young to get married. lol definitively you might say that 18 yrs above is a legal age.
But i am not satisfied that you should proceed for marriage
tc
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